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Struggling with getting over a rough break up. Through my hardest times I came here for support, so I'm doing what I can to help back. Glad if I helped you in any way, and thank you for helping me in the process.

I recently fell back in love with something that has been with me my entire life, soccer. So anytime you feel like getting your mind off whatever you're going through and want to discuss la liga, epl, MLS or how Barca will win the champions league, shoot me a message.

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I need a new girl in my life, but first I have to get this one out!

Q.   How do I get over somone who cheated on me. I see her alot too, around campus, which sucks. I still have feelings for her, for some reason, and I think about her more than I should. It's been over a month now and I still think about her everyday. ...

A.   14 November 2008: Thanks, I've been trying to swamp myself with activities so hopefully i'll get over her soon enough. I feel like I wasted a little over a year with her and now the fact that i still think about her after what she did annoys me. Thanks for the ... (read in full...)

Can't believe I'm asking this, but what do I do after she CHEATED on me, to get her out of my mind?

Q.   My ex-girlfriend of over a year cheated on me and its been 2 months and I still think about her everyday. How do I get her out of my mind and move on? This is seriously dogging me and it sucks that she cheated on me yet I still have feelings for ...

A.   14 November 2008: Thanks guys, I know there are tons of other girls out there, it just sucks when the one you had feelings for pulls somthing like this. I'm glad to hear that you were able to find somone better, and I relaly hope that happens for me. I did let her ... (read in full...)

I hate going to school, I hate my life all because of HER.

Q.   All my friends (who i hate now) turned against me. i had a bestfriend i met last year. none of my family liked her but for some reason i loved her (as a friend). i trusted her so much i told her everything. she did too. she backstabbed so much abo...

A.   12 November 2008: Don't worry about it. She is, and pardon my language, a bitch. When you get older, highschool to college, you will realize that girls like her are hated by guys and girls like you and I. And we make up the majority of the population. Stay ... (read in full...)

Seeing recent ex with a new man and I felt my chest had exploded!

Q.   Thanks to anyone who reads this, cos I kinda just freaked out! I saw my ex with her a new boyfriend that I didn't know about. It caught me completely off guard and I felt like my chest exploded. She definitely saw me and we've been broken up f...

A.   12 November 2008: I AM IN YOUR EXACT SITUATION. My first real relationship, my girlfriend, at age 20, led me on and cheated on me, and we broke up a few months ago. She is already out with another guy and it kills me. I know I havn't got over her, but I do feel ... (read in full...)

How will I tell her how I truly feel about her?

Q.   Ok so I really, really, REALLY like this girl I work with! We get on really well with each other and shes has come to me on occasions for reassurance. Tomorrow I want to finally tell her how I feel about her. I plan on asking to talk to her after ...

A.   9 November 2008: Play it cool, don't immediatley throw yourself out there. Hang out with her after work and start slow. Tell her she looks very nice, beautiful when you first meet, setting the tone, then admit that you have fallen for her. Don't pour out your heart ... (read in full...)

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