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Two months till my wedding and my bridesmaids suck

Q.   Okay guys so my bridesmaid suck! It's two month till my wedding and my bridesmaids haven't told me anything at all..... I told them rbe my vbridesmaid like 5month ago.....I had to go and buy them their dresses that's how uninterested they are....I ...

A.   21 March 2011: Yes I have been very consecrate with them is just like they are not interested they all want to reschedule or they say they don't have time but yet they go out with other friends on the date that they said they where going to be able to go?:/ ... (read in full...)

Should I go to my friend's birthday party even if my ex is invited?

Q.   so one of my friends Birthday is today and his girlfriend and I planed out a surprise Birthday party at a restaurant, the problem is that he made friends with my ex and she invited him. Honestly I cant stand my ex because he talked a lot of ugly ...

A.   16 March 2011: Thank you guys I did go and it was so much fun !... (read in full...)

How do I tell my job that I need time off for my wedding?

Q.   Hi...... so I'm getting married in about three months I just got hired at a new job and I don't know how to tell them that I will be needing time off for my wedding because of the 90 day probation ????...

A.   17 February 2011: Thank you so much to all who respond I guess I'll tell my boss that I just got engaged and that I will be getting married within the next three months !!!! ... (read in full...)

I need romantic, fun ideas for Valentine's Day!

Q.   Okay, our two year anniversary is Feb 12, so my fiance is going to do something special that day, leaving Valentine's day up to me. I am taking him to a nice dinner but he just told me that he has taken that day off so he can spend all day with me ...

A.   26 January 2011: Thanks guys but we don't live together So I can't really do anything like breakfast in bed or The long bath maybe when we get married but yeah so far I'll take franks idea thanks!!!!!... (read in full...)

If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff ...

A.   17 January 2011:  if there is no trust there is no LOVE!!!! and no sex will not make anything better because in order to have sex there has to be true love!... (read in full...)

He's the one and I can't let him go!

Q.   please help me..ive dated my boyfriend for over two years, we are young, but had plans to marry and have children, to the point where there names were picked out. however..we fight constatly endlessly and its gotten to the point where ive ended the ...

A.   15 January 2011: I was the same way as you I just can let things go but my boyfriend who I have been with for about two years has helped me a lot to overcome that because he loved me so much even if I acted like a the Grudge (that’s the nick name he gives me now ... (read in full...)

I'm really not that bad...why don't girls ever notice me???

Q.   I am a pretty average guy, at least I think. I weigh about 84kg or 185lbs, and I'm about 6ft 1inch or 185cm tall. I've never been made fun of for being ugly or anything. I'm 21 and stay in pretty good shape by working out most days of the week. ...

A.   15 January 2011: Just keep being yourself you don’t have to change in order to get girls because then you’ll just be a fake. But you do have to be a little more out going (nothing crazy or anything like that just be your self )I use to feel the same and didn’t have ... (read in full...)

Feeingsl of lust for my girlfriend's sister..

Q.   i'm a 15 yr old guy....i hav a gf...and we love each other a lot!!! she has a sister who is older than me by abt a year and a half and is much more attractive than my gf...this sister loves me as a brother and i love her as a sister as well.....but ...

A.   15 January 2011: Defiantly keep your distance you don’t want to lose your relationship with your girlfriend for someone you don’t even love. Remember its true love that really counts. ... (read in full...)

If I'm pretty then why have I been single for 16 years?

Q.   If this is true, then why don't i have a boyfriend? I've been single for going on 16 (yes 16) years, people tell me that I'm pretty and what not and that I can have any guy I want. IF that's true then why am I still single? I'm 34 years old and...

A.   14 January 2011: you have to be open to everything that comes to you go out to where ever they invite you even if it to wal-mart don’t let the depression get to you I was told the same thing and that I was pretty and why I didn’t have a bf I found out that I didn’t ... (read in full...)

LDR-how to make our anniversary special?

Q.   hi, simply im in a long distance relationship with such a nice guy We were in the same country but the conditions separated us ! so , our first anniversairy is almost close and i dont really know what to do? i want to make this day special for me a...

A.   14 January 2011: a romantic dinner (cooked by you=)then go out and have some fun you guys don’t spend a lot of time together so go out to dance to where you both can be yourself! and take a lot of pictures so that way you can make a small scrap book for the next ... (read in full...)

I need to relax but I'm not sure how to!

Q.   Hey guys. Im a virgin, my boyfriend isnt though. I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and we have tried to have sex a few times now. But I always get him to stop because... It hurts ^^; He tells me it's because im too tense. I don't f...

A.   14 January 2011:  I would wait till you fully had sex because you have only been with him for 5 months what is something goes wrong and you end up getting pregnant? I’m a virgin as well and I’m 23 years old and I’m glad I have waited my ex tried to get me to have... (read in full...)

Why can't I just break up with my boyfriend?

Q.   Why can't I break up with my boyfriend.. he treats me like dirt and always needs "guy time"..Why can't he just tell me he wants out and why can't I seem to be the one to break it off? I know I should break it off because I really think he is ...

A.   14 January 2011: If he cant spend time with you then just dump him he is not worth it to stay stuck in a relationship that makes you doubt or worst not trust him . You might not want to leave him because you’re afraid that you will be alone and you shouldn’t hold ... (read in full...)

How do I apologize to my friend?

Q.   pliz help i have a gal of mine so we have fought so i want to apologise to her so what are the spets to take so that i will not srew things up i love so much but it seems that she already have a boy friend and again im confused on the things to say ...

A.   14 January 2011: I was kind of in the the same situation my best friend just stopped talking to ke when I had my boyfriend and at the time I didn't understand her she later on came to me and she apologized and I I accepted here apology if your friend is a true ... (read in full...)

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