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Is he gay or curious? And how should I react to him?

Q.   Dear eveyone... I have a friend that I’ve been known him since college. For the last four years we become close friends and I consider him my best friends as I trust him and till him anything about my life. I’m 27 and he is 28 years old and we...

A.   9 February 2011: It certainly sounds like he is interested in you! I can't imagine a straight guy would want to sleep on another mans lap! How do you feel about him? If you were to both kiss for example how would feel about that? You could be bisexual o... (read in full...)

Am I being unreasonable giving this co-worker the cold shoulder?

Q.   I had a male friend from my work who confided in me recently that he had been reprimanded for sexual harassment. In his version of events, they joked around for quite while exlusively in spanish with an attractive girl at our office who also ...

A.   24 January 2011: It sounds like you've been very tolerant with this guy. You've told him that you need your space away from him yet he is still continuing to harass you. Unwanted text messages, phone calls, cornering you in the office is all harassment. Why sho... (read in full...)

Should I propose?

Q.   I need some advice about my relationship and whether or not we're ready to be engaged. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of two years now. We are compatible in almost every way, same interests, passions, life goals and incomes! ...

A.   24 January 2011: I wouldn't rush into proposing. The fact that you're asking for advice says to me that you're not really sure the time is right. It sounds like you need to sort out your finances so you can get a nice home together first. After you've got that ... (read in full...)

My dad is having a relationship with my math teacher!

Q.   I am very confused and I need help! I'm 19 and my parents are divorced since I am 9. I live at my mom's but my dad lives in the same small town... A few days ago, I went to a party and decided to go sleep at my dad's cause it was closer. I...

A.   24 January 2011: I don't see telling your dad about what you saw would be a good thing for either of you. If your dad is gay/ bi, he may tell you himself when the time is right for him and when he thinks you're ready to here it. At least if he does tell you it's... (read in full...)

I'm crazy about him but not sure if he's gay

Q.   I'm a 17 Year old male and I am bi. I am absolutely crazy for my best friends younger brother, who is 14. This may sound creepy, but he's not a typical 14 year old, much more mature than average. I have known him for a while and have just gotten ...

A.   23 January 2011: Well the bottom line is he is too young! At 14 he really is still a kid, and is still growing, developing and changing. At that age he is unlikely to know himself if he's gay or not. Although he may be mature for his age, the difference between ... (read in full...)

After I see my ex, for a few days I'm down and depressed. Is it that I still have feelings for him?

Q.   I'm a gay guy in my thirties. I dated a guy last September; it only lasted for about 2 months, before he said it wasn't working for him. There were aspects that were not working for me as well, but I really liked the guy and enjoyed his company ...

A.   12 July 2009: Hi guys, Thanks for both of your really kind encouraging replies they really have helped me to get come clarification and make some decisions about the situation. I've decided to not make any contact with him for the foreseeable future. You ... (read in full...)

Should I give things more time, if so how long?

Q.   Hi I'm a gay guy in my mid thirties I dated a guy in Aug (also in his mid thirties) the relationship lasted about 2 months after which he said it's not working for him. I was not particularly happy with the relationship as I felt there was very ...

A.   4 January 2009: Thanks guys for your advice. Oh dear 2 completely opposite suggestions. Hmm whose advice should I take?... (read in full...)

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