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Bragging about how cute another girl is?

Q.   Dear Cupid, How am i supposed to feel when my fiance agrees with his cousin's/friend's opinion of other females, when I'm around? It makes me mad for a cousin or friend of his to come around him, when im with him, to tell him something about an...

A.   7 July 2011: No. its not so much about really what he says.... it's that and the way he says stuff.... (read in full...)

My b/f likes to admire other girl's looks

Q.   Dear Cupid, How am I supposed to feel about my fiance talking about another female? This includes whenever I'm around him/when I'm not.He has even talked about how good another girl looks when I was on the phone with him one night. He was having a...

A.   6 February 2010: Thanks for all the answers. Whenever he looks at another, I always mention it to him and he always says something like "I dont want her. You're the one thats my girl." But whenever I say something about a cute dude he automatically assumes I want to ... (read in full...)

When should I give him his prezzie?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My fiances' birthday is the day after Valentine's Day. Okay, my question is: should I give him his Valentine's Day gift(s) on his birthday, or just give him everything on Valentine's Day? ...

A.   2 February 2010: All the responses are greatly appreciated. Thanks!!... (read in full...)

Terminating the relationship will hurt my career

Q.   i am sleeping with a guy who has a gf and he has told me that he loves his gf and not me...so basically he has been using me and i have to let go. yeah i figured this out after posting numerous posts on this site. Anyways here is the problem it is ...

A.   12 December 2009: Hunny, it seems he just wanted you for a one night stand and plain/simple nothing more. I think you should just cut all ties with him.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he's tired of me

Q.   I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls ...

A.   12 December 2009: Hunny, my fiance does the same thing. The other night we started fussing, as usual, and he came out and said... sometimes, I wish I hadn't met you and it hurt like a cut on the chest. He wants to know every little detail about my past too. He told ... (read in full...)

My fiance is convinced I'm cheating!

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, My fiance says that the reason why he is being so mean, acting out with so much animosity towards me is plainly because his mother is deceased (about 1 or 1 1/2 years ago). He constantly assumes that I have a dude coming over...

A.   5 December 2009: Thanks for all the responses.... (read in full...)

Overly jealous fiance???

Q.   Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...

A.   28 November 2009: Thanks to those that sent me helpful advice or shared helpful opinions. I really appreciate it.... (read in full...)

Phone sex making fiance sleepy... am I just a sexual relationship?

Q.   Why is it that every time after we have phone sex my fiance gets very sleepy afterwards. I mean well have phone sex a couple times a day sometimes, then shortly afterwards, he's over there snoozing. Am I the only one that this happens to. When he ...

A.   28 November 2009: Thanks for all the of the responses. I really appreciate them.... (read in full...)

Overly jealous fiance???

Q.   Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...

A.   20 November 2009: He has told me that if I were to ever cheat on him (not that I would), he was going to get me and the dude (revenge). I perceive this as him telling me that I actually belong to him, and I also felt very threatened by this comment. Any advice? Has ... (read in full...)

Overly jealous fiance???

Q.   Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...

A.   20 November 2009: He has told me that if I were to ever cheat on him (not that I would), he was going to get me and the dude (revenge). I perceive this as him telling me that I actually belong to him, and I also felt very threatened by this comment. Any advice? Has ... (read in full...)

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

Q.   i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

A.   18 November 2009: I have the same problem with my fiance. He seriously needs help. I have told him straight up he's addicted to porn, and he flat out denied it. I've told him that he needs counseling for it b4 we get married, and he rejected. He used to look at it ... (read in full...)

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

Q.   Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we ar...

A.   13 November 2009: I agree with Plexi-- it seems that he just wants to be with you just because you are in the same location as the school he wants to attend, but on the other hand he wants to keep the relationship that he already has with the other lady.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend behaves badly while drinking...

Q.   my boyfriend sometimes goes a bit too far with alcohol and does some really stupid stuff but it doesnt rlly bother me except tht he likes to show off his body and wen hes drunk hell strip down to his boxers and dance wiv his friends (some of them ...

A.   8 November 2009: Let him go... me and my fiance have been together for about 3 years and he does similar stuff, but he doesnt get naked in public or anything like that. But he does drink too much sometimes.... (read in full...)

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