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I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!

Q.   The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with ...

A.   10 December 2006: The first thing you need to think about is your reputation and your career, she may be very attractive indeed, but you have a rep to protect. I realise that girls this day and age are matureing a lot more quickly than they used to, kids as young as ... (read in full...)

I feel hurt by such sexual pressuring

Q.   I was datinga boy who asked me for sex early in the relationship about our 3rd date and we had not met before that arguing he hada female friends to have sex with and that he wouldn't be my boyfriend otherwise, I refused and thought he would never ...

A.   10 December 2006: Yes Hunny. Men can be selfish pigs, especially jack the lads such as this young man. I am so pround of you that you didnt give into his demands for sexual intercourse. If you did give into him, then you would still be here ranting out your ... (read in full...)

A few drinks and a dance or two with my ex bf has made me question my relationship with my current bf! What should I do?

Q.   I went out last wednesday night with a few mates from college one of them happened to be my ex bf. We met up in a pub my current bf came out too, When i first got in there i felt so awkward especially since me and my ex dont get on very well atall ...

A.   10 December 2006: Oh no you dont young lady!!!!!!! hold it right there. Now sit down, make a coffee and I want you to go back into the past and look at why it was that he resulted in being your ex in the first place. I think that you b.f. was acting in a slimey ... (read in full...)

My son is 3yrs 4Mths but he doesnt utter a word... Any ideas what might be wrong ??

Q.   my son is 3yrs 4months and doesnt say asingle word. he eats well, plays well with other kids and his brother, shares his toys, he is potty trained and dry at night, sleeps well, gives lots of kisses and cuddles and very happy to go out. he attends ...

A.   9 December 2006: The first thing you need to address is a earing test because if your son has a problem with his hearing then this may be affecting his progress in the speech dept. By the information that you have provided being that he has no problem playing and ... (read in full...)

I have just found out that my bf is a drug addict. Just the thought of what he does makes me feel sick

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. I thought that I loved him. He is such a nice guy and he is really good to me, he helps with everything and I rarely have to complain about anything really. I have recently found out that he has ...

A.   9 December 2006: I have spoken to him about it and he say sthat he has been on it for years. He is not smoking it anymore, he is injecting it, and he has 10 pounds worth every day, but he splits it up into 3 shots, one in morning, one in the afternoon and one at ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to deal with my ex being in a committed relationship w/ someone else!

Q.   I've been ok with my ex bf (the love of my life) going out with girls, because I know him, and he can't hold a relationship (which is why we're not together), so I know that none of these relationships mean anything to him. But he's just started ...

A.   9 December 2006: I hate to have to say this to you, but what are you doing? this guy doesnt have your best interests at heart, you say you love him, yet he is hopping into bed with anyone who flashes a bit of skirt in his direction. I think you need to stop ... (read in full...)

Does thinking too much leave you paranoid ? How do I stop this over thinking all the time?

Q.   dear cupid I am in my teens and am 16 years old and i seem to be worrying and thinking about things every single day and i dnt know how to stop, i sometimes cry with because of thinking to much, my main concern now is "does thinking too muc...

A.   9 December 2006: You are a teenager and your body and emotions are changing every day, and so is your moods. Every 7 years the human body changes. This is usually a mental change as your being is preparing you for the next phase of your life. You are very ... (read in full...)

He's been taking viagra! And I didn't know it..I'm devastated! Help

Q.   when i first met my boyfriend(18months)i found out that he was taking viagra of course he denied this,as time moved on for us i didnt think he'd need to take it as we have a great sex life(so i thought)i found viagra in his pocket accidently,this ...

A.   9 December 2006: Have you ever thought that he may just be impitant and too embarassed to tell you, men dont like to admit that sort of thing.... (read in full...)

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