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Drifting away from my wife, having an affair and utterly confused! Please help?

Q.   I am a married man of 5 years. While my wife is a wonderful mom to our two children our relationship has diminished to the point where I feel were just good friends. She does not feel the same, but unfortunately our lack of time together, intimacy ...

A.   19 May 2010: to be honest you seem to be stuck in a rut with your wife, i think that you should take some time out on your own to think and see how you feel, at this time in your life you need to not be with the other girl the time is just not right now if its ... (read in full...)

He strung me along for a whole year, while he had another gf...where do I go from here?

Q.   i was with my partner for 12 years and have an 11 year old son, we have been apart 1yr now he said his feelings had changed so he moved out , he often said he regretted his decision and is relly upset that he hurt me , he has been in hospital with ...

A.   19 May 2010: thanks for the feed back guys ... i dont think there is a point in asking him as he seems to have made his choice and that was to throw 12 years away, to be honest it is killing me that my child is sitting there for the night with the two of them ... (read in full...)

I want our family back together but how I can I do this when there is another woman involved?

Q.   he left me a year ago saying his feelings had changed in truth he had feelings for a girl he met at work, he has been unwell since he left saying he is really upset by what happened and is so sorry for hurting me, he has been leading me to believe ...

A.   18 May 2010: he left because he said he had feelings her but nothing had happened, but for the last year has been mostly on his own as most days he has been at my house for some reason or other but he was also having bad anxiety attacks and it was me he came to ... (read in full...)

Have I got my hopes up for nothing?

Q.   Hi, I have never used one of these before but then i've never been so confused. I broke up with my ex three months ago. We didn't contact each other afterwards and things seemed to be slowly getting better. However recently we have been ...

A.   18 May 2010: you need to meet up and take things slow and just have some fun and try not to let either familes into the picture ... you will know fairly soon if its meant to be.... (read in full...)

Part of me wants to break up with her, and the other part wants to stay so I don't hurt her

Q.   Ok... how do i start this off... i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years... our anniversary is coming up real soon (less then 2 weeks)... and i dont know what to do anymore... i feel as if she has gone into this fantasy she has had since ...

A.   18 May 2010: you need to take some time out and assess how it is you really feel about this girl and once you have done that then you need to be honest with her without it turning into a row... if you keep going the way you are the two of you will only resent ... (read in full...)

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