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How do I know he's interested? It's been a while since I've been in the dating game...

Q.   Can any one give me tips on what I should be looking for if a guys interested? (client/profession) been a while since I've been in the dating game. Thanks in advance!!...

A.   17 March 2007: I'm in agreement with AskEve, the most obvious sign is really that the person starts to take more of an interest in you, if it is a work situation they may start hanging around your desk more than usual, finding regular excuses to walk past you and ... (read in full...)

He says our relationship is moving too fast, should I back off or what?

Q.   Thanks in advance to any who answer here. I have been seeing this guy for a momth or so. He recently told me that he comes with too much baggage as his mother is dying of cancer...he feels stressed and he does not want to lead me on and does not ...

A.   17 March 2007: I personally don't think that it is his way of letting you down, i truly belive that he is just being open and honest with you. If his mother is dying, this is obviously a very traumatic time for him. What he is probably trying to say is that he ... (read in full...)

I don't know if anything could ever happen between us because of the age gap, what do you think?

Q.   Hi I'm 14 and have liked a boy now for nearly a year. I feel more for him than I've ever felt for anyone before. He goes to my youth club and I only see him once a week :(the problem is he's 19 although he acts alot younger than he is) and I don't ...

A.   17 March 2007: This is murky ground due to the fact that you are under 16 and it would be illegal for this boy to have a sexual relationship with you. In fact he could get into a lot of trouble if you allowed yourselves to get carried away. There is nothing wrong ... (read in full...)

I've met someone who is very caring but feel too guilty to break up with my lad.

Q.   I've been wit my bfriend for 2 years, we have a baby together but I hardly see him and he is bit of lad and not very caring, but can be sometimes, he never wants to do nothing part from pub. I've recently met someone else who is alot more mature and ...

A.   17 March 2007: You are obviously not happy with your relationship, otherwise you would not be thinking about someone else and writing to this website. I think that what you must do first and foremost is to be honest and open and speak to your partner about the ... (read in full...)

I switched her contraceptive pill with sugar pills and now she's pregnant and crying all the time, I feel so guilty now, should I come clean and tell her what I did?

Q.   [Moderator Note: If you don't have anything helpful to suggest then don't waste your time replying] Hi, I did something stupid, please don't judge. Right well, I've been with my girlfriend Vanessa for about 4 years now. I'm 32, she's 25. Ev...

A.   17 March 2007: This was a terrible thing for you to have done and it is difficult to say what you should do. I think that if you confess to this terrible breach of trust that you have committed you could make the situation worse that it already is as your partner ... (read in full...)

Want to ask her out but I'm shy and afraid. Help!

Q.   Dear Friends and Readers I am a single 15 year old guy I go to church and school and I am very active in the community service I visit retierment homes and volenter at homeless centers I am what you would call an outcast and I am...

A.   17 March 2007: Don't put yourself down mate, because if you feel bad about yourself then this will come across to girls and you will be projecting yourself as someone who has no confidence and doesn't like themselves very much. You sound like a great guy who does ... (read in full...)

If I go to the doctor, will she keep this confidential?

Q.   I'm 16 and I happened to get a cap stuck "up there" (vagina) and I want to go to the gynecologist to get it out, but i don't want my mom to know. If I go in alone, and ask her not to tell my mom. Is there a law that she has to follow to make it ...

A.   17 March 2007: The doctor will keep this confidential. It is vital that you go and get this sorted out as you could get a nasty infection. The way you have to see it is that yourself and your health is what matters first and foremost. Doctors are paid to keep ... (read in full...)

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