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Could this be abuse?

Q.   Am I being abuse if when I question my husband he puts on his headphones to block me out, ignores me for days, sleeps in the other room, tells me I'm negative, threatens divorce and if I try to remove a headphone from his ear to talk to him he hits ...

A.   29 January 2012: traweb7, love is hard. Love is blind, but, don't tell her that. She's deaf as well. I've been there myself. In an unhealthy situation, where everyone, not just you, wonders "what the hell is wrong with your partner?", but, sometimes, t... (read in full...)

I like my friend and got shot down. Do I try again?

Q.   So I have a friend that I recently told I have feelings for. The problem is, when I told her, it was really awkward and she pretty much walked me into the whole situation. She shot me down, but my heart won't let me give up. Would going up to her ...

A.   28 January 2012: It certainly sounds like it was a very uncomfortable situation for both of you. Perhaps, that's what dictated her abrupt response. Give it another shot, this time, making sure that you're both in a comfortable place and time. If she says "no" th... (read in full...)

If a guy wants you for sex but not a girlfriend does it mean you're ugly?

Q.   He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I've told him to leave me alone. I feel ugly :(...

A.   28 January 2012: Love, you're not ugly. You ARE stupid for thinking that, and, you are clearly over-thinking his reaction to this situation. Rather than dwell on childish reaction of this person, move on, and, find several men who'd treat you a great deal better ... (read in full...)

Could this be abuse?

Q.   Am I being abuse if when I question my husband he puts on his headphones to block me out, ignores me for days, sleeps in the other room, tells me I'm negative, threatens divorce and if I try to remove a headphone from his ear to talk to him he hits ...

A.   28 January 2012: You are not being abused if your husband ignores you, sleeps in another room, tells you you're negative, and, threatens you with divorce (although the last one is borderline). You ARE being abusive towards HIM when you forcefully take off his head... (read in full...)

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