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Is it true all men want to cheat?

Q.   I got in a disagreement earlier with my mom and brother that really made me upset. I won't go into how we got onto this subject, but my mom and brother were telling me that all men cheat or want to cheat, and that for me to believe otherwise is ...

A.   17 October 2010: Well, I agree with most of the posters here that not all men want to cheat. HOWEVER. gonna quote my friend here... "I had this epiphany- Marriage was a great idea back in the day because people didn’t live as long! You died when you were 3... (read in full...)

Trying to make a change!

Q.   When the questions are coming into your head, and they're destined to be answered. Maybe a young shy girl who may have had a bit of reality, can try to give you a helpful hypothesis. So why does our planet revolve around the center of Drugs, Crime, ...

A.   17 October 2010: Soo... what are you asking here?... (read in full...)

My married teacher simply by surely flirts on me

Q.   im 18, and now a college student. and i was really intersted to know if my former 33 year old teacher when i was in highschool likes me even though he is married with 2 children already. and here's how the story happened.. im 4th year highscho...

A.   17 October 2010: Dating people who have kids/ a wife is kind of a big no-no. I think giving him your number might have been a bad idea. What business does a 33-year-old PE teacher have calling one of his former students? Sounds suspicious to me.... (read in full...)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   14 October 2010: I don't think "real" girls being enough for a man is the issue here... it sounds like you have some pretty serious self-esteem and self-worth issues. If you're seriously considering surgery based off of the answers these men gave you, I'd seek ... (read in full...)

Help! Is my penis small?

Q.   I'm barely 6" long and about 5 1/2" in girth. I feel small based on reactions I get from women. What is considered a small penis? Am I really small? Women seem pleased, and I make them orgasm most of the time, so I dont know why I get that "oh, ...

A.   14 October 2010: Well, you cant exactly expect women to grin when they see a dong. Penises aren't the most beautiful things to look at. You seem average. Don't worry about it.... (read in full...)

Why do you answer to these questions?

Q.   I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...

A.   13 October 2010: I don't believe in god. I just believe in alleviating people's problems.... (read in full...)

Has anyone had a threesome just to keep their partner?

Q.   Has anyone had a threesome just to keep their partner? How did this work out?...

A.   7 October 2010: Not only will you regret having a threesome, but this can actually end up making relations with your partner even more awkward. I hate to use the slippery slope theory, but if you give in to a threesome I feel like eventually he's just going to... (read in full...)

Boy drama, help me out... wanna make him miss me!

Q.   Ok so me and my ex have been on/off for the last 4 years. We go throught different stages, nice and bad. The bad where we just seem to argue and he breaks up with me. He goes sour and never wants to talk to me. He is super stubborn. He says a few ...

A.   7 October 2010: If he doesn't like you anymore, he doesn't like you anymore. You can't force someone into missing you or liking you again. Besides, he sounds like a complete jerk.... (read in full...)

Is he creepy? Or just a freak?

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I have officially not been dating for over a year now but we still basically were together but without the title. We would still be, i guess you could call it, sexting, but it was never raunchy or over the top or anything. Well ...

A.   6 October 2010: If he likes saying it, he's kinky. If it makes you uncomfortable, I'd advise not to be around him much longer. The longer you let the relationship go, the more likely it is that he's going to ask you do some of these disgusting things, whatever... (read in full...)

Boyfriend makes me feel beholden to him and its making me sick

Q.   Looking for some advice!! I'm a 47yr old woman who it seems has got a realtionship all wrong again..or have I? Maybe its me??!! I'm with a guy who's 50..he runs his own business..and he is very financially sound. He likes to let me know of this...i...

A.   6 October 2010: Well, if you aren't happy with him I say either: A.) Call him out on his issue or B.) Kick him to the curb. Obviously, he enjoys the fact that he is so wealthy (and incredibly egotistical), but this stresses you out. It kind of seems like y... (read in full...)

Why is so much more expressive now?

Q.   My boss came on to me and for months tried to get me to mess around with him. He would rub up against me and grab me in places. When I finally gave in, the sexual relationship continued up until I got another job. During the entire time, he never ...

A.   6 October 2010: Just sounds like he wants to screw around to me. Maybe he's trying to win you over again, so he's being more intimate.... (read in full...)

My addiction to sex is causing problems!

Q.   Hello all, I don't know how to go on about my situation but I'm addicted to sex. Its really embarrassing but I know I need advice. I have stopped masturbating for almost 2months now but I know there is a problem because whenever I talk to girls, e...

A.   6 October 2010: Well, this is pretty normal for your age group. If you're in your early 20's, chances are you're still very hormonal and seeking a good sexual partner. From experience, the best way to keep sex off your mind is to keep occupied. Draw, write, r... (read in full...)

Why did my ex call me a stalker online?

Q.   Me and My ex used to chat on gmail. I created that account for us only. And then I added few other friends with whom I chat often. He is always there online blinking but i never buzzed him or talked with him. Suddenly one morning, he typed in custom ...

A.   6 October 2010: Just ignore it. If you aren't talking, you aren't talking.... (read in full...)

Married with kids and I have a crush on my doctor!

Q.   Help!!! Any advise out there about getting over a crush? I am in my forties married to the man of my dreams and have two beautiful kids but can't get my MD out of my head! I did not really like him at first but then he started flirting with me and ...

A.   6 October 2010: Well, it just sounds like you enjoy the attention. You probably like it because your husband doesn't flirt with you as much anymore. The way to fix this is to re-connect with your husband. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Why do I feel hurt seeing her with another guy when I am the one that ended the relationship?

Q.   I have just broken up (6 weeks ago) with my gf of two years. She has a small daughter and really wanted to get married. My intentions were also to get married. But I always felt that she was not in love with me. For example not all that eager to ...

A.   6 October 2010: Well, obviously you still like/love her a lot. The fact that she didn't reciprocate those feelings still gets to you, especially seeing her with another man. Trust me, a lot of break ups end up like this. I know it sounds cliche, but time heals all ... (read in full...)

Struggling to concieve.....

Q.   Hi, I am young and I want a baby, we have a decent income and a home but i am having a very hard time getting pregnant but I do have a monthly cycle. I am even beginning to get depressed but I am often ok because I do understand that i have time ...

A.   6 October 2010: If you've had chlamydia twice, there's a very high risk of you being infertile as chlamydia is oftentimes symptomless. I'd definitely go to a doctor and have a fertility test.... (read in full...)

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