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I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

Q.   My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...

A.   4 July 2014: Here's my update,I believe there is trouble between my husband and this woman,I had a good day when hearing this news,but I'm still hurting over things he has said to me,they won't leave my head. He said he didn't love me anymore and leave him the ... (read in full...)

I'm in turmoil. I love my husband, so do I stay with him or move in with my lover?

Q.   I've been having an affair with a co-worker for the past 6 months behind my husband's back. I'll admit, our marriage has become a bit stale in the bedroom department, all my husband talks about is bills, paying the next bill, financial st...

A.   4 July 2014: Shame on you for thinking that cheating is the answer,he's not showing you how hurt he is,you need to leave him and let him find someone who will appreciate him,I wished I had found him instead of the lazy cheating loser I married.... (read in full...)

I feel foolish now that he has gone back to his wife

Q.   I was seeing a separated married man for a few months. It ended a couple of months ago. He has since got back with his wife. I now feel foolish. He was already separated when we got together and had been for a year. At the time I was at rock bottom ...

A.   4 July 2014: The man was still married,and that says it all.... (read in full...)

In a man's mind, why would he ask you to turn off the light to kiss him? I thought that men liked women to do the opposite.

Q.   What does it mean when a man wants to kiss you in the dark? Call me paranoid but I get the feeling that's a bad sign. I have self image related problems and far less from perfect but I'm always trying to improve the quality of my life- although...

A.   30 June 2014: I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting the lights off,I feel more at ease because of insecurities about myself and maybe he has some as well.... (read in full...)

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

Q.   My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...

A.   29 June 2014: Thanks everyone for the comments,he is still sneaking around with her,he got an apt just for storage and she picks him up and takes him to her apt,I wish I had got a pic when I caught him the first time.They have both taken off their facebook ... (read in full...)

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

Q.   My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...

A.   29 June 2014: I need to correct something I wrote,I meant he had been seeing her for 2 years prior to him leaving,we have been married for 14 and together for 16.... (read in full...)

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