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Will his parents every accept me?

Q.   I need some advice. I am a few years older than my boyfriend, and I have a child. I left my husband for this man, and for this reason ( and for the ones named above), his parents refuse to accept me. He is also from a different cultur...

A.   26 December 2008: there's really nothing you can do to force them to accept you and your past. you can only talk to the man you're with to get him to try to talk to his parents. I understand he doesn't want to be disloyal to his parents for your sake. all he can do ... (read in full...)

My hubby saw my postings! My life is over!

Q.   Hi i really need help, my hubby saw the other 2 postings and in one of them i confess me and my brother in law making love and me being his danzel in distress, he knew of course i confessed, but he didnt know that i was still thinking about him, ...

A.   5 November 2008: this is going to suck if I tell you this but if he doesn't forgive you then it's all your fault and you have to move on with your life. You have to live with that mistake for the rest of your life and your going to learn your lesson for the next man ... (read in full...)

My wife has been masturbating a lot lately and I'm distraught she's doing it without me!

Q.   My wife has been masturbating a lot lately. She has stated that she had never even masturbated before. She is now 44 and she masturbates regularly. I have figured out that she masturbates at least 4 times a night when I work nights. Even if I leave ...

A.   17 October 2008: I think you should try talking to her about it. sit her down at a time when she seems like she's not busy or distraught and talk to her about what's been going on and how you feel. make sure not to blame her for anything. Tell her how YOU feel. you ... (read in full...)

He was obsessed with me to begin with, no it's the other way around.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and I am absolutely in love with him. When the relationship first started, I was a little bit freaked out because he was so obssessed with me, and expressed his fear of losing me to anoth...

A.   17 October 2008: I think what the Missy Missouri's answer is PERFECT! it's exactly what you should do!! good luck!... (read in full...)

Why doesn't anyone want to be with me?

Q.   I am 23 years old and I have never had a boyfriend, I have never had sex, I've never even had oral sex and this is not because I don't want to... it's because no one has ever tried. See, I think the problem is I am 23 but I look like I'm 16... I'm ...

A.   17 October 2008: maybe you're doing something wrong when you were out with those guys that never really called you back. maybe you gave off a weird vibe because you were getting ahead of yourself -- like thinking "this is guna be my boyfriend soon" you should pace ... (read in full...)

Ladies... what does the word "masculinity" mean to you?

Q.   One for the ladies. I would like to know what 'masculinity' means to you....

A.   17 October 2008: man like.. like for me.. he holds himself up high.. like looks really confident and doesn't slouch. it depends on the way u carry yourself too... (read in full...)

I'm still sleeping with my ex, even although he's had a girlfriend now for 11 months.

Q.   Well last year I was with a lad for 8 months, he told me he was in love with me and we were so close, it was amazing. He was my boyfriend and my best friend and made me feel the happiest person in the world. We split up after a few arguments, then I ...

A.   13 October 2008: you need to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself is he really worth it. He's degrading you as a woman and as human being. He's only using you for your body. Sorry to be blunt but that's the truth. You need to stop talking to him completely ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a guy who isn't my boyfriend.

Q.   Hello, basically, I'm in love with a guy who isn't my boyfriend. A few months ago, we dated for a few weeks, and it was one of the most amazing times of my life. We'd go back to his house, and just lie on his bed hugging. However, he was working ...

A.   13 October 2008: you need to be with the man you love. five months---it's not years. You're young. You have your whole life ahead of you. You should break up with ur "now" bf and go with the one you love. Love doesn't come around everyday. You should talk it out ... (read in full...)

I hate it. I want to be able to be stable without friends in my life! I need help soon!

Q.   I feel like I am addicted to my friends. I feel lonely without them but at the same time I feel when I am with them I get annoyed. it's kind of like a drug, you hate the fact that you need it but then u end up taking it anyway because you can't live ...

A.   12 August 2008: I like my friends it's that I feel the need to talk to them all the time. I can't handle being alone by myself. When I do talk to them, I get disappointed in myself for not having enough self-disipline to take care of my priorities then talk to ... (read in full...)

I love the stimulating conversation with my teacher but I'm confused about where we stand

Q.   I have been in love with my history teacher for three years now. I had him for one year (sophomore year) and afterwards I was a teacher's cadet for the other two. Since I was sixteen our relationship has grown a lot intellectually and emotionally, ...

A.   29 May 2008: I think you should talk to him and see him every once in a while and see how he feels and then u should wait and see what happens with his girl.. if he doesn't break up with her then it's not destined and if he does.. well u know the rest... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   29 May 2008: I can't say I know exactly how u feel but I like my teacher also.. just understand it like this.. I know u don't want to hear this but get over him.. seriously u can't still like him cuz that would be wrong. put urself in the pregant girls shoes ... (read in full...)

I know it's weird to think constantly about my history teacher, but how would I stop?

Q.   Well lately I have been constantly thinking about my history teacher. He's gorgeous, and sweet, funny... I know it's so wierd but I can't stop thinking about him as hard as I try. And I can't tell my friends. I don't know what to do? How do you ...

A.   29 May 2008: wait till ur 18 then go back for some coffee and get to know him and maybe he'll "fancy" u... if ya know what I mean =]... (read in full...)

Did I come on too strong and obvious?

Q.   Hi, so me and this college girl a couple years younger than myself did the long distance thing for the past couple of months. We texted, facebooked, phoned everynow and then, and visited eachother a few times. Things seemed to be good. Well, last ...

A.   27 May 2008: don't even worry about it- over analyzing doesn't get u anywhere. trust I've been there and it just puts u down. and if u want to u shud be honest with her (that is of course, if u really like her) tell her how ur kinda interesed in her and how u ... (read in full...)

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