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My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   28 April 2008: Hi, I know it is very difficult not to be very very bitter towards your wife but I would not do anything...well....I think the best thing would be to prove to her that YOU are the best thing since sliced bread for your kids, at some point she WILL ... (read in full...)

What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?

Q.   I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...

A.   11 April 2008: LazyGuy....LOL...LOL...LOL... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   11 April 2008: And..what did you decide to do????... (read in full...)

What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?

Q.   I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...

A.   10 April 2008: Barf city...eeeuurrghh g1605...you got the nail on the head...... (read in full...)

Will he explode?

Q.   What will happen if you stop giving a guy a hand job before he cums?...

A.   9 April 2008: Sorry..."IF" YOU NEED TO ASK... (read in full...)

Will he explode?

Q.   What will happen if you stop giving a guy a hand job before he cums?...

A.   9 April 2008: I you need to ask you are to young to be considering giving a "hand job" Why dont you wait a few more years....then you will have all the knowledge / maturity / to enjoy meaningfull relationships... Dont be pressured into "doing" anything... (read in full...)

I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?

Q.   Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?...

A.   9 April 2008: Hi...listen to cuteblonde, BigSis, Emajayne and "X"....they offer you the best advice going...wait...you wont regret it... Try not to be one of the "Ive done it" crowd...at your age its not big...its not clever and against the law.... enjoy b... (read in full...)

I've had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me.

Q.   I have had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me. Told him that i can see that he doesn't like me anymore and he hasn't spoken to me since i said that. We were good. What can i do?...

A.   8 April 2008: Well...only one comment...you are happy with a man that will cheat on his wife....what will happen when he does that to you....you will not be able to make any comments at all...as you did the same....if his relationship was over with his wife and ... (read in full...)

Does sleeping with a hooker feel nearly as good as legitimate sex?

Q.   I'm wondering if any guys here have ever had sex with a hooker, I ask because I've been wondering about it for a while, but I'm not sure if it would feel nearly as good as legitimate sex. Don't get me wrong, I'm not considering getting a hooker...

A.   8 April 2008:  300$ at 16 yrs old, to pay for a hooker, do you mummy and daddy know what you do with your pocket money?? .........keep some back to pay for the clap clinic....... (read in full...)

Should I ask if we could get a double room or not?

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles, I need your advice again please. It is not really a problem but a question as to how you would feel in this situation. OK so my boyfriend (18) and i (20) are planning to go on holiday this summer. I have no idea where as he sa...

A.   8 April 2008: Hi, I think your BF may be having the same questions in his mind, I am sure he is waiting for the right moment to ask your opinion also, but because its a new realtionship I feel he is also showing you great respect by not asuming you will both ... (read in full...)

Why am I seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....

Q.   Why am i seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....do they not have responsible parents anymore?....I know there is a lot more pressure to perform nowadays, unlike when i was a teenager, but it still dosent explain it to me, do ...

A.   8 April 2008: Well, I am sure the debate will do on and on....many thanks to all for your input... Eddie, thanks for your wise comments... ... (read in full...)

If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...

A.   8 April 2008: Still confused about the real question here....do you want to have a child or not........ (read in full...)

If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...

A.   7 April 2008: Thanks phiatiger n BigSis....thought I was going crazy... Looks like another session for the "birds and the bees" This post cant be serious...... (read in full...)

I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.

Q.   I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt,...

A.   7 April 2008: Tough..keep your legs closed in the future...good luck to your ex in finding a "true love" You wont get him back......if he has any sense...... (read in full...)

She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.

Q.   I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...

A.   7 April 2008: Dont visit with her....I agree put yourself in her husbands shoes....how would you feel... yet another relationship bites the dust cause two people cant control there urges....you prepared to take her on, plus her kids when it all goes tits up.... (read in full...)

Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?

Q.   I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...

A.   7 April 2008: Go for it girl...life is not a rehersal....only one time here...PACK UP...SHIP OUT ....for your new life down under...... (read in full...)

What is it with men when they reach their 40's ~ they only want to have sex with teenagers?

Q.   I have been married for many years and my problem started after my husband turned 40. Our sex life has gone down hill. He can no longer get hard for me. He said he likes young teens...What is it with men when they reach their 40's they only want to ...

A.   7 April 2008: Hi I agree with Collroy, dont tar us all with the same brush...I am 41 yrs old and I prefer older ladies for the same reason...they are more switched on...far far sexier... Keep your young inexperienced girls....I have no interest.. On a li... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...

A.   6 April 2008: Please see this reply I copied from another question...this girl is 5 yrs older than you... "well i did think about it..and i wasnt ready....to be honest i have just recently started coming on here again and come across this question i had post... (read in full...)

I think I have a crush on anonmous phone caller, do I tell him?

Q.   I don't know how to explain my situation but I'll try my best.Well a couple of months ago I received a call on my cell phone from a private caller I answered it and the guy asked me "how was your day?" and I responded "who is this" he wouldn't ...

A.   6 April 2008: My advice is....you know by the number whn he is calling...dont answer...this is very creepy and very dangerous....he could be anyone....and do anything I would say if you do decide to answer a call that you are passing his number onto the poli... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   6 April 2008: Hi, thanks for your comments to my answer.....I do understnd completly the situation you are in 100% How am I now: Well this all happened to me 6 yrs ago, I wasnt lucky enough to be in the position to have my children, so they went with her, som... (read in full...)

He loves me and I love him but his temper causes him to hit me and I'm pregnant!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have just turned two years and I'm five months pregnant with a beautiful little girl. There is one problem though, he has a really bad temper. Sometimes he throws me around or slaps the back of my head hard and I atleast cry once ...

A.   6 April 2008: Sorry no other advice other than LEAVE HIM....it is not correct that you go through what you have described....difficult choice to make but for you...your little girl and your unborn child LEAVE HIM... I see many people in your situation during m... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   5 April 2008: The internet / mobile phones have a lot to answer for...I was in the same position a few years ago...my now ex wife texting all the time.....and it turned out to be a "new" man....but as usual denied everything...anyhow...water under the bridge... ... (read in full...)

Why am I seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....

Q.   Why am i seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....do they not have responsible parents anymore?....I know there is a lot more pressure to perform nowadays, unlike when i was a teenager, but it still dosent explain it to me, do ...

A.   4 April 2008: Hi...who actually mentioned about blaming the parents in this issue, but in most cases IF there was more guidance and input from an older role model there wouldnt be sites such as these.... If you are an adult and reply on this site I beleve th... (read in full...)

My friend told me that guy just wanted sex, could that be true??

Q.   Hello I met a guy last month. He's charming. He invited me to his home twice. And he's trying to get something more. I really like him. But I don't want to have sex with him since I am not ready. Recently, he became cold and seems to keep distan...

A.   4 April 2008: Hi....yep...all he wanted was another notch on his bed post....rise above it...you are better than he is....reading your message I realise you have a more mature head on your shoulders than he does...you will find the one and you will know for sure ... (read in full...)

Why am I seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....

Q.   Why am i seeing so many underage people asking for advice about sex?....do they not have responsible parents anymore?....I know there is a lot more pressure to perform nowadays, unlike when i was a teenager, but it still dosent explain it to me, do ...

A.   4 April 2008: Hi thanks for your reply and I agree with most of what you say....although I wouldnt ask my mother at 12 yrs old if I could have sex, (I was more worried about getting my pocket money for the next Smash Hits)...LOL...as I KNEW it was against the ... (read in full...)

I want to make out with my boyfriend but I'm scared!!

Q.   I want to make out with my boyfriend but i'am really scared to bc i have never done it before and the pressure is really starting to get to me bc all my friends have done but not me and i'am really scared!! what do i do????...

A.   4 April 2008: I cant belive most of you are telling this girl to go ahead....!!! Firstly it is not legal to have sex below the age of 16....secondly...enjoy being a teenager...most of your friends WILL regret what they have done in the future....just be diffe... (read in full...)

Do I go back to him because it is easier, and I do love him and miss him very much, or do I tough it out and move on?

Q.   I split from my husband 8 months ago, we have a 10 month old baby and a 3 yo. I found out he had been sleeping with prostitutes the whole time we were married (4 years) I caught an infection from him and had a miscarriage in between our 2 kids that ...

A.   4 April 2008: Hi...sorry to hear about your situation.....you answered the question yourself "or do I tough it out and move on" MOVE ON....he has no respect for you or your kids...I understand it is very difficult for you but leave now while you still ... (read in full...)

Why aren't you men wooing us any more?

Q.   Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi...I have to agree with Namatjira...unfortunatly females these days just dont seem to appriciate us being a "gentleman" at all....for example...the other day I held a door open for a young lady entering a shop...the look I got was one of ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have sex only once or twice a month?

Q.   Okay,another l-o-n-g story/question. I know that you will not always be on the same page (couples) but is it normal to have sex only 1-2 month, he has to initiate because he flinches when I touch him (says I always tickle him), so I'm shellshocked ...

A.   3 April 2008: Hi...well cant really offer a solution but I came from a relationship where my wife only wanted sex once or twice a month....I thought this was normal...all the same issues...I would have to instigate the love making....she would lock the door to ... (read in full...)

Why is my husband back and suddenly being overly nice?

Q.   My husband left me for another woman after 24 years. When he left he acted arrogant and cocky. He rarely called or visited the children. If we needed anything he always said he did not have money and I was paying all the bills myself. Now he come...

A.   2 April 2008: Maybe he feels guilty...and so he should....but can you really trust him not to do this again in the future...for me trust is a big part in a relationship...I guess you have none for your husband?...how do you suppose that will change...the first ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...

A.   2 April 2008: Hi, I agree...dont do it...your far too young and all your life ahead of you. Sorry but at 12 yrs old you both dont understand what it means to be "In Love".....wait...enjoy being a 12 yr old without the pressure of sex.... Lastly...its against ... (read in full...)

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