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... Send *arm-Inspire a private message | | | *arm-Inspire's profile:I am a 23 year old female from England, I am currently in a relationship and have been for just over 2 years.
I have a great interest in Physchology and what makes others tick, I would consider myself a good listener and a pretty decent advice giver.
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I am struggling to move on without closure
Q. How do you move on from a relationship without closure? I was with a wonderful man who treated me well for just over 2 years. It was long distance for the majority due to his work but we always ensured we'd see eachother twice a week. He treated me ...
A. 27 December 2012: I think he may of given you the closure just not as definitive as he could have. To put it simply, getting out of a 2 year relationship and going straight to being friends when there is still some apparent romantic feelings still there, isn't the... (read in full...)
Is this a date with a crush? Or just business?
Q. I work at a coffee shop. I have a huge crush on one of my regular costumers. He's very attractive - very fit with a smile that would make any woman melt. I've liked him for months and last week, he'd given me his number. But not for the reason you ...
A. 27 December 2012: The age gap shouldn't be an issue to anyone but yourself, you're both consenting adults and whatever else goes on is nobody else's business but your own.
The fact that he gave you a reason for meeting on business could either mean he just genuinel... (read in full...)
I can't bring my girlfriend to orgasm anymore and it's beginning to affect my pride
Q. The other day me and my gf hung out and we had intercourse. it was an amazing time but the problem is that i couldn't bring her to orgasm by oral or my fingers. I am only able to bring her to orgasm by penetration and it has to be for a long period ...
A. 21 December 2012: First of all, going on websites to check the solution to your problem is complete pants. You need to discover and learn what things your girlfriend likes as an individual, websites can't tell you that. The best way to learn is to let her show and... (read in full...)
Seven months since a guy dumped me. Any strategies to get me over this tough time, please?
Q. I was in a relationship with another guy for 7 years. It appeared to be perfect, however obviously not for him. He told me he wanted to be alone and 'find himself'. Within two months he started a relationship with another guy and seems to have mov...
A. 21 December 2012: You haven't been able to get over him because you've never actually dropped the contact 100% to let yourself begin the healing process, until you do so your feelings won't change. Convincing yourself that he may come back to you and you can cont... (read in full...)
If I end things with my boyfriend, would anything happen between my colleague and I? We have slept together before but I'm not sure if he has feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys I'm in an awful mess. Try not to judge me to hard please! I've been living with my bf for about 6 months, we've been together a year before that. 7 or 8 months ago we started to develop problems in our relationship, arguments about ...
A. 20 December 2012: To start your relationship doesn't sound like a very stable one, your boyfriend obviously has some deeply bound trust issues to be checking your mobile on a regular for no reason.
"He goes through my phone all the time, needs to know where I ... (read in full...)
I feel like he's using me for oral sex and doesn't value our friendship anymore, what should I do?
Q. Hey guys, hoping you will be able to shed a little light on this situation I'm in. There's this guy I've known for awhile, and before we became friends we fooled around (oral sex) over the summer. After this however, we became close friends. There ...
A. 20 December 2012: I think perhaps the reason that you've discovered deeper feelings than no strings with him and let him know about it has deterred him a little.
People looking for no strings usually do it because they would rather not have the feel... (read in full...)
Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...
A. 20 December 2012: It seems as if hes trying to use some sort of reverse physchology on you. Hes trying to make a statement to you that hes made himself available to other women on a dating website, probably in some attempt to make you panic and/or change your mind ... (read in full...)
Did I over analyze this situation? Or was my bf's behavior's a red flag?
Q. Dear friends, I met that guy 6 monthhs ago through friends and we instantly became friends then developed a love relation, it was based on respect and honesty. He told me that he used to be a player in the past and I heard that from friends too. ...
A. 14 December 2012: I believe the fact that hes told you that he was a player previously may of caused your discomfort.
I think you may be subconsiously more wary of him with other women, regardless of if they're attractive or not, which is understandable, seeing a... (read in full...)
What should I do? My best friend stole the girl who has been the love of my life.
Q. So, about a year ago I had a huge crush on this girl. I told her and she told me to try to get over her. Later in that school year, she told me and a friend of mine that she had feelings for us. My friend didn't really care, but I was extremely ha...
A. 14 December 2012: It sounds like shes messing with your head, sweetheart.
It says you're between 13 and 15, thats far to young to be thinking about being in love, you've still got alot of things and people to experience.
Besides it should be a joint effort, ... (read in full...)
He thought we were on a break but I thought we were broken up and I had sex with someone else
Q. About five months ago, my boyfriend of two years and I had his a very, very rough patch. We couldn't speak, never truly "clicked" like we used to, but still, both of us were committed. One night, we both broke down crying over the rough patch, ...
A. 14 December 2012: In my opinion, its a no brainer, you SHOULD tell him.
Explain that it was a misunderstanding and you made a huge mistake, and that you are telling him because you love him and want a fresh start to your relationship NOT because you feel guilty. ... (read in full...)
Do I wait? hope? or just break up with her? Because I think she may have feelings for another guy who reminds her of her ex.
Q. I'm in college. Over the summer I was at home and started talking to this girl online, who also lives in the area. We had common friends and began talking for hours every night. I had very strong feelings for her but she was reluctant because for ...
A. 13 December 2012: I think you should be upfront and honest about what you know, do NOT wait it out when you don't know what the outcome could be. Just a thought, if she fell in love with you while being in love with an ex, whats to say this isn't happening with her... (read in full...)
Do you think he could even be interested in me, and if he were to be, would it be possible for us to be together?
Q. Hi all, thanks in advance for reading. I’m sorry this is really long I just want you to get a real sense of what’s going on here! OK here’s the deal. There is this guy who recently moved to my area. He is about 2.5 years older than me, which i...
A. 13 December 2012: It certainly sounds like hes into you from what you're describing, and i can tell you're absolutely smitten and made me grin cheesily reading your post, taking me back to the start of my relationship :-D. But i think you need to consider some ... (read in full...)
Is it that he is no longer attracted to me the way he used to be? I find it very hurtful.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years .. Sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore .. I feel that way because I have noticed him looking at a few females and he really doesn't look...
A. 11 December 2012: I don't completely agree with anonymous's answer, but i do agree that you should make your voice heard and state what is unacceptable to you morally in a relationship. Copying his behaviour is probably a more childish approach to your suituati... (read in full...)
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