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My 2 year old will wee in the loo, but I cant get him to Poo!

Q.   I have a 2yr old little boy. He will wee in the toilet without any problems at all he will ask to go and he is never wet. I am having a real problem in trying to get hi to poo in the loo or the potty. Everytime we try he starts screaming, we have ...

A.   8 October 2006: I have a nutty friend who put fake dog poo in her daughters potty and told her the poo fairy had done it. well i did say she was nutty!lol it done the trick. he will eventually gorw into it i know its anoying but keep on encouraging him good... (read in full...)

Clingy 11-month old?

Q.   my 11month olddaughter has become very clingy i she has got to be by my side all of the time any advice please on how to helpbreak this dependancy with me....

A.   4 October 2006: try getting some one to sit with her in one room while you walk out stand out side the door for about 5 min then walk back in and make a fuss of her repeat but stay there for 10 min then make a fuss dont do it all day but as often through the week... (read in full...)

How can I stop my son from using such foul language ?

Q.   my son has now started school, and the last couple of weeks, has been using bad language. he has not said it to me, but to other children. i have told him off countless times but it`s not working, please help. ...

A.   4 October 2006: my son hates branston pickel so when he swears i put a spoon dipped in it in his mouth i done this for 1 week till he stopped compleatley swearing but it worked he still relapeses some times but the pickel comes out again just find something ... (read in full...)

Might sound silly but its starting to hurt me that my little girl doesnt say Mummy, when shes says Daddy all the time!

Q.   My daughter is 14 months old and saying quite a few words but she wont call me mum/mummy. She can call me by my name and she knows who I am if someone says mum/mummy. I gave up work (very happily)to be a stay at home mum, so I spend all day with ...

A.   4 October 2006: ignore your child when your called by your name just simply say my names not that its mummy then turn your back on her then praise her when your called mummy its hard but its the only way i could get both my kids to call me mummy also get your ... (read in full...)

My daughter is badmouthing us to her grandparents... Am I wrong to keep the history of her conversations on MSN ?

Q.   Hi, I am having problems with my 15yr old step daughter. I think she has been bad mouthing me and her dad to her grand parents and her aunt and uncle (this is her mums parents and her mums sister and brother-in-law). My husband (step daughters dad) ...

A.   4 October 2006: all kids bad mouth thair parents the question is do you really think your going to like what you read if there is anything have you tryed just asking her if any things wrong and being prepaired to come to compromise ? eg if she tidys up youll l... (read in full...)

How can we change her " wide awake" time around ??

Q.   Hi :) My daughter is 1 mth old and bottled fed. She has one particular feed in the early hours after which she simply is awake for about 2 hours! During the day she feeds and settles immediately and is an easy baby. For example this a.m it was ...

A.   4 October 2006: BABYS DO NOT UNDERSTAND DAY OR NIGHT AND THERE IS NO POINT IN TRYING TO TEACH HER IF SHE UNSETTLES THEN TALK TO HER ROCK HER IN YOUR ARMS AND IF NEED BE THEN TAKE HER OUT OF THE BED ROOM IGNORING HER ONLY MAKES HER WORSE TRY TO KEEP HER AWAKE FO... (read in full...)

My dream is to be a hairdresser with my own salon.. Trouble is no one will help start me off and this is really depressing me!

Q.   My dream is to be a hairdresser with my own salon one day, but im unemployed at the moment having done my level 2 at college no-one will give me a chance. I sacrificed so much to do this and im not going to give up but its reali starting to get me ...

A.   4 October 2006: HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT GOING ALONE AND DOING MOBILE HAIR DRESSING. IT TAKES ALONG TIME TO BUILD UP CLIENTEL BUT YOU NEVER KNOW IN 10 YEARS TIME YOUR WISH MAY COME TRUE. START BY FINDING HOW MUCH IT WILL COST TO GET ALL UR EQUIPTMENT AND THEN INSU... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

Q.   i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...

A.   22 September 2006: What do you want ? Its not fare to string your boyf along. the longer you leave it the more its gonna hurt him. If you really thought ur ex will change then i think you would have bee there like a shot. But hay thats wot i think. Pull u... (read in full...)

Sex with the ex feels so good, even though I am cheating on my boyfriend. Please help me understand it's not right.

Q.   Please give me some advise! I am currently involved with this guy we been together for couple of years,but we recently been arguing alot and for little things.I feel that he may be cheating on me. About a month ago was speaking of this with my ...

A.   22 September 2006: How can i put this ........ Well 1st it is wrong. It seems that your random sex meeting with your ex is exciting puls racing fun, not the safe caring sex you have with ur current boyf. You need to sort ur differences with your boyf and spice th... (read in full...)

Is she playing games with me, am I being paranoid or am I just ignoring the fact that she doesn't like me?

Q.   I met agirl a while ago while working on a farm in another country. She's just turned 17 and I'm turning 22. I fell madly in love with her straight away and I felt she liked me back, before I spoke to her I'd catch her looking at me or giggling at ...

A.   22 September 2006: She's 17 even if you get the relationship started how long will it last? A long distance relationship often ends in heatache. No disrespect to you but find someone who will give it to you straight not a teenager who dont kneed nor seems not to... (read in full...)

I like this guy (my brother's boss) who is much older. Does age matter and should I have my brother hint to this fellow, I like him?

Q.   Hello Before I start I want to say a few things to get the picture strat.I have a son thats 8 1/2, he is the greatest! and my life!I 25 very soon to be 26 I not a playboy center fold but i did win Miss Bass lake swimsuit 2003. OK I'm falling for...

A.   22 September 2006: Go for it babe lifes for living The worst that could happen, he will say is no! Go girl go !!!... (read in full...)

I cant get over my boyfriends old habit of downloading porn, even though he no longer does it.

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. when we first got together he used to download porn off the internet. it didnt really worry at first but after a few weeks it really started to bother me. i told him how i felt about it and he promised me ...

A.   22 September 2006: Have you tryed watching them with him ? Most girls dont like it either but i know a few who have watched it with their partners and liked it. It got them both arroused and they had great fun. Try it you might like it . If not get over it he g... (read in full...)

I used to get on with his family, but now they never invite me over, I feel I have been rejected!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are very close. I used to get on with his family, but now they no longer invite me around. I was even excluded from his birthday celebration, even though the year before they had invited me. I have confronted him about it, told h...

A.   22 September 2006: I cant see how you seem to think its not going to work out if they are being rude towards you, Your going out with your boyfriend not his parents. If its bugging you that much then tell him to take you round im sure he dont need an invite! If h... (read in full...)

My child was made to stand in the corner by the teacher and she said he may as well have a hat with a D on it!!! surely this isnt right ?

Q.   My son is 9 years old and at a private school. He was recently made to stand in a corner by his teacher after she said he wasn't listening in class. He was very upset and said that she may as well have given him a hat with a D on it. I fell ve...

A.   22 September 2006: If he dont want you to go then dont you will only give him a reason not to tell you anything ever again. BUT.... If it happens again (wich i hope it dont) then get straight up there and give her a pice of your mind. And the head teacher as well.... (read in full...)

Do I have any parental responsibility ?

Q.   my first child was born one month before me and my ex wife got married(1994), we have been divorced since jan 2006. do i have parental responsibility?....

A.   20 September 2006: Wot sort of question is that ? Is the child yours? If yes then YES it is Have you brought this child up as ur own ? If yes then YES it is Is your name on the birth certificate ? If yes then YES it is If you have to question your responsibi... (read in full...)

How can I get him to concentrate?

Q.   how can i get my son to concentrate in school?...

A.   18 September 2006: Fish oils are ment to be great at helping concerntration. You will also find it help behavior too. You can find this almost anywhere now even in milk or bread or in capsules. Hope this helps... (read in full...)

How can I make my 16 year old daughter see that her drinking/going out behaviour is dangerous?

Q.   Hello, can anyone advise me on my daughter? She is nearly 16 and is usually a lovely sunny, happy girl, but occasionally she binge drinks and becomes unconscious and goes out for whole weekends lying to me about where she is going. These weekends ...

A.   18 September 2006: Hi I had a problem with my little boy (5) running out in the road so i searched on the net for some pic's of someone getting run over, it was not detailed or gross in any way but since then he has never run in the road again. The point to my ... (read in full...)

Currently working in a bank that provides stability, but how can I put my English and media Degree to better use ?

Q.   Hi Everyone, I graduated from uni two years ago with a degree in English and Media. Since then, I've been working for a large bank dealing with shares - this is not suited to my interests and is certainly not my forté. However, there are 'perks...

A.   17 September 2006: Why dont you start by trying to get hold of/ going to your local job center and telling them what degrees you hold and seeing what sort of jobs they have matching your potential. They should come up with a few jobs you may be intrested in. You c... (read in full...)

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