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Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

Q.   I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me ...

A.   18 January 2011: I thought the whole point of a girl being wet was so her body could handle a penis entering her vagina. I think she just has really low self esteem. I doubt she was abused and I'm her like 3rd boyfriend. She's still friends with one of them and... (read in full...)

Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

Q.   I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me ...

A.   18 January 2011: Thanks, I've talked to her about toys, but she wants me to wait til we get our own place before I get her one for some reason. I think she's turned on enough, she gets really wet. She says I'm too big, but I'm only like 7 or 8 inches. I know tha... (read in full...)

Her attitute toward sex is really frustrating

Q.   I'm getting discouraged and feeling really scared for our relationship. Ever since we started having sex my girlfriend has resisted me. I can't do anything to her without seemingly forcing her. It annoys me and make me feel like she doesn't want me ...

A.   18 January 2011: It's not that she doesn't enjoy the sex (when it doesn't hurt) she just involuntarily blocks all my advances. She's not very religious or anything like that. I think a psychologist would be more in order than a gynecologist. It may hurt because ... (read in full...)

21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and...

A.   18 January 2011: You're treading in murky water man. She could get mad at you and get you thrown in jail. Her parents could get mad at you and have you thrown in jail. I've seen it before. What do you see in a 16 year old girl that you don't see in a 18 year old... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out in a way that's romantic, yet not too cheesy if she says no?

Q.   Ok, so tomorrow I'm gonna hang out with this girl I like and I want to ask her out. I want to ask her out soon after I see her tomorrow, that way if she says yes we can do what couples do and if she says no we'll still have time to hang out (I'm ...

A.   20 April 2010: I'll see if she wants to be friends with benefits, if she says no then that's as far as I'll go, I'll control myself. Honestly I don't want to be her boyfriend anymore. What she did was irreversible and I won't be able to forget it. So even if ... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out in a way that's romantic, yet not too cheesy if she says no?

Q.   Ok, so tomorrow I'm gonna hang out with this girl I like and I want to ask her out. I want to ask her out soon after I see her tomorrow, that way if she says yes we can do what couples do and if she says no we'll still have time to hang out (I'm ...

A.   15 April 2010: She turned me down, but for some reason she let me fool around with her (No sex, just a lot of touching) afterwards so I was confused. She said she didn't have anyone she liked, so I thought I still had a chance. Well, like a few weeks after I ... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out in a way that's romantic, yet not too cheesy if she says no?

Q.   Ok, so tomorrow I'm gonna hang out with this girl I like and I want to ask her out. I want to ask her out soon after I see her tomorrow, that way if she says yes we can do what couples do and if she says no we'll still have time to hang out (I'm ...

A.   26 February 2010: Thanks guys... (read in full...)

What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend?

Q.   What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend? She liked me at some point, but I have no clue how she feels now. I tried looking at her as just a friend, but it's impossible for me. I stopped talking to her on ...

A.   29 January 2010: @Gridrebel...she really stubborn, so it's hard to tell if she cares or not. I was out of town and one her friends saw me when I got back like 3 weeks ago. She asked why I didn't tell her I was back, I was kinda cold when I answered her, so she may ... (read in full...)

Ladies: do you think guys that are virgins are cute?

Q.   Do ladies around my age (17-23 I guess) think it's cute for a guy that's 19 to be a virgin? I know a few girls, one is 18 now, and she said she wants a guy with experience. But on the other end, one day when I was in class these "experienced" (lol) ...

A.   2 November 2009: Thanks everyone ... (read in full...)

Respect for your boyfriend or bucking a culture trend?

Q.   My boyfriend seems to think that i don't respect him because i always have an opinion to everything he says.in our culture "men" get much more respect but i dont agree.could it be that im trying too hard to pass the message on to him?i feel so ...

A.   26 October 2009: You're allowed to have an opinion, but contradicting everything he says, even on meaningless things, may be sending him a message that you feel like arguing. I seriously doubt that this is a matter of him wanting you to submit to his opinion because ... (read in full...)

Did I make the right decision by saying lets not be friends?

Q.   Yeah, so I like this girl and she claims she likes me but we were gonna try the whole just friends thing for some unknown reason. We've been friends for a while now, we see each other once every blue moon. She said I was her best friend. We're ...

A.   15 June 2009: Thanks you guys... (read in full...)

Please help me understand her...

Q.   This girl and I are fairly close... well, really close. We have never been boyfriend and girlfriend, but we have kissed and we exchange "I love you"s a lot. The things I don't understand: 1. She said she loves me and likes me, but she doesn't...

A.   31 May 2009: Thanks you guys... (read in full...)

Please help me understand her...

Q.   This girl and I are fairly close... well, really close. We have never been boyfriend and girlfriend, but we have kissed and we exchange "I love you"s a lot. The things I don't understand: 1. She said she loves me and likes me, but she doesn't...

A.   30 May 2009: I have told her how I feel about everything...If I bring it up again she's just gonna think I'm bitching at her or something. And can you even call this the friend-zone? I'm not even part of her lil social circle...she's with them like 20 times as... (read in full...)

Why is the guy I'm sharing a bed with touching me?

Q.   I have a problem. I have been living in a house for 8 months now and recently moved out. But the there was a guy in my old house who me and my roomie became real good friends with, and even though we have moved out now, we visit the old place very ...

A.   21 May 2009: ...stop being a big tease and don't sleep in the same bed with him. In my opinion there is now such thing as "Sleeping in the same bed (as friends)" unless you're both the same sex. ... (read in full...)

He said how lucky my future husband will be

Q.   A guy friend of mine told me this: " I hope that your future husband realizes how lucky he is to have someone like you." ? This guy and I were talking and he just randomly told me this. He told me he liked me, and then he just said that. I re...

A.   12 May 2009: Why can't you just take the compliment? He's not saying you're planning to get married any time soon, all he's saying is that he thinks you're a really good catch...... (read in full...)

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