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Would you be put off a guy who said his son was "just a baby I made"?

Q.   I'm dating a man who is a lot older than me, and he has a son who is a year younger than i am . He hasn't had much contact with his ex wife since they got divorced 23 years ago. He also hasn't seen his son much since his son was three years old. He ...

A.   22 February 2012: I guess I'm sort of on the other side of this one... My girlfriend has a seven year old child from a previous marriage and the child's father basically has the attitude of the guy you're dating. He hasn't been to see his little girl in almost ... (read in full...)

Shouldn't it be obvious that I'm his Valentine?

Q.   This guy i am dating sent me a message asking if i am his Valentine. Lol. Shouldn't that be obvious??. How can i respond to that?. He should already know that i am!....

A.   14 February 2012: He's just trying to be cute... I do things like this with my girlfriend too. You know the "Have I ever told you..." stuff. Either that or, like the other poster said, he just wants to hear you say it.... (read in full...)

Does romantic sex appeal to men ?

Q.   we women mostly (at least in my case) want slow sensual sex that lasts un hour or more with steady rythm and cuddling ,kissing ,sweet words and mutual participation but my experience showed me that men want the opposite , has i always chosen t...

A.   14 February 2012: I enjoy both - just depends on the mood. My gf is the same way - sometimes she wants to be sensual and sometimes she wants to be naughty... Sometimes the frequency has a bit to do with it too... Like if we haven't been together in awhile, ... (read in full...)

I think of him as cuddly, but I don't want to insult him

Q.   I hope I dont insult ppl in the process of asking if I'm being insulting XD To the overweight community: (ja im sure ive already insulted everyone) All my life ive been really tiny... high metabolism or w/e but ive been kinda skinny... And I w...

A.   14 February 2012: Yeah, it's all in the context and/or way it's said... I'm usually a little on the overweight side and my girlfriend calls me cuddly and "teddy bear" fairly often... I know the way she means it from the tone of her voice (or from the fact that ... (read in full...)

Why was my partner checking the text messages on my mobile phone? She has no reason to doubt me!

Q.   Well I guess this is a common issue and has been answered many times before but here it goes.. Last night I found my partner going through my mobile phone text messages. Well I found that my phone light was on and it was clear she had just put it ...

A.   10 February 2012: People who don't trust themselves (or can't be trusted) usually can't trust others either... Whether it's projection of the behavior on other people or whether it's a weird sort of seeking justification for one's own behavior - the result is the ... (read in full...)

Frustrated, straight, but considering an offer of a bj

Q.   Hey I got a question. Im a 28 year old man living single and my job keeps me extremely busy and always on the travel. Over the last couple years I have developed a male friend shom I met over the internet from a town that is about 40 miles from ...

A.   3 February 2012: Ok...as a straight man, this would never go through my head regardless of how sexually frustrated I was. Having said that, maybe you're bi-curious and you're not even admitting that to yourself. If that's the case, then go for it. I do agree wi... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?

Q.   ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...

A.   3 February 2012: Unfortuntely for you, I agree with the other poster. A malicious hacker would be going after things like his bank account, credit cards, etc. Setting up a bunch of dating/hook-up site profiles with his picture all with the same password? That ... (read in full...)

He never texts me first!

Q.   Okay I like this guy, I known him all my life but recently he's been standing out. He's an amazing guy very sweet,smart, and talented. But the problem is I'm always the one to text him first. He always replies and we can have a long conversations ...

A.   3 February 2012: My current girlfriend is like that. When we first started dating, she would never text first and I took that as sign she wasn't that interested. Turns out, she's just not a text message kind of person. Even now that we've been together for ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep feeling so sick whenever I go out drinking?

Q.   Hey I seem to have a bit of a problem that affects me going out and enjoying myself, not sure if anyone else has had the same problem but I've receieved comments about it. Everytime I go out drinking I get so far and feel the need to throw up, and...

A.   26 January 2012: It could be an allergy as well... My ex-wife's mother was an alcoholic who drank while she was pregnant. As a result, my ex-wife cannot tolerate ANY alcohol - even a couple sips of wine will result in nausea and cramping. Half a glass of wine ... (read in full...)

Four year age difference. is it too much? Do I go with it? I think she loves me already

Q.   Is there anything wrong dating a girl 4 years older than you are. I am 22 and and this girl is 26 and i believe she does love me because anytime we are together she likes touching me,she'll like to rub her hands around my body. At times she'll t...

A.   20 January 2012: Coming from someone that's always been attracted to women older than I am (my current GF is 8 years older), as long as she's not put off by the age difference (and in your case, it sounds like she is fine with it) then I'd say go for it... Besides, ... (read in full...)

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