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My husband leaves me alone while he's off hunting... is it any wonder I think about my ex?

Q.   Married, Unhappy and Wanting to be with someone else. I have been married for 2 years but we've been together for 5. My husband like to hunt (that makes me a hunter's widow to those who know my pain)and that keeps him away from home. He eats, br...

A.   24 November 2005: I can understand you loneliness of your husband never being home(TRUST ME) if you feel that badly by staying with your husband, and if he is not willing to give you 100% effort why should you continue to put effort in. Its is pointless we no longer ... (read in full...)

Help! I keep hurting my relationship by seesawing over going back to my ex...

Q.   Hi, I have a problem that I could really do with some advice on !! I am seperated from my wife and son, and struggling to move on. I have met someone else but every time I try to commit I start doubting everything I have done, so keep hurting ...

A.   12 November 2005: I know you don't want to hurt anyone but someone will get hurt and lets hope that its not your son. Keep in mind that your son will eventually be old enough to see whats going on and it could reflect on you later. YOu don't have to stay with your ... (read in full...)

My guy left me to be with his pregnant ex. Should I just move on?

Q.   I have been with this guy for 7 years off and on and we have 2 kids together. We separated about a year ago and he started seeing this girl he had cheated on me with before. This girl became pregnant, and me and him got back together. For 9 months...

A.   12 November 2005: I understand that you have children with this man but we all know thats no reason to have a relationship with someone...I think you should ask yourself what you want and take it from there. Weigh out the pros and cons and don't settle for anything ... (read in full...)

Feel like it's time to end it with my partner, but I just don't have the courage...

Q.   I have been thinking about breaking up with my partner now for a few years but can't find the courage to do it. I had several affairs a few years ago and met this lovely man who I have kept in contact with. My partner forgave me for the affairs and ...

A.   27 September 2005: I know sometimes it can be hard to do things that are going to hurt someone we care abou tbut think of what you are showing your children.. If you don't want to be with him anymore you should be honest with HIM, YOUR CHILDREN and YOURSELF.....Please ... (read in full...)

My long-distance bf broke his promise to me. We care for each other deeply, but can I trust him?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for over two years with a smart, funny, loving, thoughtful, and generous man. The problem is this: A year ago he held me down, bruising me. Upon my demand, he went to a doctor, was evaluated for depr...

A.   19 August 2005: A female reader, S_J_K_J, writes (13 July 2005): Being able to understand your situation, My advice to you is sit back and think about all what is better for YOU and HEALTHY for you! Sometimes its ok to be selfish when you are in a relationship... (read in full...)

She's moved on with her life, but she's the one I want to be with!

Q.   Dear cupid, My ex of 1.5 years and I recently broke up (6 months ago). She said she needed time to herself, and I agreed, I thought I needed that too. After about a week, I realized that I missed her sooo much more than I ever thought and that...

A.   19 August 2005: Don't pretend to be her friend, she knows how you feel about her, so pretending to be her friend isn't really a true friend at all, I would try to win her back and if that fails give yourself time to move on from her and then try to be her friend. ... (read in full...)

He tells me I'm different from other girls, but then only has time for sex with me...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I'm 23 and he's 30. But he doesn't spend time with me. I can meet him only once a week and only for having sex. When I tell him "I wanna meet you, let's go out for dinner"... he says I have no time! I real...

A.   9 August 2005: Honestly,Realize what you are saying and feeling, No one should feel bad when they are in a relationship with someone.... (read in full...)

My long-distance bf broke his promise to me. We care for each other deeply, but can I trust him?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for over two years with a smart, funny, loving, thoughtful, and generous man. The problem is this: A year ago he held me down, bruising me. Upon my demand, he went to a doctor, was evaluated for depr...

A.   13 July 2005: Being able to understand your situation, My advice to you is sit back and think about all what is better for YOU and HEALTHY for you! Sometimes its ok to be selfish when you are in a relationship and in this case it is more than O.K....Ps I have ... (read in full...)

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