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... Send *ibaan a private message | | | *ibaan's profile:i dont actually have any reason why i might be qualified except that im one of those girls who can help anyone with their lives and problems but i just cant seem to help myself.i live in south africa and i love making peiople smile and feel special.i have alot of friends who look at me as their big sister even if im yopunger than them. im currently in a steady relationship but hit alot of rocky patches in my life and now im trying to help others who need advice because i know how it feels to be scared and unsure. ive been there so often. i just want to help others. |
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What is emo?
Q. Im sorry if this offends people like it did when i asked this girl. I asked her 'what is an emo'... and she was saying she didn't want to tell me because everyone called it her when she kept on saying that she wasn't. So can any one else here tell ...
A. 8 June 2006: it probably means someone who is loose. or someone who isnt a virgin. just go to her and say that your sorry if you affended her but you actually have no clue what it means and you were just curious.
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I want to know where this relationship is going, but I don't know how to find out.
Q. hey, in the past ive had bad relationships and now ive met some1 that im kinda seeing i guess you could call it and when i talk to him and when im with him i feel great and when im not doing those things i think about him. i know its sad i guess bu...
A. 8 June 2006: i think you should let him go and dont say anything and if he gets with someone else then it wasnt ment to be. if he doesnt and he phones you and misses you then you know that its meant to be. maybe he'll come back and ask you out properly...
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Feeling guilty about breaking up with my boyfriend
Q. ive split up with my boyfriend and feel really guilty what should i do?...
A. 8 June 2006: follow your heart. if there are no reasons why you two should be apart, then what are you waiting for??
get him back before its to late...... (read in full...)
Afraid my boyfriend will break my heart
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years, and we broke up about a month ago, and got back together after a couple of weeks of being apart (both of our choices). I was confused why he did it, but then I started to understand that he wasn't sure ...
A. 8 June 2006: maybe you guys should spend time apart. if you really love him then you should klet him go and if he comes back then its meant to be. really access your relationship and then follow your heart...... (read in full...)
I think my husband prefers the porn sites instead of me....what can I do?
Q. I have caught my husband viewing internet porn and confronted him. He said he would stop. That worked for a month and then I caught him again. This in it's self isn't a problem, but we don't have sex as often as I would like. I feel he prefers that ...
A. 8 June 2006: no not really maybe its just a stage. why dont you try spicing things up or trying little outfits? try and make his fantasy come through because that is obviously the prob. he must have a sexual fantasy and now you must make it happen... thin... (read in full...)
She lied to me and now is saying I spread rumors about her
Q. Okay, there is this girl at my skool and we used to be okay mates until she started lying to us and trying to turn me and my friends against each other. And now, a year later, she suddenly makes up this cock and bull story about me spreadin...
A. 8 June 2006: tell your friend to grow up and be a women not a girl. keep your friends close and give them the choice of who to beleive. you have known them longer so if they are true friends then they will stick by you. if not then your loosing people that dont ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for hair to grow in certain places?
Q. is it normal for a teenager boy to have hair grow on his arms, both lower and upper, on his back neck and borderline, stomach and legs same as the arms, and im 15 and im really worried because you can see the hair plzzzz help me...
A. 8 June 2006: hair growth is perfectly natural. dont stress if you are really worried then have it bleeched so you cant see it as much. your just going through puberty faster than the other guys, you are completely normal... (read in full...)
We were together for 2 years, he was my soul mate, we were trying for a baby, we broke up, he has a new girl, and im torn apart please help!
Q. i have just split up from my boyfriend who i love very much, we have been together for two years and been trying for a baby for a year we was in the middle of buying a house together and after a silly row, i told him it was over this has happened ...
A. 8 June 2006: when you dare to love you dare to hurt.
first thing is first, you mustnt blame yourself at all because it seems he is the sellfish one. he cant just abuse your love like he has it isnt right. i know your hurting but you have to take each day as i... (read in full...)
Why does he need porn when he has me?
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend looks at porn. We have been together for about 9 months. He went to work abroad and I've been out to see him twice now. On my last visit I was using his laptop and found the link in his drop down menu. I ...
A. 7 June 2006: you need to tell him that his porn makes you feel worthless and that it affends you. he shouldnt need porn concidering you do all that. your man needs help. but then again be thankfull its just pictures of other girls and not actual girls....... (read in full...)
How do I get over this empty spot in my life whilst she has her "space"?
Q. Okay... Me and my girlfriend are both sixteen years old and have been going out for 15 months. Recently she told me that she sometimes saw us "more as friends than a couple", which I got really upset about and ended up crying in front of her, ca...
A. 7 June 2006: ever heard the saying "if you truly love somepne let them go, and if they come back its meant be" ?
well thats what i did, i was seperated from my boyfriend for almost a year and then he came back and everything is perfect now. you guys are stil... (read in full...)
Have I lost my virginity? Could I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were missing around and were going to have sex without a comdom, but my bf couldn't get it all the way up and he wasn't there for long. Does this make me not a virgin and could I have got pregnant from what we did?...
A. 7 June 2006: it takes a split second for a girl to fall pregnant. dont play with fire, u will get hurt and then u'll be left with an ugly scar. wait till your period is due and then email me. i have been where you are and i got burned. always here if you wann... (read in full...)
My parents dispise my boyfriend, but I know he's the one...what can I do??
Q. how do you make your parents understand that your ex boyfriend is actually the one and you guys want to be together, when they hate him? we are serious about eachother and are to afraid to even talk to them about it. his parents know we are meant to ...
A. 7 June 2006: thanks for the advice. we had a rocky relationship due to me being younger and still in high school. now im in college and planning to move out un november after my studies. thanks for taking the time to listen to my probs... (read in full...)
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