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Was dry-humping rape? Did I rape her?

Q.   am i normal? i dry humped my girlfriend as she slept she woke up and started screemin rape did i rape her?...

A.   6 December 2007: Depends on the circumstances. Sounds a bit dodge. If she didn't like it you shouldn't do it. It definitely wasn't rape if you didn't penetrate her. Stay away from sex for a while I'd say. Your only a minor. ... (read in full...)

When my hymen breaks, will I bleed?

Q.   hi guys............. i m going to get married in last wk of december.we have reserved a room in hotel for our first wedding nite..........me n my partner vergin. so i want to ask 2 or 3 questions 1...when hymen break will ther bleeding like perio...

A.   6 December 2007: You might or you might not. Most probably a little blood. Don't worry about the bed sheets, just change them the next day. It won't be enormous amounts. It may hurt a little at first but that's natural. If you use lube it will hurt less. A wome... (read in full...)

I'm new to Sex, but I don't enjoy it. Does it get better?

Q.   I have recently began having sex with my boyfriend we were both virgins before hand and waited until we both felt ready. However, I don't seem to enjoy sex. I get turned on during foreplay, but when we actually have sex it doesn't seem to be ...

A.   6 December 2007: In short yes. Your boyfriend does not sound like a casanova. Tell him your not enjoying it in a nice way and maybe try something different. First off try some lube, that will help if your not using it already. Tell him to go slow and try different ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is struggling to make time for me and it hurts. Can you advise me?

Q.   i've been with my girlfriend for 18 mos.she says she addors me. no matter how much i tell her we need to spend more time together.she says we will. she's given me so many excuses and continuse to tall that tomarrow she will. but tomarrow rarlly ...

A.   6 December 2007: I was in a very similar situation to you a while ago with an ex of mine where I felt like she was always making excuses for why we couldn't spend time together. Maybe you should give her an ultimatum or split up. If someone doesn't value you enough ... (read in full...)

She's the one, but she's left me. How do I change the way I think?

Q.   Hello. I'm just 18, but I feel like I'm in a world of trouble. My girlfriend left me earlier this year, and it is definitely, definitely over. She said she's just too young to get into a serious relationship. We were with eachother 1 1/2 ...

A.   6 December 2007: Bro, I know its an old cliche' but you will meet somebody else. There is always more than one girl suited for you out there. I felt exactly the same when I came out of my first serious relationship as if my gf and I were meant to be together. Start ... (read in full...)

I'm 19, bisexual, and have a crush on my teacher! Help!

Q.   This sounds ridiculous, as I thought I'd stopped having crushes years ago, but here goes. I'm a 19 year old girl and I'm in love with my teacher at university. She's special, kind, considerate and is very beautiful. I'm in a relationship with a ...

A.   6 December 2007: I would bring it up to your boyfriend. You never know, he might be receptive to the idea! Try and talk about it in a casual way. Or talk about it as if a friend of yours has a problem, drop hints etc. Don't deny your feelings. Your teacher might not ... (read in full...)

13, My boyfriend wants Sex from me, but I don't think I'm ready. Can you help me?

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for 3 wks and 5 days and he wants to have sex with me and im still a virgin and he is'nt i dont know if im ready or not how would i know if im ready or not. ...

A.   6 December 2007: After only 3 weeks that is ridiculous! The guy is obviously trying to pressure you in to something you are not ready for. You are too young. When the time is right you will know. Wait a couple of years until you meet someone who you really like. ... (read in full...)

How is a 17 year old suppose to endure all this? Please read.

Q.   i don't know what's wrong with me...somedays i feel happy and carefree as if nothing can ever go wrong and then other days i feel sad and lonely like there's somthing missing in my life...something important and i just don't know what it is. then ...

A.   6 December 2007: It does sound like too much for a young girl to handle! There are some serious issues there girl. I feel sorry about your situation I would think carefully about seeing a counselor. Talking to someone, especially a professional will help. Try the ... (read in full...)

He thought I was 16 turning 17 but in truth I'm only just turning 15!

Q.   *Sigh* Do you know anyone who looks/acts older than their age? Well I'm one of those kids. I'm 14 years old about to turn 15 on Saturday. Not to brag, but I'm more mature than people in my age group. I think its because I was abused and shifted from ...

A.   6 December 2007: I would suggest that you are emotionally insecure from what yu have written in your question. I don't mean that as an insult. You probably look to a boyfriend as a form of companionship and to feel good about yourself. At your age its okay to be ... (read in full...)

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