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My boyfriend feels I make him violent. I'm fiery, but I want to know where this relationship is going.

Q.   Hi I have known my boyfriend nearly 3 years now and most of the time its ok but every now and then we have terrible rows and I sometimes see his face changes and his body language as if he is pretty tempted to hit me. He has shoved me and once ...

A.   6 July 2008: I agree with Lexilou completely. Ive been around abusive relationships before and they start of exactly how you explained. If he isnt ashamed of how he treats you then something is wrong. What are his limitations and do you really want to be around ... (read in full...)

32, I live at home and I keep changing careers. Will it put guys off me?

Q.   Will guys avoid pursuing a long-term relationship with me (even though I'm gorgeous, smart, sweet) b/c I'm 32 yet still live at home (since I keep switching careers)?...

A.   6 July 2008: Guys are attracted to who you are. If your smart and confident about who you are then they will love that.I dont think its so unusual that your still at home. This should give you more leway to go out and meet new people. If you find someone you ... (read in full...)

I took my wife back, but now there's no affection from her.

Q.   i have been married for 36 year my wife left me 5 years ago for someone she meet on the internet after a lot of crap i did settlement and tryed to get on with my life, it didnot work out for her i think and when we meet i took her back i love her ...

A.   6 July 2008: Have you tried to talk to her? Try to be open and listen to how she feels about it and it might bring you closer. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want me as part of his social life!

Q.   Hi. I dont know what to do with my relationship. I've been living with my partner for 7 months now and he wont involve me in his personal live. He says its because he has always been private but I want our relationship to be more open. He doesnt ...

A.   6 July 2008: Thanks scrazy. Im going to tell him that Im not putting up with it anymore. I dont want to always have this problem.One of his friends took a dislike to me at the start out of jealousy cos she liked him. Thats not my problem anymore. I shouldnt have ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want me as part of his social life!

Q.   Hi. I dont know what to do with my relationship. I've been living with my partner for 7 months now and he wont involve me in his personal live. He says its because he has always been private but I want our relationship to be more open. He doesnt ...

A.   5 July 2008: Thank you for your advice . I dont want to leave him because Ive never loved someone so much. But I also dont want to be made a fool of. I've brought these issues up a lot before and he has been defensive. I just dont know what to do.... (read in full...)

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