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19 year old girl, just wishing I was less confused.

Is there any truth to these lies and excuses from my husband?

Q.   On 3 different occasions I found condoms in my husbands truck. To start with, ever since he got this truck it never left his side and after awhile I noticed he was going out of his way to make sure I couldn't go in there. He would lock it up and ...

A.   16 January 2013: You are smart enough and now you need to be strong enough. You don't need to put up with this. There are ways around money, but if you really want to make things work, then that man needs help and needs to change. I guess if you are wiling to ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend admitted she had a crush on another guy. Is this acceptable?

Q.   After questioning her, my girlfriend admitted to having a crush on another guy two years ago, which was still ln our relationship. I kind of expected it but still, it hurts. Is this acceptable?...

A.   14 January 2013: Um, its acceptable if you let it be. If you love her, then I guess you'd just have to get over it, as sad as it sounds. As long as she has no feelings for him anymore and isn't keeping any contact with him.... (read in full...)

Why does he only phone me from work? Why doesn't he answer when I call him? Could he be playing me?

Q.   Okay PLEASE HELP. So I am 19. Keep in mind I have always had a very old soul and countless people have told me this. I am not your average teenager I should probably be older I act like it... Anyways. I have always liked older guys. Recently, ...

A.   14 January 2013: Thank you all for taking the time to help me out. I am listening to you all because you are all saying the same thing. Thank you so much.... (read in full...)

They stop caring after a short time. I think that I DESERVE romance! Is it too much to ask?

Q.   I'll start by saying this: I've never been overly obsessed with romance, like I've never chased it, if it happens then it happens. I'm 19 and I've never had anything romantic, I've never even been on a proper date, the guys I go for get comforta...

A.   14 January 2013: I am in the same exact boat as you & I wish we both weren't in it. Yes you absolutely deserve romance in your life. People say love can't be like in the movies, but it can be. Why not have a magical experience with it? You should be with someone who ... (read in full...)

She posts everything we do on facebook!

Q.   im with this girl that is say young enough to be my daughter. i love her very much and i even ended a long term marriage for her. but lately i have been thinking about things she put on facebook when we were dating. i told her one night when we were ...

A.   13 January 2013: All of these people replying are being a tad bit harsh. We are not here to judge, but to help another out. Anyways, I am 19. I post a lot on facebook/twitter/instagram. Its just kind of how this generation is. I don't know the exact age differ... (read in full...)

He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?

Q.   Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...

A.   13 January 2013: Well I am in your same situation as far as liking a man. I am 19 and he is 29. Basically, the heart does indeed want what it wants. Do what you feel, i cant stress that enough. Eventually if you keep dating him your parents will see how serious you ... (read in full...)

Should I give serious thought to reconciling with my ex, or is it finally time to move on?

Q.   My ex-boyfriend and I started talking again. For some reason, it seems to be a reoccurring thing where we’ll go for awhile without talking and then, he’ll re-enter my life. Under the circumstances, however, we’ve agreed to be friends. And that’s all ...

A.   13 January 2013: My answer, is YES. Go see him. It has been four years, and what have you got to lose? The reward of going to see him is much greater than the downfall of what could come from it. If you do, who knows what amazing things could stem from it. Follow ... (read in full...)

My Bf will be so hurt. I cheated over Christmas with a work colleague. What should I do now?

Q.   Need some advice,I understand if you judge me, I hate myself for it..... Me and my boyfriend of 2 years went through a miserable period over Christmas, felt really down about it. I had my works Christmas party where I found myself really drunk, ...

A.   13 January 2013: We all make mistakes girl. Myself included. Honestly just do what feels right. If you don't tell him you're not an awful person, you just have to deal with what you did and make sure he doesn't find out, as shitty as that sounds. But think of it ... (read in full...)

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