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Is it true LDRs never last?

Q.   Is what they say about long distance relationships true? That they never last? I ask this because I really like this guy. He's sweet and caring and very romantic. We are good together. The only problem is that he's in the military and stationed ...

A.   10 September 2008:  you need to have a lot of trust, patience and understanding. Maybe love may fade eventually but enjoy it. You will learn a lot!... (read in full...)

How do I initiate things with his more mature, older brother?

Q.   i started casually hooking up with this guy about a month ago nothing too serious, i guess we both kinda got feelings so we started hanging out more and getting closer (i met him within my large group of guy friends) but last night we had sex and ...

A.   10 September 2008:  maybe you just need to give it another try. the same thing happened to my boyfriend, he couldnt keep it up the first time and he said it was because he was nervous, he wanted everything to come out right and he had been imagining that moment, ... (read in full...)

She kissed another, while drunk, at the beginning of our relationship. Do I take her back?

Q.   I have been going out with a girl for 2 months now, but i have recently found out that at the very beginning of our relationship, she kissed another guy. She was very drunk and couldn't even remember it, her friend had to tell her. Should i ever ...

A.   10 September 2008:  Think of the situation. She is drunk out of her mind (not an excuse). It was the beginning of your relationship. Maybe she still didn't like you alot. Gosh, i feel so in touch with this. I did the same thing. At the beginning ... (read in full...)

Would most girls like my fantasy and how do I approach a girl about it?

Q.   I'd like to get a girlfriend that I connect with, but I'm not sure how she would react about something. I want a girl who would be willing for her and me to rub our bare feet against each other while laying next to each other. Absolutely no shoes or ...

A.   10 September 2008:  i actually think it is normal, its just like sharing a moment with ur partner, being together and just feeling eachothers body, (feet come included).. so just to say it and do it, she'll like it,, i promise (: ... (read in full...)

Should I go to a movie with him?

Q.   I like a guy in my college. We went on a trip together with friends. that's when i got to know him. he's really good looking and surprisingly very very sweet. i have just started talking to him and got him to ask me out for a movie. Rumer has it ...

A.   10 September 2008:  have fun and go out with him!! don't take it to seriously, just see what happens (: ... (read in full...)

What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?

Q.   i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's ...

A.   10 September 2008:  i think its wrong that u go through your boyfriends phone. Though if he IS talking about you, he probably means by the fact that he thinks he lost you because u cheated on him. People usually cheat because they're lacking something. So i think it... (read in full...)

Why does he call me 'kiddy fiddler'?

Q.   hello right here is my problem i have started seeing this lad he is a year and 37 days younger than me. ever since we have started seeing eachother he take the mick and calls me a kiddy fiddler do you think he actually believes that and do you t...

A.   10 September 2008:  he's probably just joking, i do that to my boyfriend (he's five years older than me). but im just playing around. but if it does bother you, talk to him. Ask him if he really thinks that? if he thinks age makes a difference? or simply tell ... (read in full...)

I like this guy, we did not date, we kissed and had sex, now he flirts with other girls and I feel used, what do you think?

Q.   i really need help. i really fancy a boy and im not sure if he actually does like me, he flirts with me and kisses me at random moments, sometimes holds my hand. and were not even going out. He also keeps asking me to have sex with him alot, i did ...

A.   10 September 2008:  you made a big mistake. Dont ever give in to guys you really like to have something serious with you. Guys dont like easy chicks, they have fun with them. Maybe im being a little harsh. But you made the wrong decision. Maybe you should try not to f... (read in full...)

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