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My ex and I are hanging out, but I have no idea where we're going!

Q.   I left my son's father almost 8 yrs ago after being together for 8 yrs, yet for 2 yrs we have been hanging out more and even having sexual relations (he cheated on his gf of 2 1/2 yrs for more than half of that time w/ me). But I can't seem to get ...

A.   11 July 2006: I have to say, it doeas seem to me that obviously you have a connection with the guy after knowing each other for so long and having a child together, but he does appear to want to have it all as they say. Being with someone you have a past with ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant but in love with my ex... !

Q.   hi there! i am 20 years old and pregnant me and the father of the child is living in the same house. I think i'm in love with my ex we where togheter for 4 years and i think we belong toghter. the father of the child and i is not really happy. i ...

A.   11 July 2006: Ask yourself one thing though. Are you really in love with your ex or are you just pining for somethng that in retrospect looked better because you're unhappy in a relationship you feel a bit trapped in due to the pregnancy? Your current ... (read in full...)

My 4 year old has a hyperactivity disorder and it's exhausting me? Any advice

Q.   hi, my nearly four year old daughter who I think may have some sort of hyperactivity disorder, is driving me to distraction. she has recently started to have violent tantrums and has hurt my son who is 7, and myself in the process. i can't think of ...

A.   11 July 2006: I have to say I agree with Anglicc. Medication isn't always needed and should be used once other avenues are explored. Cutting out sugar is a good start, but also many hyperactive children react badly to alot of chemical preservatives and food ... (read in full...)

Her daughter was abused and now Mom needs advice on how to help her little girl.

Q.   hey guys n gals. im an aunt on here but i wish to remain anon. my question is on behalf of a member of my family. lets call her lauren. lauren has an 8year old daughter who has just recently told her that she has been sexually abuse...

A.   11 July 2006: Perhaps taking her to therapy (with a specialist child psychologist) would help. Lauren could tell her daughter she is going to see the doc, but that if she doesn't want to talk she doesn't have to and to just give it a try. Child therapists are ... (read in full...)

Where can I get the best beaker replacement to bottles?

Q.   hi just wondering if you know where i can get a beaker from for my 2 year old daughter as i wanna get her of off bottles...

A.   11 July 2006: Dr. Browns is a very good brand and their cups do not require the extra sucking some non-spill cups call for that can put a child off. You can get them at boots, mothercare and most baby stores or on the net. Perhaps taking your daughter with you to ... (read in full...)

Could our arguing be affecting our little girl?

Q.   We have a 3 year old little girl. Me and my husband often have conflicts at home and sometimes we raise our voices and be irritable towards each other.How is it affecting her?...

A.   11 July 2006: Hi, Well yes arguing so your child can hear is distressing for the child. However i think as long as the arguments are just that and not violent or filled with death threats etc (you know what I mean), than it's much healthier for a child to see ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a disobedient 9 year old girl?

Q.   I am having trouble with my 9 year old daughter who has recently become quite rude and disobedient. I have tried smacking her but often she just refuses to get over my knee. What should I do? ...

A.   11 July 2006: Well, As a mother myself I find smacking is a short term solution at the best of times, and as you said, when they get bigger they can just refuse. I think it would be better to have clear punishments for unwanted behaviour that will really have... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and obsessed with sex... How do I stop?

Q.   I'm kind of obsessed with sex right now. I go on porn sites and watch live sex cams. What will i do. I really want to stop it. I'm only 14!!!...

A.   10 July 2006: To be honest, if you were 14 and not obsessed with sex it would be more weird. Porn sites are not a bad thing and they serve a purpose, just as long as you keep in mind that the day you have real sex when your older will not be like a porno. It's ... (read in full...)

I'm a lesbian and I love my friend! How do I tell her?

Q.   I'm a lesbian, how do i tell my friend i love her?...

A.   10 July 2006: You are a lesbian, but what is the orientation of your friend? If i'm assuming she's straight then what is the likelihood of her ever returning your feelings and if you confess your love to her will it ruin a great friendship? She may react badly ... (read in full...)

In love with a married man...

Q.   Hi all i have got myself into a hurtful situation and i really don't know what i can do anymore. I am 21 and single and just over 4 months i became close friends with a married man who is over double my age and he has 2 kids and a profesional line ...

A.   10 July 2006: All i can say is that yes, you have got yourself in to a very hurtful situation where you and alot of other peole run the risk of being very hurt. To be honest, if he loved you so much and it wasn't like a typical affair in his mind how is it that ... (read in full...)

Guys... Did this man just use me to satisfy his ego?

Q.   Hi all... I have a question for EVERYONE on this site... especially the men. I just broke up with a jerk whose very thought makes my blood boil. About 18 months ago, I was going through a very difficult emotional time. That is when I met this ...

A.   10 July 2006: Erm..if he's the kind of guy that would tell you he dumped his pregnant ex for you (even if it wasn't true), what on earth were you doing with sucha loser to begin with? I would have read that as the kind of indicator of personality I want to stay ... (read in full...)

My BF's boasting about his sexual past is shredding my self-confidence!

Q.   Hi, my bf and I have been together almost 3 years and we live together. Things are great but there is one thing that bugs me a lot. Sometimes when my bf is with his friends and they are all drinking he will always bring up a past sexual experience ...

A.   10 July 2006: You say you have told him how you feel and how upset this makes you, but have you really sat down and explained how his makes you feel? It may be hard to sit there and say to him, but men can be pretty obtuse sometimes, if you don't spell it out he ... (read in full...)

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