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Was I just mistaking friendliness with romance?

Q.   Okay I've never had this problem because I've never had a guy make me as nervous as this one. He works in the same building as I, I started to notice him because he's always around to open the door, help, or just say hi but I dont even know his name ...

A.   28 September 2007: I caught him running away from me yesterday so I had my friend go up to him and ask him wat the real deal was he says hes married if its true or not Im not into him anymore. Thanx everyone for your responses too bad this didnt have a happy ending ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is too busy to see me or call - He says he is not the phone type of guy!

Q.   my boyfriend is too busy to see me or call. He goes for a week without calling if l dont call him he doesnt call and when l call he says l tried your number and l failed to get through. He also says he is not the phone type of guy. Tell me if he ...

A.   20 September 2007: I do this... tell guys "im not the phone type" (and I'm not) but this is still not a good sign cuz if there is a guy that im interested in I dont care if I have to reach him by smoke signal... Im doing it. sounds to me like this guy is not that into ... (read in full...)

How can I get closer to her and talk to her about my feeling about her?

Q.   How can I catch a girl? She is my classmate at the university. I do like her, but she is one of those proud and formal behaving girls (like me as a boy), she is so hard to have a small talk with, I wonder how I can set up a relationship with her. ...

A.   20 September 2007: Its probably hard to have a conversation with her because shes not a flaky person and is more intense...how about asking a question about class then bringing it around to something more personal? ... (read in full...)

Am I being stupid?

Q.   Am I being stupid? I have a great wife, who is a great mother with our children and in 12 years we have never had bad problems. My problem is that she had a couple of relationships in high school and as she says she was "forced to have sex". ...

A.   17 September 2007: I cant believe your having an issue with this when she is the victim. Im sorry but I dont understand your issue. This obviously all happened before your relationship with her started. Consensual or not its none of your business. Had she done it ... (read in full...)

Do I hold out for this bloke that could make me really happy if he eventually split up with his lass, or leave it now?

Q.   Ive fancied someone from work since i started there 3 years ago, but i new he had a girlfriend, so stayed well clear. about 2 yrs ago he came onto me at an xmas party but i thought he was just drunk and laughed it off, and weve just been our no...

A.   17 September 2007: I dont know him personnaly but he sounds like a selfish jerk to me...the type of guy that only thinks of himself and is always above reproach. If thats the type of guy you want to be with then its your call. But do you really see a future with this ... (read in full...)

Was I just mistaking friendliness with romance?

Q.   Okay I've never had this problem because I've never had a guy make me as nervous as this one. He works in the same building as I, I started to notice him because he's always around to open the door, help, or just say hi but I dont even know his name ...

A.   15 September 2007: Well its more culturally correct for the man to make the move not the woman so I'm kinda embarrassed that I made a pass and didnt result as I anticipated. Plus I envolved others which will most likely start the rumor mill going...Well he's still ... (read in full...)

Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort again. What do I do?

Q.   I have recently discovered that my partner has been paying for sex. I've been away a couple of times this year with our 6 month old and each time I've been away he has contacted an escort agency. Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I ...

A.   15 September 2007: RUN!!! I mean seriously thats the scariest thing in the world. You have a six month old! I'd have him tested asap for some type of disease. Forget the emotional part of it he's risking your life with this stupidness if it is true that he's going to ... (read in full...)

I take it from his actions he doesn't love me any more?

Q.   My guy broke up with me a few weeks back, it's so hard to get over him.. he doesn't even want to be friends.. says it's for the best.. I really want to get back with him.. I've emailed him telling him how I feel but he just doesn't reply:( I don't ...

A.   15 September 2007: You need to love yourself more and understand that YOU are the one hurting ...dont worry about how he feels about you..He has hurt you and you need to take care of YOU first by being strong enough to understand that he doesnt deserve you. He did a ... (read in full...)

Is she flirting with me?

Q.   is this a sign of flirting, quite confused?! there is this female whom i go to work with. we talked a couple times regarding my concerns. just every once in a while she will be gazing or looking at me for quite a long time, lets say a little mor...

A.   15 September 2007: OMG I do that with the guy im into... look down at my cellphone when I'm walking by him to make it seem like Im busy cuz he makes me so gosh darn nervous...But yeah looking at you afar and into your eyes is a good sign...Why not try asking her out ... (read in full...)

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