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Are men and women really that different in terms of our sexuality?

Q.   Perhaps I'm wrong, but it seems to me there's a tendancy these days to want to think that men and women are identical, or close to it, in most or all respects. As an (obviously unscientific) experiment, I created both a fake male profile and a fa...

A.   1 March 2011: Women, like myself, often times enjoy long realationships more. We feel men are just using us for our bodies. the reason we worry about this is because we don't want to give 20 to 30 years of our lives to a man and than have him leave us because we ... (read in full...)

What shall I do with her?

Q.   Recently I fancied a very female friend of mine. We used to talk a lot and once time I discovered that she was upset due to another guy, who was not asking her out but they both like each other. I went up to her and listen to all those things that ...

A.   1 March 2011: You sound sensitive and sweet, trust me i know how hard it is to stop loving someone you're in love with but you deserve way better. With your personality any girl would be lucky to have you.... (read in full...)

My boyfriends fantasy is a threesome... With another man!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. We are madly in love. Last night we were discussing our fantasies and what we would like to try. We both agreed we would try almost anything, except I knew I would never have a threesome because I ...

A.   1 March 2011: he may feel insecure of his abilities to arouse you. maybe he thinks he needs help making you happy so he doesn't lose you.... (read in full...)

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

Q.   I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...

A.   28 February 2011: you're very strong for staying a virgin i'll be doinf the same. I admire you, i'm glad your making this desicion. ... (read in full...)

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

Q.   I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...

A.   28 February 2011: I am in the middle of the same sitation right now, my beatfriend dumped this guy and now i'm dating him. i madly in love with him. She is acting like a child, remember this girl never broke his heart, you did. so maybe, she's better for him. i agree ... (read in full...)

My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?

Q.   my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ...

A.   28 February 2011: I think it's a good idea because, if you don't show kids what they will have to deal with in the real world, when they turn 18 and move out they'll be clueless with how to respond to the real world, hope this helped... (read in full...)

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

Q.   Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...

A.   28 February 2011: I'm 13 and the same thing happened to me, I think I stopped it because, I don't want the risk of getting pregnant or getting an STD. Hope this helps :)... (read in full...)

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