Where am I going wrong?
Q. Can someone tell me whats wrong with men today? I was dating a guy i met recently. He was a shy or quiet person anyway and when i text him i would get very dry responses and I ask him had he plans for the weekend. It seems I have offended him and...
A. 1 May 2014: Sorry to hear your problems with men. And it's always horrible when the person you love is with someone!!
Just seems to me the men you're meeting are wrong. Doesnt seem like you're doing anything wrong to me.
Maybe you just need to keep wai... (read in full...)
Is he just stringing me along or trying not to hurt me?
Q. It's been 4 months since my partner broke up with me. We lived together for another 6 weeks until I was able to move back home. I didn't want the break up. He dumped me out of the blue and never gave me a clear reason, nor wanted to talk about it...
A. 1 May 2014: As a guy, to me it seems like he doesn't know what he wants. Like he doesn't want to be in a relationship yet doesn't want to let go of the intimate connection that a relationship brings i.e. Sex...
As hard as it would be, seems to me like you... (read in full...)
There's a guy I like and I think he likes me too. How should I approach him?
Q. I am a gay guy. There's this new guy at a restaurant I go to. He started looking at me from the first day he started to work. I noticed he looks at me very often and gives me a shy smile. I also showed interest. He shows interest whenever I look at ...
A. 1 May 2014: Do you think the guy you're interested in told his friend in a mocking way or do you think his friend just took his news the wrong way? Some people just like to make fun out of any situation because they aren't nice people, or they can't help making ... (read in full...)
Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?
Q. I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (firs...
A. 30 April 2014: Honestly, from what you've said on here it seems that you were far to good for him.
He probably went about the break up in such a way to make you feel like the pushy one. You weren't pushy at all. In fact I'm sure there's plenty of guys out ther... (read in full...)
Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?
Q. I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (firs...
A. 28 April 2014: First thing I want to say is, I feel your pain! I know how horrible it is to love someone who doesn't seem all that bothered. I have had two experiences of this - the sudden cut off and coldness is just awful isn't it? Personally I don't t... (read in full...)
There's a guy I like and I think he likes me too. How should I approach him?
Q. I am a gay guy. There's this new guy at a restaurant I go to. He started looking at me from the first day he started to work. I noticed he looks at me very often and gives me a shy smile. I also showed interest. He shows interest whenever I look at ...
A. 28 April 2014: This is a very good question - it's hard to know when or how to ask someone (male or female!)
Well personally I think the signs are pretty good so far. I mean he seems to be showing some kind of initial interest and he isnt put off by your smi... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying with this guy who says we are "friends with benefits", or let it fade away?
Q. Okay, There's this guy I've known for about 4 years but we only recently started talking properly. I like him but he's a flirt so I don't know if I'm special or if he's like this with everyone. About a month ago, he dared me to kiss him so I did...
A. 28 April 2014: Alright, First things first - Are you able to be in a friends with benefits situation? - If you like this guy or love him even I recommend you leave the situation well alone. I know it might be hard but come on, you're so much better than just... (read in full...)
Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...
A. 28 April 2014: Call me silly and maybe a little young to address issues of marriage but I am pretty mature for my age. I can only imagine what you're suffering inside, even worse alone - going over things. I know that part if not the marriage part. I remember... (read in full...)
Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits?
Q. Hi. I was wondering if you could help me. Why does he keep asking me to be his friends with benefits? I have known him for almost two years though we got closer as friends at the beginning of last year. I fell in love with him but never showe...
A. 28 April 2014: You sound like a lovely girl. And I am very sad to read your problem. It shouldn't be a problem at all. He should respect your Good for you for sticking to your feelings on this one! I know some girls who would just agree to the arrangement and ... (read in full...)
I just cant seem to make decent friends!
Q. I've been attempting to look for decent friends these days to absolutely no avail. The people I choose are, for lack of a better term, flakes. Its always the same formula with me. I will become friendly with someone, we will share similar interests ...
A. 28 April 2014: I'm a 23 year old guy and I totally get you on this! I don't understand why so called friends don't seem to want to make the effort to hang out etc. And the problem is, Where do you find good friends?? I have no idea, all I know is I feel I a... (read in full...)
We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!
Q. Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he ...
A. 28 April 2014: I Have to say from what you say it seems like he is simply using you for his own easy needs. I know it must be confusing if this time it feels different to you but it really is just a FWB kinda situation I think - I mean whats with the other gi... (read in full...)
If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on ...
A. 28 April 2014: Darling, As hard as it is I think personally if I were you I would try and walk away. I know it is so hard as I am going through a tough patch of decision making with the girl I am head over heels for! But do you want to be thinking all the t... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me to get pregnant
Q. Hi everyone. I've been in a relationship with my bf for three years and three months. I'm 25 and he's 29. Since the beginning of our relationship, he told me that he wanted to settle down and start a family. I told him, that while I wanted to...
A. 28 April 2014: No no no no - What is the world coming too
You don't need to do anything you don't want to do, I mean you may want children in time but what's the rush??
Don't bring an innocent unknowing life into this world just because that's what he w... (read in full...)
Can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does?
Q. I've had two sexual partners. Being with the first guy was rather underwhelming, but I had a lot more chemistry with the second. He was pretty experienced, too. Everything he did felt amazing. What I genuinely don't understand is, every part of my...
A. 28 April 2014: Hmmmmmmmmmm no idea lovely!
But if it feels right and you both enjoy it then maybe it's best not to over think the finer details of how your body reacts :)
Just go with the flow if you like it with this chap ... and be safe and sensible of ... (read in full...)
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