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No sex, arguments and I think he is planning to leave.

Q.   Ok, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two children together. Ever since I had found out I was pregnant with out now 7 month old son he seemed to change a bit. We went ...

A.   18 January 2011: I am still in shock after reading this. First off, i am really sorry you're dealing with a maniac like your husband. I know we all go stretches for love but quit him. Your husband seem to have gotten too comfortable on your tolerance and patient ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend rented a uhaul and is moving out!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend just broke up two days ago she was at her cousins house for a week I ckecked he email and seen a uhaul conformation I went home and asked y and she said she was tired of all the fighting so it was best to do it this way she says ...

A.   18 January 2011: If she's already hired U-Haul its tough because it means she's made up her mind a while ago.. probable with the help of her cousin. Now just let her go completely,.. that way she might realize your absence isnt that funny, fighting her to stay might ... (read in full...)

She already knew I had kids but got upset when she found a video of their birth of my computer!

Q.   I met a girl 2 month ago, we heard so much fun in a very short period of time, I have 3 kids one 5, and twins 2, with different women, at first I told her I have 1 child, later on as we where getting serious, I knew I really like her, so i told her ...

A.   17 January 2011: I will be dead honest with you my brother. It seems to me like you wait for a girl to get deep into you...and then open your unpleasant past? and that's regarded as dating fraudulent with the girls you're dating, they take you as a coward and liar. ... (read in full...)

Why can't I just break up with my boyfriend?

Q.   Why can't I break up with my boyfriend.. he treats me like dirt and always needs "guy time"..Why can't he just tell me he wants out and why can't I seem to be the one to break it off? I know I should break it off because I really think he is ...

A.   14 January 2011: he is treating you like dirt, that's enough said. Leave him, it hurts to leave him i know but the earlier the better. Life is too short to compromise being treated like dirt with anyone, understand that. goodluck and i am sorry for your situation.... (read in full...)

Nothing ever works for me!

Q.   Nothing ever works for me. I know I have issues, as I've known for quite some time. I always mess up every relationship, yes, it's always my fault. I'm 26 at this point and I don't see things improving anytime sooner. I fall for people easily ...

A.   14 January 2011: Eishh i am exactly the same way... i hope you'll get answers and let me know. Keep your head up man, just try to stick to a small group of people.. im still learning being selfless too!... (read in full...)

I want to break up this couple

Q.   I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch ...

A.   13 January 2011: My friend don't let emotions and pride ruin your vision. Let them be and find your own girl, or be labeled as a stalker. Be a real dude... respect others and be progressive! Don't pick up such a bad habit at your age, do you understand? ... (read in full...)

My partner left me and is pregnant with my baby!

Q.   About 2 years ago I started dating a good friend of my brothers she was only just 18 at the time where I was coming up to 23. But we both got on very well and liked spending time with each other. But then I realized she had a hard time at school a...

A.   10 January 2011: I know this is the last answer to hear... leave her my friend girls like that dont change, if she could leave you pregant she can pretty much do anything to you. Just come back and support the kid. This woman have already destroyed your life and ... (read in full...)

Why does she treat me like dirt?

Q.   I have been seeing a woman for 6 months, there have been good times and bad times, but overall there has been progress...and that is what keeps me in this relationship. However, I am burnt out and my heart is dying, and on the two occassions I pla...

A.   9 January 2011: misunderstood74 i rated your answer 5 because you look those words straight out of my mouth... right from the top to the bottom. I am here too because i am dealing with a similar woman, and i know for a fact her problem is insecurity and my ... (read in full...)

Should I shoot him an email telling him I'll wait for him?

Q.   Hi - I do not know what to do. This guy and I were friends for four years and we date during five months. We never broke up just stop seeing each other last september. Now he came back to my life after his disappearing act. I realize somethin...

A.   10 December 2010: You seem like you are interested in him more than he is in you. You might have to focus on forgetting this guy for your own good. Your email shows how much of a considerate and caring person you're... send him the email and see if he replies. If he ... (read in full...)

Could this breakup be the space she needed?

Q.   Please help. My girlfriend all of the sudden started to miss her ex which led to some distant behavior. I started asking what's wrong and she just got irritated but I could tell something was up. So she calls me tells me she misses him because they ...

A.   10 December 2010: First, i am sorry about your situation. Secondly... Leave that girl, don't even rationalize her behavior. She was looking for an excuse to leave, holding her back will only prolong the pain. I have been in exactly the same situation... leave soon my ... (read in full...)

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