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Should I give the bank teller my number? Or wait to see if she asks for mine?

Q.   Does she like me? i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called ...

A.   24 February 2016: The worst that could is happen is 1) you could make her feel uncomfortable and/or 2) you may have to find another bank. If you are okay with those possibilities or think you know a way out of them, I'd say go ahead. ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and still a teenager and at university, what should I do?

Q.   Okay so I think I'm pregnant and I'm petrified. I still live at home with my parents and I have a long term boyfriend but we're both at university and if I tell him I'm pregnant I don't want him to drop out even though I'll have to because I don't ...

A.   8 January 2016: You can't just dictate what's best for your boyfriend. He has every right to decide if he wants to stay in school or go to work. Have you considered he might actually be excited about becoming a father (terrified too no doubt, but I'd be worried if ... (read in full...)

My married son is going away to meet up with a woman he is attracted to. Do I tell his wife?

Q.   Hello. Thank you for reading this. I am having a problem with my son and his wife and I could do with some honest advice. My son has been married for 3 years to his wife. Prior to the wedding they had dated for about 7 years. They now have tw...

A.   4 January 2016: Wow, that is certainly a difficult situation to be in! Have you thought about directly confronting your son? There may be a perfectly logical explanation besides infidelity, and I wouldn't go rushing to his wife without definite proof. Even then... (read in full...)

How do I stop thinking about this girl and googling her?

Q.   Apologizes this is so long. I just don't know what to do but tell everything about it: I met someone early in 2014. I only knew her for about a week; we didn't talk much but stayed at the same facility. She had a striking appearance, and ...

A.   29 December 2015: Hey thanks everyone. Your replies were way kinder than what I was expecting, aha. ladyinlove, your reply on "you are thinking about the pink perfect future you could have shared, you are afraid that you might not find someone that perfect ... (read in full...)

What are my options? This guy is starting to scare me, but he's a relative of my coworker

Q.   okay so earlier this semester I moved into an apartment with a friend who lives in the dorms with me and also her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend. all of us are really busy with school and work and all three of them are going to be gone until sc...

A.   29 December 2015: If you're co-workers are giving you nasty looks, alienating you, and that's work place bullying. You need to either report to a higher up that you won't work with them, or find another job. Personally, it sounds to me like the whole thing is a mess, ... (read in full...)

He didn't invite me to show his friend around the city. Was I overreacting?

Q.   So my bf has a friend coming over from California. We live in Texas and this guy came yesterday. I live by myself and I know the lonely times sometimes are just annoying me. Anyway my bf told me today that he will come and his friend to my place to ...

A.   29 December 2015: Yeah I mean you have every right to say he can't just stop by your apartment for an hour and skedaddle. I wouldn't get so worked up about it though, like everyone's saying. He's probably just excited to see his friend. If you feel he /never/ spends ... (read in full...)

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