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writes:i had a boyfriend this time last year and i got pregant and had an abortion. and started to see my school concilor...but i lied to him. i said that i did tell my mum and the father, when really i didnt because i was too scared. now i feel guilty and im scared to tell my concilor the turth because he might call me a liar and think i have wasted his time. what can i do? i feel really guity!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 The best thing is for u to come clean and tell your consillor the truth. Coz u aint going to go too far by coming up with more lies. Actually the BIBLE say that the truth will always set you free.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (15 September 2007):
 ok well your counsellor will not call you a liar, it is their job to listen to your problems and to help you! if he calls you a liar then you should report him because he is not doing his job properly! a counsellor is someone you should have complete trust with and it is his job to help you without judgement!
it is wrong to lie, im not going to tell you otherwise but if the lie you told was right for you at the time because the situation was hard to cope with then so be it! you are young and this is a very difficult situation that happened to you and the lie is your way of coping! i suggest you open up to your counsellor for some proper advice--he will not call you a liar and will not think you wasted his time! if anything he would think you are making progress as you have managed to admit to this lie and put your trust in him!
good luck hunny! email me if there is anything you ever wanna chat about!
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reader, sarasexypants  +, writes (15 September 2007):
as a counselor im sure he will understand that you were afraid of telling him. its good that you are feeling guilty, because if you werent that would not be normal. i think you should tell him and see how that goes... you will feel a lot better
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