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I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ?

Q.   Dear cupid ... i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he said he likes me alot but he still likes his girlfriend. i told him i would wait but not too long and that i wouldnt ruin their relationship. he always say i love you when its just...

A.   27 April 2008: I was in the exact same situation about a month or so back. and for me, it wasn't worth it. the majority, and I mean MAJORITY, of the time, the guy won't leave his girlfriend. he may say he will, but he won't. he probably just wants someone on the ... (read in full...)

Is mood swings one of the side effects of weed and does it create addiction?

Q.   Dose anybody know the side effects of smoking weed. I was dating this guy and he was so moody and I think it had something to do with him smoking weed all the time. He would even leave our dates to go smoke it and get up in the middle of the night ...

A.   17 April 2008: weed is not physically addictive. but if the person smoking it has an addictive personality, then yes, they can become mentally addicted to it. weed affects every person differently. but the main side effects are - temporary loss of short-term m... (read in full...)

Have you ever felt this way? I count the hours till my boyfriend calls...

Q.   lately I've been relaizing that I'm only happy when I'm talking to my boyfriend or maybe it's just that I'm only that level of happy when I'm talking to him. is that normal? like for instance every night he calls me around 9-11 pm and I find mys...

A.   24 March 2008: I have felt this way. a few months ago I was always waiting for this guy to call me and when he did, I was always happier than ever. this guy had made me the happiest I had ever been in my life. however, we were not dating and I had put him as the ... (read in full...)

I'm really depressed and want to runaway..

Q.   I'm a 13rd old girl. I'm in gr.8 so I am still in public school I've been going through alot in my life lately. I've just been a really sad, lonely, depressed young girl. Even at school recess, i'm all alone outside. I've been crying alot when I'm ...

A.   13 March 2008: I know you know that running away is not the smart thing to do. think of this: how will you get money? where will you stay? at 13 you are too young to get a job. I have been where you are.. talk to your parents. they can take you to a doctor an... (read in full...)

Normally the guys I go out with give distinctive signals but I really don't have a clue with this one.

Q.   I know this sounds like a really simple question, but how can you tell that a guy likes you? Usually the guys I have been out with have given really distinctive signs, however in this case i really have no idea at all. For example, the guy...

A.   4 March 2008: I know you don't want to hear this; but all guys are different. I'm actually in a similar situation right now. me and the guy will flirt a lot and we talk about a lot of different stuff, but sometimes its like he's avoiding me. I've decided t... (read in full...)

I don't know if she feels the same way

Q.   hi, i think im in love with a girl but i'm not sure she feels the same way. i am currently talking to her on a regular basis, but i don't know what to do, please help...

A.   11 February 2008: to know if she likes you, i need to know more first. talking on a regular basis? as in how often? do yall talk on the phone? how does she act around you? please be detailed.... (read in full...)

How can I comfort him when he talks about his troubled past??

Q.   Let me first of all apologize for this being long... So me and this one guy like each other and have gotten to be best friends. I have fallen in love with him. We have talked about dating, but he says once he gets everything that he is going th...

A.   10 February 2008: thank you for the quick response. his mom was a part of the abuse, but he has told me it has completely stopped and everything is different now that he is back there again. he refuses to go see a psychologist or anything like that because he ha... (read in full...)

Boyfriend addicted to World of Warcraft!!!

Q.   hi all, My boyfriend and I have had a pretty good relationship for the last two years, and we both lead independent seperate lives even though we live together (I mean, we each have our own friends/jobs/social lives). He has always been really i...

A.   4 February 2008: i was in this exact situation. i noticed my guy was playing WoW instead of going out with friends & stuff like that. he then suggested i give playing it a try. well, im hooked, & our relationship is better than ever. (apparently there is something ... (read in full...)

I am ready to have sex with him, but I am worried about my friends.

Q.   first of all, let me apologize for this being so long... it is a LONG story ( and this is with leaving a lot of stuff out) me (age 15) and "MT" (age 17) both really like each other. we arent dating right now because he is under a lot of stress (d...

A.   3 February 2008: first of all, let me thank all of yall for your advice! many of yall were worried about STDs, hes gotten tested and he is clear and about pregnancy, we would most definately use a condom and i would be getting on birth control. as for our relatio... (read in full...)

Should I run away?

Q.   I'm a girl and I'm 13 years old. I've been going through depression and a hard time in life. I'm really shy at school, but I've been like that like my whole life. But ever since grade 7 started I've been really sad and lonely. I think all of my ...

A.   26 January 2008: dont run away! what would that solve? where would you go? how would you get money? im sure your parents would be worried sick. you know running away is not the answer. talk to your parents, if you are feeling depressed, they can always take you... (read in full...)

I need to know---could I possibly be in love?

Q.   I met this one guy about 2 months ago and there was an immediate attraction. we started hanging out and I started to like him more and more. oh yea, I'm 15 and he's 17. we both like each other but we aren't going out because he is having a tough ...

A.   22 January 2008: thank yall for the advice... just giving yall an update: he is still with his family and will probably be there for a few more weeks. but we have been talking every night for at leat 2 to 3 hours. so basically things are going great! still miss h... (read in full...)

I don't want to upset my best friend.

Q.   Im in love with one of my best friends i dont know what to do . Well basically we met at a party and became good friends then we kissed and stuff. We used to be really close like talking nearly everyday and stuff we would make an effort to see ea...

A.   20 January 2008: if you really like him and feel like he is slipping away, then I think you should tell him how you feel. if he likes you back, great. if he doesn't, then if he is really your friend, then I don't see any reason why yall can't stay friends. hope ... (read in full...)

What if the grass isn't greener on the other side?

Q.   Need a little advice...it may be long. I apologize in advance, but it's best to tell the whole story. Okay, I am in over my head...I have this absolutely wonderful boyfriend who i would never deliberately hurt, but about a month ago a good...

A.   20 January 2008: "never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love" this is a really tough situation, you obviously have feelings for both. but think, who can you talk to for hours and hours and fe... (read in full...)

He's my friend and he kissed me...now I don't know where we stand..Advice?

Q.   Hi there, A few months ago, a close friend and I kissed for the first time, he initiated the move and I kind of just went along with it. I had never looked at him in this way before but since then we have made out several times and I think I ha...

A.   19 January 2008: I'm in a similar situation. me and this one guy haven't kissed but we have been getting really close physically. and I have no idea where our relationship stands! it is driving me insane. me and him have been talking about "us" and it is really ... (read in full...)

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