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I want our family back together but how I can I do this when there is another woman involved?

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Question - (18 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2010)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

he left me a year ago saying his feelings had changed in truth he had feelings for a girl he met at work, he has been unwell since he left saying he is really upset by what happened and is so sorry for hurting me, he has been leading me to believe that she was out of the picture and maybe a chance for us, then last week i get a text saying he cant do this anymore and he is so unhappy so he is letting the child meet her , which he did and they are inseperible since even though i am still getting texts what do i do .. i do still love him very much and would love my family back together but how can i do this when she is there.......

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A female reader, trayt Ireland +, writes (18 May 2010):

he left because he said he had feelings her but nothing had happened, but for the last year has been mostly on his own as most days he has been at my house for some reason or other but he was also having bad anxiety attacks and it was me he came to for help and he had told me he needed to be emotionally neutral to get better and then we would see so i guess i have been keeping my life on hold for nothing or so it seems as he has probably been with the two of us while he makes up his mind .... any advice would help...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010):

Hello,

So he basically left you to be with her. Now he's in contact with you playing with your emotions.

Move on...he has made up his mind. He somehow wants to ensure you're still available waiting in the wings for him. Don't be. Keep busy, I know your wish is to have your family together, and if he felt the same he would have worked this issues with you instead of leaving to pursue a new relationship.

Good luck

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