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Mum and my husband were having sex! I feel sick!

Q.   I am 21 and my new husband is 23. We have been married for 2 weeks now. I came home from work one day to find my husband in bed with my mother kissing and having sex! I can't face either of them and feel sick to the stomach after finding out th...

A.   22 September 2005: And this is were this chapter of this book should end for you. You need to leave your husband and your mother there. There are so many great people in this world you will find them - they will love you more than your mother and your husband. At ... (read in full...)

He hurts me and threatens more harm... but I can't just kick him out? Can I?

Q.   I am 19 years old. I have been with my boyfriend two years next month. We had a "great" relationship at first, not really, at first I was blind. I had an apartment and he was staying with family friends. Short story, he moved in. Five months l...

A.   22 September 2005: RRRRRRUUUUUUNNNNNN - I am glad you at least now that you don't deserve such treatment. I hope you are still alive to read this reply. You need to go to the police with this. Have him deported and move away, change your name if you have to - do not ... (read in full...)

No intimacy from my boyfriend in over a year. And he won't discuss it!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He is 16 years older than I am. I love him dearly but im really depressed about our relationship. He has never slept with me and hasn't kissed me in over a year. He says he is happy the way things are. ...

A.   22 September 2005: He is 16 years older than you - so he is treating you like a child. In a healthy relationship not only you don't have sex for a year but you discuss issues, which he is not willing to do with you. What do you mean you can't leave him, that you ... (read in full...)

Still hanging on to a thread of hope the my ex-girlfriend will come back to me...

Q.   I've asked questions on here before. The answers have been very helpful, but I'm sure you are all aware, things change. I told my ex girlfriend (who dumped me for someone else) that we couldn't be friends. At the time I said that to her, we were ...

A.   21 September 2005: I will write this to you what had helped me in my whole life. I hope it will make sense to you and you will be happier person becauce of it. First of all, if you love her let her go be yourself. The sweetest "revenge is to be happy, look good and ... (read in full...)

Could my pubic hair be off-putting to guys, even though it's tidy?

Q.   I have pubic hair insecurities. I am an attractive 23year old girl who is confident with my body, however I am afraid that my pubic hair could be unattractive! I know this sounds dumb, but how important is it to a guy? I wax my bikini line to k...

A.   21 September 2005: What helps is a little baby oil. Try it after a shower - it will feel so much smoother. Public hair is the last thing guys worry about. They might but it deffinitely is the last thing. You could find out in your relationship to a man what it is ... (read in full...)

My best girlfriend and her guilt-tripping has come between me and my man...

Q.   HI there, please can someone help - I'm going crazy here. I wrote a while ago explaining that I moved to the US to be with a man who dumped me because I basically ignored what he wanted and moved into his house with no leaving date (we had agr...

A.   21 September 2005: Very complicated question. Your emotions are all over the place. You need to be you. Don't try to please your best friend or your man. Be yourself. If that means losing both of them so be it. Don't leave like this - you need to clarifiy this... (read in full...)

My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.

Q.   I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet...

A.   21 September 2005: Good thing is that you have to give him permission first. What choice will you make? I feel sorry for both of these kids if they through with this.... (read in full...)

I want my ex to be the father of my baby, but I'm scared it might be my one-night-stand!

Q.   I am 13 weeks pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have broke up. What my problem is, is that we broke up a while ago and I slept with someone else, then we got back together. We aren't together now. I am really scared that my one night stand is the fath...

A.   20 September 2005: It is going to be the way it was meant to be dear. Things happen for a reason. Your boyfriend can still be the best dad ever regardless if that is his child or not. You will see in 6 months, 6 years or 16 years you will be happy it turned out to ... (read in full...)

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