Why do I think the grass might be greener on the other side of the fence?
Q. I have a loving girlfriend of many years. She goes out of her way to treat me great and always does nice things for me. But lately, I am extremely enticed by some of the other women I randomly interact with. What is wrong with me?...
A. 29 November 2009: I think it's great that you can admire other women and find qualities in them that your girlfriend doesn't have - this isn't abnormal or wrong and can actually make you appreciate the good qualities you see in your girlfriend a lot more. But, some... (read in full...)
I was not the teacher's pet, I was the teacher's flirt
Q. A year or so ago, i had some problems with a teacher (lets call him Mr H). Essentially he behaved very innappropriately with me, touching and other worse things. This teacher was married and in his mid forties. There is one thing about it that co...
A. 29 November 2009: It's fantastic that you reported him and the appalling behaviors that people in positions of power like to abuse and this shows just how courageous you really are. Other girls may not have had the same confidence' support or self esteem when abuse ... (read in full...)
I thought he was hot, but he has cooled right off
Q. theres a new guy started at my job-he has complicated history-wife left in august after 10 years-now hes casually dating someone already but i thought hes a lovely guy and we worked together for 3 days and spoke about loads i think i have feelings ...
A. 29 November 2009: I would definitely say that three days of intense talking and companionship with this man you work with, was never going to guarantee anything more than just a work-related relationship. Because he was new, he found someone he could get along ... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend and her shy admirer?
Q. Right this may sound totally outrageous but i find the whole situation hard to believe myself if i hadnt seen it all. Bascially my mate liked this guy and he seemed to like her, and i mean proper liked her. However hes not the most confiden...
A. 29 November 2009: Sounds like he has some confidence issues that prevent him from making the necessary approach with your friend who has given him the indication that she likes him but perhaps needs to actually make it a lot more clearer to him as men aren't mind ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel worthless and now I've met someone else, but I still like this man I'm with, I don't know what to do?
Q. I've been going out wit a man for a couple of months now our realtionship is ok and he can be quite caring i know he loves me alot although he doesnt actually show me himself that he does. Because of this i've been made to feel like i am worthl...
A. 29 November 2009: I agree that this is his problem and not yours. However, it is very difficult to maintain feelings of good self-worth when the man you love and want is emotionally restrained for reasons only he knows. Here are some ways in which he can mak... (read in full...)
He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!
Q. I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...
A. 28 October 2009: You have already had quite a few answers but here's my take:
As the caring guy pointed out: he does appear to want to use you for his own gains because he is obviously attracted to you but also because you are available and not in a committe... (read in full...)
Is it going to take forever for him to share himself with me on a more intimate level?
Q. I will try to be breif. Currently going out with a man who I really like in every way after a year of being friends but is wanting to take things very slowly (which is great) and means that he must like me a lot. However; he wants a lot of fem...
A. 28 October 2009: Thanks for your supportive answers.
I'd really like to give him an ultimatum but that would just push him further away as men don't like being put under pressure so that is out of the question for me. The constant need for approval from other wo... (read in full...)
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