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Could I be pregnant even though I had my period?

Q.   long story short me an my boyfriend had sex 2 weeks ago the day after we had sex my period came my period came late but it still came but ever since then ive been having stomach pains an cramping could i be pregnant even though i had my period?...

A.   30 September 2008: Yes you could be Some women do still have thier periods when they are pregnant You should do a pregancy test to find out... or go to the doctor Good luck =] x... (read in full...)

How do I get over being so nervous around my crush?

Q.   to all agony aunts with advice. i really really like this guy but we have been very good friends before i decided or felt love for him, now that i hav told him it is really awkard and i basically avoid the awkrdness by not talking, my ques...

A.   29 September 2008: Is i akward becuase he doesnt feel the same or becuase you feel nervous because he knows? Just try to treat him the same way that you always have... ask him how things are going and all the normal stuff you would have talked about before you told... (read in full...)

How do you 'make out'?

Q.   i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...

A.   29 September 2008: I totally agree... There is no right/Wrong way to make out When you are with a guy that you feel comfortable doing it with it will all come naturally & you will know what to do I was nervous about my first make out session but it just kinda h... (read in full...)

Does he love me? He didn't say it back....

Q.   hello I have a question here, yesterday I was cuddling with my 8 months boyfriend, and I told him that I loved him for the first time, his response was that he hugged me really tight, but he didn't say anything, should I be concerned?. Our ...

A.   29 September 2008: No, I dnt think you should be concerned. Maybe he just doesnt think that it is the right time to say it to you, maybe he wants to be completely sure that he loves you before he says it. If this is the case then you;ve found yourself a great gu... (read in full...)

Shall I just cut all contact with my ex as it's doing me no good?

Q.   Hi, I have been thinking an awful lot about my ex boyfriend( we split 2 years ago!! i know, together for 8) i feel down and weepy recently- - yes ive been out with other guys - we split as he said he didnt love me anymore and starting seeing ...

A.   28 September 2008: if being in contact with him and having coffee every couple of weeks is getting you down then i think that maybe you would be right to cut contact with him... at least for the time being until you are completely 100% over him. Being in contact with... (read in full...)

I can't bring myself to ask her out

Q.   Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 th...

A.   28 September 2008: If you are shy about asking her then dont do it face to face. try to think of a romantic/ Original way to ask her out that doesnt involve you speaking the words.... Im sure you making such an effort will win her heart, especially if she does alre... (read in full...)

I think he is generally shy,please help!

Q.   I have been taliking to a boy i met at a party for about a month now. we have met a few times mostly with our mates with us. whenever we say bye we always hug, but nothing else has happend. im not sure wether he likes me but we were out once and he ...

A.   28 September 2008: To find out with him subtely flirt with him and see how he reacts... the hugging and him puttin his arm around you is a good sign that he likes you... but it could also mean that he just feels comfortable around you as a friend maybe arrange a doub... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to love someone who's like a brother to me?

Q.   a cupple of months ago a really close friend told me he loved me, ive been brourght up with him pritty much all my life and we`re almost like brother and sister and both of our dads are really close too. hes 15 and ive just turned 18, ive had feel...

A.   28 September 2008: No of course it isnt wrong to love someone who you have been brought up with! I totally understand the situation you are in as i was in the same one a couple of years ago. I likes my best friend ( who i have known for 14 years now) but didnt sa... (read in full...)

Dazed and confused....do I follow my heart?

Q.   I'm very confused at this point. Here's the deal, I'm currently in a relationship that has been going on for just a month. 2 weeks before i got with this guy, my ex and I had just broken up. I would sometimes space out while talking to my current ...

A.   28 September 2008: If you always follow your heart then why are you on here? Do what your heart is telling you! If you are not completely sure that your current boyfriend is what you want then maybe it would be better for both of you if you split. Especiall... (read in full...)

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