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I slapped him in temper, hes left me but left a note, it says he still loves me! I dont know what to do!?

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years i left a violent marriage to be with him. The last two years have been very bad i discovered i was pregnant but had to terminated as he "wasnt ready for the comittment" my father was diagnosed with cancer and ...

A.   19 April 2007: hya hun soz to hear about all this...he just needs time to calm down a bit or he may something that he will regret or do something...you need to sit down and speak to him about it and appologise say you were in the wrong and it wont happen..... (read in full...)

My bf found old sex pics of my ex on my hard drive! Now he doesn't trust me..any advice?

Q.   my boyfriend (of 9 months)recently found old sex videos and pictures on my hard drive my ex-boyfriend and I took back in 2004. I meant to delete them, but never did. Now he says he can't trust me and I think he wants to break up with me. Am I ...

A.   19 April 2007: hun hun hun if you was meant to have done it you would have if you to are happy you need to sit down and talk about it k otherwise you could lose him for good ... (read in full...)

He was rubbing against me with his underwear on! Can I still get pregnant?

Q.   Last night I was at my boyfriends house and I had all my clothes and underwear off and he had everything off but his underpants. He was sort of puting his penis into me but he still had his underwear on. If we didnt use any contreception is there ...

A.   19 April 2007: hya darling you cant get pregnant if he has got his underpants on k... (read in full...)

My bf split with me because I looked at his phone messages from other girls! What can I do?

Q.   I split up with my boyfriend on thursday because i looked on his phone and he had messages from another girl on there and now he has finished with me because of it. he has lots of girls as mates and im meet most of them i wish i never looked now ...

A.   19 April 2007: hey darling i done exactly the same so in a way i know what you going through i was listening to my bf phone and he had a message through off a girl i dont know and it said something i didnt like when i later confronting and asked him who she was ... (read in full...)

Did she really mean to send this text message to me ?

Q.   a very wierd text message. a friend (?) if mine who i have suspected has been having an affair with my ex and has always asked me questions about him, texted me the other day with "take two aspirin, i'll call u later, luv u". i texted her back and ...

A.   19 April 2007: hya to be honest with you i dont think you have got anything to worry about its nothing so dont worry about it or confront them...i admit it is weird she txt and asked who that and then txt a day afer speak to them ... (read in full...)

Im 34 and hes 30, Im worried and insecure as I cant see why he would want me!?

Q.   hi, im a 34 year old woman married to a younger man who is just 30 year old, we've been married for a 4 years now, we ve a 10 month old son. we love each other very much and also my parents likes him too.but this am guilty about my age difference. ...

A.   19 April 2007: hya you need to relax and enjoy yourself he is in love with you he married you didnt he and he is still around instead of feeling like this you shoul be thankfull he is still with ou i can see this is true love so relax and enjoy being with the... (read in full...)

I like short skirts and low tops on other girls..but I don't like my gf, dressing this way! Why am I this way?

Q.   I know this is going to sound wierd but i have got my first girlfriend, i dnt like her wearing low tops or short skirts or nothing like that bt that doesnt make sense to me cuz i like seeing girls wearing those kind of things as in cuz they look ...

A.   18 April 2007: hya hun.. the way you look at other girls in short skirts and tops like that most men do but when it comes to your girlfrien i think it is that you know most men like that sort of thing and your jealous of that it not a bad thing you just need to b... (read in full...)

I can't EVER have an orgasm with my boyfriend, Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I think there might be something wrong with me because i can't EVER have an orgasm with my boyfriend, doesn't matter what he does it just won't happen and its starting to make him feel bad.IT'l happen for me but i dont like to do it because it makes ...

A.   18 April 2007: hiya chicks..... all you need to do is relax tell him what pushes your buttons i know its frustrating but take time and explore eachothers needs and wants you will finally get there.it is none of your fault so dont worry..if you have to explore and ... (read in full...)

We broke up and he told me he wanted to be on his own but 2 weeks later he's got a new gf. Why did he do this?

Q.   i broke up with my bf a month ago!i think i can move on but just want to know that why he told me he wanted to be on his own 2 weeks later he's got a new gf?...

A.   18 April 2007: hiya babes..........he was probably not man enough to tell you to your face it nothing to do with ypu it just the fact is that reason he just was such a coward to you.if you not over him you need to get out and find someone new hold your head up ... (read in full...)

He mentioned he looked at porn, occasionally. And this really bothers me..am I over-reacting?

Q.   My boyfriend recently mentioned looking at porn, as though he thought it wouldn't bother me. I know that he doesn't look at porn often, but it still bothers me quite a bit. Am I overreacting?...

A.   18 April 2007: hya you a over reacting a slight bit but babe dont worry bout it coz at the end of the day it is only a fantasy 2 them ur the real deal...my bf looks at porn and he has got it on his phone it nothing to it at first i admit that it was a bit weir... (read in full...)

I'm dating a guy but my friend wants to set me up with another guy! How do I handle this?

Q.   Its me again... I have ALOT of questions. So i have this bestfriend... and hes a guy. Theres this boy (not my current boyf) that i kinda like and this boyt really likes me. Well i told my best friend and hes always saying "You belong togther" and...

A.   18 April 2007: na hun no one here to judge u it up to u 2 date...anyway.......if u with somebody and u like him u need to make it clear to your friend that u not interested in him setting u up with sum other guy u know he being a mate but he needs to listen to u ... (read in full...)

How do these home pregnancy tests work again? Help!

Q.   i have a question about pregnancy test..if it turns negative what is that mean?..and if it turns positive -- does it means that you're not pregnant?..i always get those things mixx up..please helpp!! tnx. t-t...

A.   18 April 2007: heya-- posotive means that u are and negative u not that goes without saying ... (read in full...)

She 's older than me and is concerned about that. How can I show her that age doesn't matter?

Q.   I have been in love with one of my friends for a while now. I am sixteen but she is 20 months older than me. She says that she finds me attractive and if i were the same age as her she would get with me. How can I show her that age doesn't matter?...

A.   17 April 2007: age dont matter 20 months is nothing if she was older by 20 years then it wouldnt be right but it really dont matter as long as you both feel for eachother but then the question is is she just making excuses i dont want to be nasty but u got to ... (read in full...)

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