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Will I ever love again?

Q.   I dated a guy for six years. He was my first real relationship, I guess you could say my first love. We got engaged and had plans to get marriied. After we got engaged we started having a lot of problems. I loved him and he loved me though he wasnt...

A.   4 November 2010: The way I see it. Is there is something still there.. Like love scared... Your scared if it does go furth the samething might happen again...... (read in full...)

Should I move in witht them?

Q.   Turning 18 in August and Im moving to my cousins house. Well her and her bf stay together.. When I move we had decided to split the rent between 4 ppl 200 each out of 650... That was beacuse my bf was going to move in too.. My cousin said that he ...

A.   25 July 2010: Thnx for the advice...I decided not to move in with my cousin...... (read in full...)

I cheated on my b/f again and this time I'm afraid to tell him

Q.   So I have been with my bf for 2yrs...Within that time we both have cheated...But were still together...I kno your prolly think why were together still..We both understand where were comin from when we both did it..I kno a relationship shouldnt be ...

A.   17 July 2010: So I ended up telling him what I did and he broke up with me...It hurts bt Im not going let it get to me Im try my best jus to keep moving forward... ... (read in full...)

Lesbian or bisexual?

Q.   Okay so I recently came out to my family and friends as a lesbian. I love the idea of having a sexual and emotional relationship with a woman. But something has been bugging me lately. When I see good looking guys I think, "oh, they're really s...

A.   29 June 2010: I would say ur bi beacuse u still look at guys nd they dont disgust u...I consider myself bi because I look at girls I messed around with sum too..Even tho I have a man...But I rather have him then a girl...... (read in full...)

He added the girl he cheated with as a friend

Q.   Okay well my bf nd I have been together for 3yrs...Within one of the yrs he cheated on me with this girl from where he lives..But I cheated on him within that time too...Well he had jus added her as a friend on myspace...When I seen it I flip out..I ...

A.   25 June 2010: Well he did as I told him to..No questions asked nd nnothin said....So all in all it worked out better then I thought it would be...He deleted her...... (read in full...)

Should I forgive boyfriend for lying about drinking?

Q.   Ok so i really need help. Me and my boyfriend had been dating for about 10 months and he is about to leave for the marines. Well the weekend before he left, we were in a little argument over something he did but nothing huge. recently we didnt even ...

A.   21 June 2010: If you two love each other like you seem...If I were you I would move on who cares if he lied to you..He had to lie to not disapoint you....Can't you see he was only looking out for you..He didnt want to hurt your feelings.. To me thats a man that ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hides how he feels from me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and everytime there is something or something bothering him or when he is in bad mood he never tells me what is wrong. This causes me to constantly worry about him. It really concerns me that ...

A.   21 June 2010: I kno how u feel because I have a boyfriend jus like that...If I were you I woulnd't really think about it as much..I mean it bothered me too but I got used to it.. Like you said you tell him alot on your part..So I'm thinking your open minded in ... (read in full...)

Why do I get urges to pee alot days after having sex?

Q.   hey guys My question is kinda gross! Recently me and bf starting having sex for the first time but ive notice a few days later i need to pee all the time and like more than i ever did befor! Any one any idea of what it could be? Also I feel like...

A.   22 April 2010: It could be that he has given you a blater inffection or it could be that your just cleaning out.... (read in full...)

My doctor won't give me birth control, what should I do now?

Q.   So my problem is that my doctor doesn't want to prescribe me birth control for my PCOS and I don't know what to do. Any advice?...

A.   22 April 2010: Go to a different doctor or ask someone to get it for you...... (read in full...)

Why do I get urges to pee alot days after having sex?

Q.   hey guys My question is kinda gross! Recently me and bf starting having sex for the first time but ive notice a few days later i need to pee all the time and like more than i ever did befor! Any one any idea of what it could be? Also I feel like...

A.   22 April 2010: Not real sure whats wrong but mabey u should go get checked by the doctor....... (read in full...)

Is a 4 year age difference too much?

Q.   Hey all, we all know that love got no age limits and stuff like that BUT. what you think : when a girl is 4 years younger then a guy (guy is 20 and the girl is 16), can they date? and im not talking about sex and stuff like that. when a gir...

A.   17 April 2010:  I don't think that is bad. I'm dating a boi that is 3 yrs older then me. It doesn't matter what other people think about it. What matters most is that you two are comfortable with the whole thing. If sex is not involved.... (read in full...)

I love her but she slept with so many men

Q.   I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

A.   17 April 2010: First of all if I were you I would tell her to get checked.. Jus incase she might have something so you don't catch anyhting.. From there firgure out if you want to stay with her or not.... (read in full...)

How do I help my friend?

Q.   My best friend and I have been best friends for four years now and we've had our ups and downs (what teenage girls haven't?) but we've always pulled through and our relationship has remained intact. She's always had a pretty hard time at home (di...

A.   17 April 2010: I think the best way you could help her is just stay by her side the rest of the way. Even tho you don't know how it feels to be in her sitution.One big thing of edvice is to say things that would make her feel better or take her out. So she can get ... (read in full...)

I woke up to see my boyfriend feeling up my sister!

Q.   One nite me my boyfriend of six months and my step sister drank, I could feel something wrong, later that nite we went back to our house watched a movie n I fell asleep, then I woke up to find my my boyfriend feeling up my sister right over me, I ...

A.   17 April 2010:  I would say dump him and find someone new because you know he messed with someone you thought you could trust. Most likely he is going to cheat again but if he does he is going to do it secertly. So if you do ended up staying with him you mite want ... (read in full...)

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