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Emotional blackmail or these threats are real?

Q.   Is this emotional blackmail? Been together 15 years. He does this exact scenario, exact words, exact demands each time. This is the third time in 5 years. Even in the exact same months, Sept/Oct. I will try and explain how this is on the exact same ...

A.   11 October 2013: yes. this is emotional blackmail as well as emotional abuse. it sounds a bit like reverse psychology as well. if i were you i would check into what he does when he's away from home. it sounds like he is reversing guilt and trying to control you. ... (read in full...)

Why would an ex say "we should have a relationship with love and compasion because we have history"?

Q.   Why would an ex say "we should have a relationship with love and compasion because we have history." he left the marriage for another woman who he has been with for over 5 yrs. now. there were other women before her. He is extremely dishones...

A.   11 October 2013: he does not pay alimony as he put everything into his girlfriends name when he knew i was going to file for divorce. he owns his own businesses and hides them. what i think he wants is me to convince the kids to have a relationship with him. he ... (read in full...)

After two years, he doesn't want kids. This is a different kind of rejection--I am devastated.

Q.   I've been in a serious relationship for two years now. The topic of kids has been a back and forth issue for us--it's a stereotype, but here we go- I want children, and always have--he doesn't. He recently made that abundantly clear. After two...

A.   11 October 2013: you need to eccept that he does not want children. appreciate that he has been honest with you and did not mislead you. if you want a family, you need to be in a relationship with someone who also wants that. as for not having anyone to confide in ... (read in full...)

Married, open relationship, and now divorce?

Q.   I need you guys opinions, please. Here's my situation: My wife and I knew each other since for about 8 years. We got married on 2011 so it would be almost 2 years of marriage. We both agreed on having an open relationship as long as in the end we w...

A.   11 October 2013: every open relationship i know of has ended in divorce. why be in a relationship with someone if they aren't enough for you? if you keep looking long enough you will find someone else or something better. just my opinion but if you're sharing with ... (read in full...)

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