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I can't believe I kissed my best friend like that!

Q.   Hi my name is Holly J.I'm 15 years old.I go to an all girl School.My story happened 1 year ago.I always hang out by myself.it's really hard for me to make friends.I'm a extremely shy person it took me forever just to talk to the person who sit next ...

A.   24 August 2011: Ok, if you are only 13-15, you need to be focusing on finishing school, and getting into college and doing something with your life, not this girl, and I will tell you why... I know you don't want to hear it.... but... Friends... and girlfriends.... (read in full...)

Is my penis size considered big, small or average?

Q.   Hello all, im 19 and im basically a shut in and this is why im asking this because i cant ask no one else. its about my penis size i am not sure if its average or big my penis is 7inches with 6.9 girth.. is this considered big or averag...

A.   24 August 2011: Its not what you have, its what you can do with it, that counts. And only that counts a little bit. Because you want to know where sex really happens? Sex happens in the brain. Once you understand that is the truth, and not just some saying... (read in full...)

How do you meet new guys?

Q.   How do you meet new guys? Seriously I,m nearly 20 and i,ve NEVER had a Boyfriend. I,m kinda ashamed of it because yeah I,ve snogged some guys but i,ve never gotten any further. I,m often setting up friends with friends and some of them work out ot...

A.   24 August 2011: The most flattering thing ever to a guy, is for a girl to hit on him. Do it. You will have all the boyfriends you could ever want. No girls ever do it. It doesn't matter if you are overweight, there are plenty of guys that love big curvy ... (read in full...)

Is there a 'woman shortage'? - it seems that way to me!

Q.   I have heard time and time again that 'There is a man shortage', yet I've yet to see this myself. Every woman I know at work and socially is either married or in a relationship. To me there it is more like there is a Woman Shortage. Ma...

A.   24 August 2011: There is no woman shortage, there are only whiney men who never get out of their house and go any place other than their set routine list of places they alway frequent where there are no women at all. Go to an employment office, you know, like a... (read in full...)

Tricked by a man - again!

Q.   What is going on with me ? I have just been totally tricked yet again.I have had my fair share of life lessons regarding relationships but seem more naive than I have ever been. I met a guy who I thought really liked me .he seemed so genuine and we ...

A.   24 August 2011: Its not just men, all people have two faces. As a man, I can say, there are just as many treacherous and conniving and abusing women out there as there are men... the world is an ocean full of them. However, you do not say... how you feel... ... (read in full...)

He said I'm loose down there and now I'm really worried!

Q.   Hey please help me... Ive recently lost my viginity (on holiday with my bf this week) and he is larger than normal. At first he said i was loose however i explained that i have been very experiemental in my past. however after 3 days of sex he...

A.   24 August 2011: Well now wait a minute, I can understand where the guy is coming from. When I was young, my first girlfriend was much tighter than my second girlfriend. It may very well be that his experience is very limited at this point, and he has only had ... (read in full...)

Our marriage is dying.. but my husband doesn't realise it!

Q.   I have been married to my highschool sweatheart for 8 years now, but we have been together since we were both 15. He's now 30 and I'm 29. We just had a daughter last year. My husband is a wonderful guy, he's courteous, sweet, do it yourself'er will ...

A.   24 August 2011: Print out what you just wrote, unchanged, put it in an envelope, unmarked, write his name on it, write his name on the envelope, and put it in his briefcase, in his lunch, in his car, on his desk, in his bathroom on his throne, in his favorite car, ... (read in full...)

How can I make sense of what I am facing following the suicide of my ex?

Q.   Dear Cupids Once again thank you for taking the time to read this. I do not have any parental support and I live alone with good support. Long story short i am a diagnosed and medicated schizophrenic. And i was in an abusive relationship for...

A.   24 August 2011: Wow. Ok, someone who wants you to kill yourself after she has, and has left the means behind to do so (the drugs), does not have your best interests at heart. You're girlfriend had a lot of problems, and I am sure, the drugs really exacerbat... (read in full...)

Can I date several men at the same time?

Q.   need help from females After several years with the same man it appears the relationship is not going to move forward in any way. Id like to know if its is normal for a woman to date several guys at one time and how do I go about doing this. ...

A.   24 August 2011: I would not advise it, men can become extremely territorial, possessive, and jealous. If you did such a thing, even though your connection with him has waned, he may feel betrayed and as if you backstabbed him behind his back. Men are far more ... (read in full...)

Am I the only woman not threated by porn?

Q.   I just read an article about porn here on DC so it made me interested to post a question. Am I the only woman who is not threatened by porn? I mean, I read a lot of questions here about it, of ladies breaking up with their boyfriends and w...

A.   24 August 2011: I find it hard to believe women are threatened by porn, when the bulk of most porn contains... women. As the starring, leading actors even. I think what women are threatened by, and should be... at least aware of... is that porn can be very ... (read in full...)

My parents are headed for a divorce and I am afraid if we will financially survive. Advice?

Q.   Hey everyone. This is not exactly a relationship question, more so a divorce question. My parents have been having problems for about 4 years. My dad has changed, doesn't treat her like he loves her, and has been borderline emotionally abus...

A.   24 August 2011: You can get Food Stamps from the Department of Children and Family Services... anyone can, irregardless of age... usually they give you a card, and for each family member you'll get about $200 credit in food. So for a family of 3, you'd get $600 ... (read in full...)

Why are the nice boys my age interested in dating only the narcissistic jerks?

Q.   Hi there :) well, i'll get straight to the point. I'm a 15 year old girl, never been kissed, had a boyfriend, yada yada yada, the regular yawn-inducing angst. Anyway, what I was wondering is, why are most of the nice guys dating completely arrog...

A.   24 August 2011: Most boys are very shy and intimidated by girls and women at your age. They are afraid of appearing stupid or getting shot down or rejected, so its far easier never to try, that risk any sort of rejection and humiliation. What if they approached ... (read in full...)

Can masturbating too often be harmful?

Q.   I do masturbate 4 times daily - is it harmful?...

A.   24 August 2011: Yes, it dissociates you from reality, like playing video games, reading, doing hard drugs, or watching tv. It also makes it a rather self indulgent pursuit disconnected with any connection with other human beings, other than your own imagination ... (read in full...)

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