I am sure there is an attraction, so why did he tell a friend he didn't want to date?
Q. I've been interested in a certain guy for a year now, and I have no idea how to handle my situation or figure him out. It's summer vacation now, so I have time to organise myself for when I get back. We talk frequently, and we've been flirting for ...
A. 22 July 2011: Teenage boys are fickle. Usually, if a guy is super interested, he will have made a move by now. Perhaps you should make a move or confront him. If he rejects you, he is just what I said: a flirtatious, fickle boy. ... (read in full...)
Ideas for some summer fun?
Q. Hey, what are some fun at home things my boyfriend and I can do besides movies, video games, or cooking? We sometimes have water fights or play with the dogs, but we just want some more ideas, seeing as neither of us can drive the other legally(I ...
A. 21 July 2011: Board games are great. If you don't have any, pool some money together, walk to a local store, and buy one you both will enjoy. Do this a few times over the course of the summer and you will have quite a collection and hours of fun. I personally ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting to our Daughter's facebook or am I irresponsible.
Q. Me and my wife split up over 2 years ago. I quickly found someone new and we have been living together for over a year. My ex has always let me see my daughters every other weekend and they have been allowed to sleep over at weekends and during ...
A. 14 July 2011: OP, if you have tried to settle with your ex wife and she is still violating the terms of the custody, it is time to seek counsel, as another poster said. She can't bend the law at her whim. I wish you the best of luck and hope you get to see your ... (read in full...)
12 jobs in 5 years and now he wants to quit this job!
Q. In 5 years my boyfriend has had 12 jobs. The longest term of employment is 10 months and this is with his current job and he is wanting to quit. We live together, have bills and I have 2 kids from a previous marriage. He owes child support on 2 ...
A. 13 July 2011: This may sound harsh, but he sounds like a whiny dead beat who has problems with authority types. He doesn't pay for or see two of his children? That is horrible and, frankly, disgusts me. He needs to get his act together and be an adult for crying ... (read in full...)
Girls: Have you ever been rejected?
Q. Girls have you ever approached a guy and had him reject you? I am not talking about being dumped. I am talking about when you first meet a guy, you put yourself out there and ask him out and he shoots you down. I have this theory. Most girls seem ...
A. 13 July 2011: Your theory is pretty flawed. I've approached guys and been rejected many times. It started around the age of 14 when I wanted to start dating and continued until the wonderful year of 20. I do understand rejection and the fear of it. I even stopped ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting to our Daughter's facebook or am I irresponsible.
Q. Me and my wife split up over 2 years ago. I quickly found someone new and we have been living together for over a year. My ex has always let me see my daughters every other weekend and they have been allowed to sleep over at weekends and during ...
A. 13 July 2011: We live in a digital age, people. I've seen eight year olds with cell phones. Sure, I don't agree with it, but we can't deny that we live in an era of technology. Computers are in the schools and your kids are on them as soon as they can read, ... (read in full...)
Is she over reacting to our Daughter's facebook or am I irresponsible.
Q. Me and my wife split up over 2 years ago. I quickly found someone new and we have been living together for over a year. My ex has always let me see my daughters every other weekend and they have been allowed to sleep over at weekends and during ...
A. 11 July 2011: I think she is being mental and she can't deny you visitation if it has been legally bound.
Make sure you've set your daughter's Facebook privacy setting and such accordingly, as others have said. As long as you stay on top of it and have access t... (read in full...)
My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?
Q. I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be ...
A. 10 July 2011: The circumference of a single finger and a penis are two very different things. Not to be graphic and gross, but I masturbated long before I ever had sex and one finger never hurt me and fit just fine, but when I had sex for the first time I was in ... (read in full...)
How can I be more open and trusting?
Q. Hi I know this problem doesn't directly have a lot to do with relationships but it affects everything in my my life and I don't know where else to try for help. This probably doesn't do this any justice but I hope it's enough About five years ag...
A. 10 July 2011: I'm very sorry to hear about your Mom, sweetie. That is so very tough and it is quite admirable that you are reaching out for help. I'm also sorry about the strain you have felt with your Dad. I have witnessed many of my male family members begin to ... (read in full...)
Why would a man still enjoy watching porn if he was truly affected by a miscarriage?
Q. Hey, I'd like some advice on how to deal with my feelings of anger towards my bf who has been watching porn while i've been coping with a miscarriage. We've been together 9 months, and I know he's been watching porn occasionally (like one short ...
A. 10 July 2011: Well, firstly, I'm very sorry about what happened to you. That is a very unfortunate and traumatic event and I truly do wish you the best in moving forward. Many women have miscarriages and go on to have healthy, happy babies. So, keep that in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's best friend is another man. Should I let her go, knowing that she will always be confiding and trusting in another man more than me?
Q. My girlfriend has told me that her VERY BEST FRIEND is another man. They have been best friends for over 30 years. They frequently interact via text, phone calls, email, and Facebook. (He is currently divorced and living halfway across the country) ...
A. 23 June 2011: Thirty years, man. That's a lot of friendship. That's a lot of time to grow close and be there for one another. I don't think he will be exiting her life anytime soon, my friend.
Personally, I think you are overreacting. If there doesn't seem to ... (read in full...)
My ex used to insult me and ridicule my body to such an extent, that its affecting me even now, in my present relationship.
Q. In 2007 I met my ex, who I was with for 2 years. During the beginning/insanely happy stage of the relationship he was lovely, but then he started to really insult me; no violence at all, but he used to call me fat every day. I wasn't, I was a UK 14 ...
A. 23 June 2011: I went through a very similar situation. I actually am overweight, but girl you are nowhere near fat! However, I totally feel you. It is very hard to get over the psychological damage that such comments do to you, your self-image, and your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's nail polish turns me on, is it normal thing?
Q. I have this beautiful girlfriend for the last four years and everything seems to be going perfect for us. But I have a this strange behavior that whenever she puts on sort of a dark-red color nail polish , it turns me on big time and I feel lik...
A. 22 June 2011: You have nothing to worry about! Everyone has quirky things that turn them on. I personally love hands, in general. They don't make me want to bone immediately, but that is a part of the body I find extremely attractive, which others may not. So, to ... (read in full...)
Why do women care so much about men having a job?
Q. I am 39 and have never been able to get a job, so I have never been able to find love. And am still a virgin! Why do women care sooooooo much about this job thing? Why can't I be the one who does the housework and take the kids to school ect. ...
A. 18 June 2011: Whoa, whoa, whoa... Some of these answers are very upsetting to me. Firstly, I love how CupidBoy's response is entirely insulting, saying that women want their own money, but never want to shell it out. That is going based upon a horrible ... (read in full...)
Am I gay or not?
Q. Hullo, I guess I am gay. If I see a cute guy I get an erection and I often find myself looking down at their trousers. But every now and then I get to know a nice sensible woman who I find attractive, however the 'pull' just is not as strong. ...
A. 17 June 2011: I'd say you're young and just now trying to figure out your sexuality. You might be gay or maybe bisexual. You should try dating a little and exploring what it is that you really like. Just remember, love is blind and sees no gender. So, it is ... (read in full...)
My crush asked me out but the date was boring!
Q. So this guy i liked finally asked me out, i went and had an okay time, the thing is i was bored through most of it and i dont like him as much any more. i dont want to hurt the guy's feelings but i dont want to lead him on either. ...
A. 17 June 2011: Be honest and tell him you two are better as friends. Tell him exactly how you feel.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex is living with him!
Q. Need help. Ok my bf told me he wanted me to come home. But how ever there is a little problem - his ex is still staying with him . He told her that she had a month to find a job and get her own place. Again another problem it was my idea to give her ...
A. 17 June 2011: It's his place, right? Then he makes the rules. If she is temporarily staying there and he extended the generosity, then it is his call whether he brings a girl home. He pays the bills, right? Then he decides. You shouldn't be standing up. He ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated. We seperated. I took him back. Now he cheated again. Now what???
Q. I just found out my husband cheated on me for the second time. We had been married for 13 yrs and had our ups and downs, then I found out about a affair he was having and we split up, but never got divorced. It was like that for about 6 yrs, in ...
A. 13 June 2011: GOODBYE!
That's what you do. Kick his ass out. He won't change. Be strong and independent! ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend claims she got an STD from a towel or mat from her yoga class!! Is that really possible or is it more likely that she cheated on me?
Q. My girlfriend had a vaginal discharge for some time which worried her greatly. She was worried she had some sort of cancer. We had not been sexually active in quite some time (more than a year). She went to the doctor and she diagnosed her with tri...
A. 13 June 2011: I just read that this STD must come from genital to genital contact and that the parasite, which causes the disease, cannot even survive in the mouth or rectum. It must be passed from penis to vagina or from vulva to vulva contact. Sorry to be ... (read in full...)
Its difficult for me to "get out there." Anyone have any similar experiences?
Q. Hey everyone. I guess I'm not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. Partially just wanting to get it off my chest and partially hoping to find some good advice that I haven't seen elsewhere. I've searched the net a bit and haven't seen ...
A. 13 June 2011: Try online dating! It helped me get over confidence barriers of all sorts and let me easily contact people I might have never met. Plus, many people on dating sites are actively looking for a serious relationship or to try to begin one! You aren't ... (read in full...)
Can you share post breakup mood uplifting stories please? But NO 'got back together' stories required thx
Q. My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. I am devastated now. I didn't have a very difficult time in the first couple of weeks but this last week has been just awful. I'm hoping this sudden drop in my mood is partly associated with my ...
A. 13 June 2011: My most serious ex and I dated for a little over a year. We began to fight a lot and I told him to give me some space so we could get over this rough patch. I made it clear we weren't done, just taking some time to pause and breathe. He apparently ... (read in full...)
My wife passed away a month ago, is it too soon to think of dating?
Q. My wife past away one month ago from today. She has a cousin that reminds me a lot of her. And I'm falling for her. They look alike. But I don't think this is the reason that I'm interested. If I never knew my wife and met this woman, I'd still be ...
A. 12 June 2011: You're grieving. It's only been one month. You even said she reminds you of your wife in certain ways. Take it slow and don't jump in too fast. She might be trying to befriend you and extend a helpful hand. Be thankful for her friendship for now. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is paranoid she is pregnant even though she is a virgin!
Q. My girlfriend is driving me crazy! She thinks she is pregnant even though we never had sex and she is a virgin! About 4 months ago we messed around and these are the 2 reasons why she is worried: 1: I put on a condom and then started to fi...
A. 11 June 2011: Haha, tell her to take a chill pill. The paranoia isn't anything unusual for an inexperienced girl. I remember being there and worrying about the dumbest things! However, I read up on what I needed to know and my fears went away. I also started the ... (read in full...)
Met a girl online, but she has a boyfriend! Should I just stop contact?
Q. I've met some girl online we get along really well, Always talking (alot) Very open and honest, Play games together and even watch movies together..Problem is she has a bf :/ She knows how i feel and i beleive she likes me but i dont know anymor...
A. 25 May 2011: She's being a flirt and treating you like dirt. She wants the attention of both worlds, but doesn't care about your feelings or her boyfriend's. Sounds like a biaaatch to me, bro. Dump her and move on. I bet you'd much rather a nice girl who ... (read in full...)
What do I do about the abusive part of my relationship?
Q. My boyfriend hits me and gets in my face all of them time and he will not let me do anything at all, what do i do about the abuse part of my relationship?...
A. 25 May 2011: Leave. Tell your family. Call the police. Press charges. Get a restraining order. Put him in jail for domestic violence. Refuse to be a victim to domestic abuse. ... (read in full...)
Why do women date the bad boys but marry the nice guys?
Q. Dear cupid, i was wondering why women date and sleep with bad boys through out there youth but run to marry nice guys in there 30's when there less attractive and are looking for stability and safety for a guy who has worked hard, being dumped for ...
A. 25 May 2011: Frankly, often these proclaimed "nice guys" are overly nice and creepy, in my experience, at least. Often these "nice guys" are meek, incredibly shy, and socially awkward. They come off as desperate, low in standards, but bizarrely unaware as to how ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have sex with my professor?
Q. hi, so my problem is that I'm in a relationship with my professor at college I'm only 20 and he is 42...we meet up 3 times a week in this apartment .However, we didn't have sex until now although that we have been together for 4 months because ...
A. 25 May 2011: Say goodbye to whatever college education you were obtaining and tell him to kiss his career goodbye, if this is ever to surface! Look, I'm young and I have had a hot professor who I would love to bang, but it is unprofessional, looks bad, and ... (read in full...)
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