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My boyfriend sms-ed a girl telling her that he loves her. What do I do now?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend texts alot to his friends, at first it didnt bother me because hes intitled to text whoever he wants, well he rectently got back from a trip and after the trip hes been very protective of his phone, and i notice hes always texting ...

A.   2 August 2008: confront him about it and if he is cheating get rid of him because hes not worth it x... (read in full...)

How Can Our Relationship Be Over Before It Started

Q.   I'm in love with this girl, I adore her and she has also told me how she likes me too. She as said that she'd never felt this way about a person before which scared her a little bit. I decided to leave things alone out of respect for her and waited ...

A.   8 April 2008: hi maybe she is trying to make u jealous to get u 2 see what you will be missing, try being romantic i.e. buy her flowers or take her out for a meal and tell her your feeling and what is going on with her!... (read in full...)

I want to be able to go out with friends without sudden depressed moods and changes of mind...

Q.   So, I never really do anything over the weekends anymore... not because I don't have friends (because I do...) but because I don't want to. I think about trying to plan hanging out with my friends over the weekends and what not but, I just feel ...

A.   1 April 2008: why don't you invite your friends round to your house for a girly night in then you won't be leaving your mam and you can keep an eye on her then build your self back up from there like sitting outside on your step or driveway then a little further ... (read in full...)

Advice about the pill please!! Urgent

Q.   Hey, just a quick question... It's my first month on the Pill and I have two pills left in the pack before my 7 day break. I was just wondering if I am still 99% protected in this first month with unprotected sex? Thanks ...

A.   1 April 2008: you won't be protected but go back on the pill straight away after 7 days because i sometimes leave mine a few weeks after 7 days and i get pregnancy scares and you wont want them lol any way use a condom in the 7 days if you are going to have sex. ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and need advice to get the girl of my dreams, help please?

Q.   hello i am 14 years old and i have never had a girlfriend. i fancy this girl but am too scared to ask her out or even ask for her msn address. what should i do? please help!...

A.   1 April 2008: hi, if i was you i would first find out what she liked or even send her an annoymes card saying how you feel and keep her guessing also put your msn adress inside it if you are to afraid of talking to her in person at the minute, i know it is scary ... (read in full...)

I met an older man after my divorce, one year later the excitement has gone though and I'd rather be alone. Why is this?

Q.   I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. ...

A.   31 March 2008: hi, i think that maybe you just need some excitement or to know that he is going to make a real commitment to you ask him were he thinks the relationship is going and decide from there , but you will feel even worse if you live on your own, so give ... (read in full...)

I mistakenly touched my private area after playing with his penis, what are the risks in this case?

Q.   me and my boyfriend were together last night,, that is only kising, hugging and sort of things, i was playing with his penis and he was almost cumming on my hands, i mistakely placed my hand in my private part, is there any possiblity for me t...

A.   31 March 2008: hi, it is unlikely that you are but take a test and try to work out your dates of when you last had a period, i know its scary i can relate, but next time have him wear a condom or wipe hand before touching yourself. ... (read in full...)

Are counsellors always right?

Q.   I meet my b/f in September. We have been dating ever since. We have had sex and well we keep it all a secret but then someone found out and well here's the catch. See he's 18 and I'm 15, well I'm about to turn 16 in May. We was happy entile ...

A.   31 March 2008: well, in my opinion counselors are hardly ever right, if you both love each other then you will stick it out, however though you have got to look on the positive side if he does break up with you for a while then if you get back with him it means it ... (read in full...)

My whole life was clouded by his behaviour. 20 years later, his apologies would be nice or should I make him literally pay for the damage done?

Q.   Years ago when I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a man which became emotionally disturbing. He worked abroad in quite extreme war-type situations. He was a charmer and extremely unfaithful. I used to get calls from girls, o...

A.   31 March 2008: hi, in my opinion good job for not being with him anymore and yes you are right not should not have taken 20 years to get back on track with your life, but now you have why not start to enjoy life instead of dwelling on the past get your self back ... (read in full...)

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