Is this kind of fighting my fault?
Q. I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...
A. 28 December 2007: im glad that you two sorted yourselves out
things will get better as time goes on and spending more time alone figuring out things for yourself is a very good idea.
this way you if you get back togethr you will both have clear understandin... (read in full...)
We broke up and every day it gets harder and harder to breath...when will the pain stop?
Q. So.. Basically, my boyfriend and I broke up. It's been about two months now, but I still love him. Or at least, I think I loved him, and the feeling won't go away. I'm not quite sure what love really is, but I think I loved him in some way. He...
A. 26 December 2007: aw dont worry love im pretty much going through the exact same thing as you.
we were friends for a year before we dated aswell!
time has healed the pain just a bit.
all i can say is that the best thing is to let your emotions out. seriously. i... (read in full...)
Should I tell my forbidden love how I feel??
Q. I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf ...
A. 26 December 2007: i agree
telling her is the bet option..but give her choices. ask her how she feels about it. if you tell her you need to be able to take the fact that she may not feel comfortable with you anymore
good luck... (read in full...)
I want him to come and visit me to see if he is interested in me, an older woman.
Q. Not long ago I wanted to get away so I booked a cruise. I thought it would be something good to do by myself and get away and think. I enjoyed it. While I was there on the first evening during the get acquainted activities I met a younger man. He ...
A. 26 December 2007: you could try talking to him?
it might help just a bit.
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Is this kind of fighting my fault?
Q. I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...
A. 26 December 2007: two words GET OUT!!!
get out now
disappointment = bad
tears=very bad
tears for more than a week = king kong is attacking the city bad!
this guy is obviously a waste of your emotion.
after 28 years if life shouldnt he have realised that girls ... (read in full...)
No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?
Q. I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...
A. 26 December 2007: i agree with minelisse.
He could possibly just miss your company and just wanted to let you know that he stil respects you as a person
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What are her intentions? Please help!
Q. I'm in the military and married my high school sweetheart whom I am more in love with today than I have ever been. We have been together about 7 years and married for almost 4 years. We both cheated when we were "kids" and just dating, but we have ...
A. 26 December 2007: this seems like quite a dilemma.
Your wife seems very confused at this point in her life and you need to accomodate for that. but that doesnt mean standing idly by. You only have limited time to spend with the women you obviously love so i sugg... (read in full...)
How can I get him to "push my buttons" more?
Q. Ok i have a bit of a problem i love me b/f but sometimes i swear he has no clue about anything now im not sayin he is stupid but he just knows how to push my buttons and say the wrong things at the wrong time.....how do i drop a hint about how i ...
A. 26 December 2007: wel
thats a very confusing situation
the best is to communicate with him...please dont tell him hes stupid tho..but when hes pushing your buttons tell him. theres no need to be rude or mean but a simple please dont do that it really annoys me or th... (read in full...)
How can I shake the winter blues??
Q. I think I have the winter blues.I've been really depressed lately,and EXTREMLY self conscious of my body.I've lost my tan.=( Its weird,because in the summer I have no problems being confident what so ever. I just feel fat and pale lately. How can ...
A. 25 December 2007: every girl had fat days..its horrible but there are some ways of making yourself feel better. sometimes you must admit defeat to the horrible self concious teenage life but if ur not ready to give up and retreat in ur pjs with sum chocolate biscuits ... (read in full...)
How can we show them it is for real and how can I find out if all he wants is sex??
Q. Ok I'm 14 and he's 14 we have been together a lil over 3 months, we met through my ex and he and my ex are really good friend but while i was with my ex he asked me out and at first i didnt know what to do but in the end i broke up with my ex to go ...
A. 25 December 2007: its horrible when parents tell you its just puppy love and you just look at them and think BUT ITS REAL!!!! i know..i was thinking the exact same thing..only 5 moths later the king of all jerks was kissing someone else...i gues the only thing i can ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise his role in killing the passion in our relationship??
Q. My boyfriend of 3 years complains that I am not passionate in bed anymore and I don't initiate sex. I thought about it for awhile and I realised that while I give a lot, I don't get a lot. He hasn't taken me out for dinner, or for a movie, or just ...
A. 25 December 2007: Hey
i empathise with your situation and i understand how needy some guys can be without realising it.
I suggest a compromise. Tell him what you would like..a movie or dinner mayb? tell him that he can plan the first half of the night (the movie or... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher and I think he knows...
Q. Hiiii xx First off, I'm a 15 year old chick. I kind of have a crush on my grade nine math teacher (I'm in grade ten now.)I won't go into details, but at the beginning of this year he was fine with me, and nowadays he seems to be avoiding me and ...
A. 25 December 2007: i think the teacher is doing the best he can under the circumstances. i think it would be best to just let him be. if you are struggling in maths then mayb invest in a tutor because by asking him for help you would be putting him in a very akward ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my teacher and I think he knows...
Q. Hiiii xx First off, I'm a 15 year old chick. I kind of have a crush on my grade nine math teacher (I'm in grade ten now.)I won't go into details, but at the beginning of this year he was fine with me, and nowadays he seems to be avoiding me and ...
A. 25 December 2007: i think the teacher is doing the best he can under the circumstances. i think it would be best to just let him be. if you are struggling in maths then mayb invest in a tutor because by asking him for help you would be putting him in a very akward ... (read in full...)
How can I not go into marriage anxious after the guilt of feeling my mothers touch??
Q. Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close to...
A. 25 December 2007: wow..i must say this one had me at a loss for a moment....i think the best thing for you to do would to see a counsellor..soon.
they should be able to help you sort out any anxious moods or feeling that you feel towards starting your new job. As f... (read in full...)
My gf will travel with a group of friends, including her ex who is a womaniser. This situation pushes me to the brink of sanity. Do I ask her not to go?
Q. Okay, heres my predicament and I just want some feed back from people to see if i'm being out of line. My girlfriend of a couple years has always maintained a friendship with her ex. Him and their group of friends have always been close for years. ...
A. 25 December 2007: Hi, im just going to add my femine input to this, even if its just going to state the obvious. She is YOUR girlfriend..which means she likes you..he is her EX..which means she doesnt like him in that way anymore..It WONT just be him and her in one ... (read in full...)
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