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writes:I am very confused and I need help!I'm 19 and my parents are divorced since I am 9.I live at my mom's but my dad lives in the same small town...A few days ago, I went to a party and decided to go sleep at my dad's cause it was closer. I was very quiet cause it was late and I didn't want to wake him up.Here's the thing, my room is right next to my dad's... And then I suddenly heard moans coming from his bedroom. His moans and another MAN's moans! Basically, my dad was (secretly!) having sex with another man!I left early in the morning cause I didn't want my dad to see me... And then I spied on the other man... I couldn't believe it! It was my Math teacher!!Well that's it! (and I think it's enough! My dad seems to be gay and he's sleeping with my teacher!)Do I need to tell my dad I know about him? How do I act with my teacher? HELP please...!
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reader, supercutie  +, writes (24 January 2011):
I don't see telling your dad about what you saw would be a good thing for either of you.
If your dad is gay/ bi, he may tell you himself when the time is right for him and when he thinks you're ready to here it. At least if he does tell you it's not going to be a huge shock!
I'm sure he would be devastated if he knew that you saw him with another man.
Try to just act normally around your teacher.
Soon you will forget about what you saw.
Around 10% of the population is gay, even in 2011 there is still a huge stigma attached to it, especially in a small town. Don't be hard on your dad for keeping it from you.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 Unfortunately there are many gays that come out much later in life, this is because of the social stigma and prejudices that gays encounter. Don't worry about it, just accept your dad the way he is but don't ever mention any of this to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): Close your eyes and forget it. You haven't seen anything. You may not be the first to know, ur mom might be. Could it be for this they are divorced? U c ur mom prefer t hold it, why? not to hurt you!! Stay with mom and forgrt dad.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Don't say a word its only just going to embarrass you in the long run.
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