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In a Love Triangle -- What to Do?......

Q.   so me and my ex boyfriend was together for a year and a half. so in the spring time around march- april he tells me that he wants to be my friend . now this wasnt the first time that he had told me that really like the third time . so i finally got ...

A.   12 December 2011: my ex of course i miss him and love him and i now want him to take me back.... i have hurt him but it wasnt my choice i was scared of the GUY he was abusing me and manipulated my mind to choose him instead of the ex and now i dont know how to get ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is using me and he has never put me first

Q.   Dear Cupid I fell in love with a person younger to me by 3 years and he said he loved me too. We are together for past 1.5 years. I love him dearly and i always put his needs over mine. But lately i started realizing that he is using me and i n...

A.   2 March 2011: yea... clearly you need to let this guy go... i dont think he is right for you and maybe he is using you... im sure that you can do so much better... i think that you know what you need to do as well... so yea i would say just leave him...... (read in full...)

My girl is going to marry a sugar daddy!

Q.   my girl is dating a sugar daddy and stil say she luv's me when ever she comes around.The man spend so much for her and her family. I ask her if she is going to get married to me she said yes. The problem here is that i love her so much and i don't ...

A.   26 February 2011: Sorry to say this but... get over her. Obviously, she really doesn't love you if she is spending all of her time with this sugar daddy. She doesn't have time for you. If you don't let go now, you're going to end up getting really hurt later on in ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend changed the plans, and instead of us moving together he will go to New York by himself!

Q.   Hi everybody. I feel so sad, can't stop crying. Me and my boyfriend been together for over three years. On and off. We use to broke up for 8months. I know its long time. He has friend with benefit and I had another bf. Just try to move on. And make ...

A.   25 February 2011: i dont think that you should make this guy your everything... give him some space it could be good for the both of you. i know that you have history with him but right now i think that the both of you need this time apart i mean you said yourself ... (read in full...)

I'm 34 years old and feel like such a disappointment! Help!

Q.   I am so baffled, depressed and confused. My parents have been married for 40 years, my younger brother has been married 15 years. I am 34 and nothing in sight....Am I disappointment? I have a Masters degree, tons of friends, and I flunk in the love ...

A.   25 February 2011: just relax the right guy will come along... im sorry that it didnt work between you and your ex.. he seems like he is just a jerk... you didnt do anything wrong you were the girl that most guys want. it was him who was the problem Blonde68 is r... (read in full...)

We broke up and now have a FWB relationship. I don't get much sex, and I feel used! Should I end it?

Q.   So my girlfriend and I broke up a few months back, but kept a FWB relationship till one of us meet someone else. The only problem is that we actually have only had sex once or twice, yet every night she comes to my room, eats my food, watches my ...

A.   25 February 2011: yea you guys should just end the whole FWB thing. its not working out. you two are just in it waiting until either of you find someone new... its time to just be friends the girl really is just using you ... she eats up your food and drinks u... (read in full...)

I'm uncertain about a LDR!

Q.   Help! I'm really new to my relationship with my boyfriend... We've known each other for three years now and we became a couple about 9 months ago. My concern is that I'm afraid of letting him go. By that I mean him going off to a different school, ...

A.   24 February 2011: well im in a LDR now and its hard but i think that if you really love him then you will be able to get through it.. you just have to be able trust one another .. talking on the phone everyday is very good to do. texting and skype is great also.. i ... (read in full...)

I'm at a loss and stuck between my boyfriend and my future!

Q.   I am 25 have been with my 28 year old boyfriend for a total of 6 years, (we dated for 3 years, broke up for a year, and have now been back together for almost 3 years). Most of the relationship has been long distance, as I was going to school in a ...

A.   23 February 2011: i think that you shouldnt just settle for anything... let alone your on happiness.. i know that you and your boyfriend have a lot of history together but if you are not unhappy then you need to talk to him about what is going on... right now i think ... (read in full...)

I have feelings for my ex's best friend

Q.   I was dating a girl and lets say her name is....Brittney. anyways we never talked. well after having a falling out we decided to end things but me and her best friend keep staring at each other in class and we do talk ,but I dont want to mess up ...

A.   22 February 2011: so you and this girl brittany were dating but you never talked to her... or her bestfriend is the one that you never talked to... so you want to talk to the bestfriend but you dont want your ex to get mad? i guess you should just not talk to the ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with her, I love her but she does not want to get serious??

Q.   I don't know when to say "I love you" to her...but there is more to it... To fully understand I need you to give the full story. last month I began dating one of my old best friend whom I have very deep history with. I've known her since the 7th ...

A.   22 February 2011: even though you like her alot and now claim to be in love with her i think that you should take it slow.. its obvious that she likes you i mean she kissed you and said she just wanted to take things slow.. i mean she just got out of a relationship ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

Q.   I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...

A.   22 February 2011: it sounds like he is wanting you to move in with him... if thats the case then tell him you arent ready to move in just yet... your not sounding presumptions if you ask him what does that mean.. you just want to know because your a little ... (read in full...)

I keep cheating on my partner with my ex! I know I am hurting others and myself, so how do I stop this?

Q.   My ex and I had a baby, she is 2 now. We really never got along, but when we did it was great. About when my daughter was one there were more problems between us- just trying to get situated with all the changes. I ended up sleeping with a guy from ...

A.   22 February 2011: you just need to stop doing it.. learn how to control youself and the urges to have sex when your ex comes around.. or you could not put yourself in that vernable state... it sounds like your really not over or ex i understand that you have a child ... (read in full...)

How can we become friends again???

Q.   I like this guy. We went out at the beginning of the school year but he broke up with me after two weeks. We hadn't know each other that long. No more than a month. But when we meet it just clicked. He was the best friend I ever had. I thought I ...

A.   21 February 2011: yea of course you can still be friends.. just because he broke up with doesnt mean that you guys cant be friends... and even if he gets a new girlfriend and you get a new boyfriend yall still can be best of friends... (read in full...)

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