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I can't stand that my boyfriend smokes marijuana. what do I do?

Q.   So this summer my boyfriend of over a year has recently started trying drugs and partying, etc. He's a year older than me, so he's off at college and doing more stuff. This really really bugs me, as an understatement. I can't even describe how much ...

A.   6 September 2010: You are not the one with the problem here, don't think that for a minute. Doing drugs like dope might seem innocent enough but I had a friend that tried it at 30 and went on to give her way big mental issues. Do NOT feel that you are in any way to ... (read in full...)

The way I feel is starting to scare me and I have no idea what to do about it

Q.   Dear Cupid, the way I feel is beginning to scare me. I’ve been feeling very very low for about 18 months; I am aware it’s a problem and am doing my best to cope. I went to the doctor about a week ago but found she was unhelpful and pretty ...

A.   16 April 2010: I am SO very sorry you feel this way but don't feel alone, many are like you both teenagers and adults too. You are a smart person who has recognised your symptoms. Don't worry about that doctor, get help as the others responding have said. I went ... (read in full...)

I am still a virgin, is it unrealistic to wait until I am married?

Q.   I'm a 45 yr old male christian virgin. The women I know just want to be friends with me or they never want to be married and they just want a physical relationship. These are both christian and non christian women. I wanted to be married by now. I'm ...

A.   21 February 2010: I think you need to look at what is human and normal. You have sexual feelings, the same as everyone. If you cannot find a soul mate who you wish to marry, don't deny your own personal and normal feelings at the expense of your psychological health ... (read in full...)

I would rather have him in my life as a friend, than not in my life at all

Q.   My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I was/am devastated as I love him in so many ways. Before we even started dating we were close friends and had so much fun together. Then we started getting more intimate and before long were an official ...

A.   15 September 2009: I admire your attitude and don't think you should just walk away from what was once a great friendship. How about telling him that? Emailing him even, so there is not so much pressure for him to reply? Just tell him you miss your friendship and when ... (read in full...)

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