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I don't know how to deal with my ex being in a committed relationship w/ someone else!

Q.   I've been ok with my ex bf (the love of my life) going out with girls, because I know him, and he can't hold a relationship (which is why we're not together), so I know that none of these relationships mean anything to him. But he's just started ...

A.   9 December 2006: Hi Its always hard to stay friends with ex boyfriends!! But its worse if you still love them and they are with someone else. I am in this type of situation myself at the moment. But some one gave me some good advice the other day and it really h... (read in full...)

Thought I was over the ex bf..but my heart lurches each time I see him. Whay am I doing this?

Q.   I seen my ex boyfriend today. We have been split up for 18 months now after he left me for soemone else. For the first 12 months I was so upset and hurt and angry. Then the pain started to fade a little and I accepted what happened. I have even ...

A.   2 December 2006: Hi Ex boyfriends are a pain. You start getting all confused about your feelings and start asking yourself why you ever let them go? What you need to do is remember the reasons why and ask yourself whether you really do still like them or if its t... (read in full...)

Im 24 hes 19, I feel a bit wierd about the age!

Q.   I'm 24 years old and seeing a 19 year old I feel really weird but he acts very mature and i do like him am i wrong?...

A.   11 September 2006: No your not wrong age is just a number. Take a look around at the world today. Why should age be a big concern if your happy? There are alot worse qualitys a guy could have and age doesnt even facter. As long as your both happy go for it!!!!!!! He ... (read in full...)

Hes still seeing the ex and is VERY much in contact! Should I stay or walk away ?

Q.   I have known my partner as a friend for 4 years. We became an item on New Years Eve then at the end of January he called it off to go back to his ex. he was back in feb and we gave it another go. We were happy and got engaged in June, then went ...

A.   16 August 2006: Hi What women knows what goes on in a mans head. I know from a relationship that my friend was in that this man doesnt know what he wants. However he does want to have his cake and eat it. The only way you will truely find out how he feels is... (read in full...)

Breaking up confusion...should I stay with him?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me because he says he is going through a hard time right now with his past childhood experiences, the death of his mother, etc. He still wants to remain friends and I want the same thing. I have to go and get my stuff ...

A.   9 August 2006: Hi When i give you this advice it is from experience. Your ex seems to have had alot of heart ache in his life. For alot of men it is very hard for them to talk about there feelings and they tend to bottle them up inside. Causing them to become c... (read in full...)

Has she really got a boyfriend or did she lie because she was scared ?

Q.   Hi i'm 20 and I have a problem, about 2 months ago a friend of mine told me that her little sister (who is 16) fancyed me and wouldn't go down to the pub that night if I didn't go with her, so I gave her a call and asked her if this was true and she ...

A.   9 August 2006: Hi After giving your situation careful thought i have come to two conclusions: 1) this girl is young it might be that she felt comfortable at first when it was just meeting at the pub and kissing but asking her to become your girlfriend is on... (read in full...)

My self esteem is a little low, and I now need tips for girl on top!

Q.   Okay. I am embarrassed to post, but here goes. Okay, I was married and now divorced. My ex did things to hurt me very badly. He lowered my self esteem extremely. After lots of work, I am a pretty confident person except for one thing. When I ...

A.   9 August 2006: Hi It is perfectly normal for this to happen. Many people have experiences like this when being intimate with there partner. You may be trying to hard to please your partner due to issues from your past. Remember this is a different man who is w... (read in full...)

How do the ladies like to be kissed ?

Q.   a question for the ladies out there- whats your favourite kissing technique and location?...

A.   7 August 2006: ladies like to ease in to a kiss. It should start off soft and sensual moving from the lips to to the neck then back to the lips. going from soft then bit by bit getting a little harder and rougher depending on the mood and where its going to take ... (read in full...)

She still contacts me even now!

Q.   My ex (who I still love dearly) has contacted me again. To make a long story short, we were part of this group of friends at college, and after knowing each other for a couple months we started dating. We went out for just over a year, but do to ...

A.   7 August 2006: Like you i am a big believer that you can not be friends with a person you have dated and become estranged from. The girl in question may not have had feelings for you as strong as the feelings you have for her. (this is something you might not like ... (read in full...)

My fella is not divorced and we love each other to bits

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, I have currently been with my fella for 9 years and am as happy as a sandboy. One problem at moment. He's already been parted ready for divorce before I came along as I don't believe in interferring in this side of things. ...

A.   7 August 2006: What is meant for you wont pass you by. You have done the right thing by sitting on the fence. Divorce is always messy and there are two sides to every story. Your in love with this man which makes it difficult for you to remain impartial when you ... (read in full...)

She is the dominant one in our marriage!

Q.   I never thought one day I come here and write this, so please help me if you can: I married just 6 months ago, we knew each other for over a year before get married. The problem is she wants to be so dominant in everything, she is earning much mor...

A.   7 August 2006: I answer this from past experience. Marriage is not easy it is a commitment to another person that will only last if sacrifices can be made. I beleive you need to sit down and tell your wife how you are feeling. She is not a mind reader and wont ... (read in full...)

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