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Upset that my ex boyfriend is sleeping with his new girl in OUR house!

Q.   Hi guys, I'm new here. I have a question. A few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We had a relationship for almost 10 years. A few years ago we bought a house. After he broke up with me I left (He asked me to leave). I'm staying at my be...

A.   20 March 2008: Thank you all for answerring my question! I really appreciate it!... (read in full...)

I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?

Q.   I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he ...

A.   20 March 2008: Talk to him and ask him how he sees the future. Then make a choice: do you want to wait or not? I think that you have to set an expiredate on it for yourself! If the situation is the same on that date and you are not feeling fully happy with it:... (read in full...)

Why would a guy say he wasn't wearing a condom when he was?

Q.   why would a guy say he wasn't wearing a condom and ask if he could let go when he was in fact wearing one? He said it was just to heighten the heat of the moment but it freaked me out and I didn't understand that....

A.   20 March 2008: Maybe he wanted to heaten up the moment but it is not respectfull to you!!!... (read in full...)

I'm married and having an affair but I'm so lonely...

Q.   Hi there, I'm new to this but feel very alone. I need advice and help. I'm married but been having an affair. I want out but I'm also hurting. My husband only sees me one day in a week. It's been like this for 10 years. I love him but I'm so lonely. ...

A.   20 March 2008: Talk to your husband and tell him why you are feeling so lonely and ask yourself the question what both of you can do about it. Take the chance to work on your marriage. About the affair: what do you like about this relationship? Can you find tha... (read in full...)

Virtual flirt... too much?

Q.   I've been married for 15 years and am very happy with our life. Sex life not so much. Recently I found one of my first boyfriends online and started talking... really only wanted to see how he was doing. It turned into memory sharing and was very ...

A.   20 March 2008: I agree: just chatting is ok. Although you have to ask yourself a few questions: why are you feeling so sexy when you get attention from your old friend? What are you missing in your own relationship? What can your husband do to give you this ... (read in full...)

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