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We can imagine spending our lives together, but the thought makes him feel "old"...

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years & things just keep getting better & better. We've discovered we would like to spend our future together & cannot imagine it without each other. Now that we’ve been together for so long & thin...

A.   23 May 2005: A compicated question to be sure. If he has said he is not ready, believe him. Even a "mature" 24 year old is still only 24 and at that age he probably isn't ready for forever. A break will only complicate things. As for a long distance ... (read in full...)

I just can't move on, even though my late husband gave us his blessing...

Q.   My husband died of cancer about a year ago. We were separated. Before my husband died, he gave my current boyfriend and I his blessing, yet I'm still holding on to the past and I cannot move on. I feel like I don't have closure and it's ruining my ...

A.   23 May 2005: It doesnt sound to me that your late husband was really gone even before he died...I strongly suggest grief counseling, and possibly relationship help as well....... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's bi & that's OK, but what if he's actually gay?

Q.   I suspect my boyfriend may be gay....I know he's bisexual,bbut he tells me he sees men as sex objects and women to treat nicely and end up with. He tells me he wants a family with me one day. I'm scared he just wants me for my ability to one day ...

A.   23 May 2005: The fact that he gets upset with you when you want to discuss this makes me think that he is also struggling with the same question. Is he really just gay? An open relationship will also leave you "open" to many diseases. Please be very carefull ... (read in full...)

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