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After his rejection and moving on to high school, I still cannot seem to forget him. Should I forget him?

Q.   Hey guys! Ok, I have a big and confusing problem. Ok, maybe not really but I really need advice. Ok, so there is this guy in my ex-school. As the teacher arranges our seating, he sat beside me for two terms which is 8months. Well, we have always ...

A.   3 January 2008: Well i do think you have a big crush on him, we have all been there but believe me you will forget him when the time is right. think about this he did reject you so there is no use wanting someone who doesnt want you, don tmessage him just let him ... (read in full...)

What to do to get her.

Q.   i love one girl, i cant to get her i've waited her for two years what could i do?...

A.   12 November 2007: Why cant you get her, is it a question of that she has a boyfriend? Well my advice is that you need to show her that you love her, if she is single then go ahead say hi, invite her to coffee movies anything just to get her attention. girls like to ... (read in full...)

Lost my virginity weeks ago and still paranoid about being pregnant! Please help.

Q.   Hey, i lost my virginity 2 weeks ago and im still so paranoid! I dont understand why i am as it was protected sex (condom). I just can't stop thinking that i could be pregnant or something. I keep telling myself im being stupid as i was responsible ...

A.   11 September 2007: well i understant how you are feeling,i was kissing my then boyfriend for about 4 hour,touching each other but we didnt go all the way,anyhow we both fell asleep and woke up the following day still dressed.for the next couple of weeks i couldnt help ... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and a 20 year old man wants to date me; I love him but my parent's don't know him, should I go out with him?

Q.   Hey im 12 and i live where there is alot of mexicans. But i dated a 15 year old that lives by me. But i broke up with him so there is this boy hes 20 and he gave me a letter and he wants to go out with me should i say yes and i known him 4 a 1 year ...

A.   7 August 2007: hell no.......... first of all your mindset is very different and you may end up doing things that you dont want to do and may regret them later. you should start with guys the same age as you maybe 13,14 or even 15. 20 is too much for a 12 year old... (read in full...)

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

Q.   I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...

A.   10 July 2007: i first kissed a boy because all my friends had already done it and i fell to peer pressure. i later regretted it for almost to years and felt horrible especially each time i saw the guy. don't make the same mistake i did and wait for the right time ... (read in full...)

We're young and we want to have sex badly.

Q.   I want to have sex badley but I not sure if I should do it my boy friend is 16 and im 12 he calls every night tells me come over i am ready. (Moderator Note: purposefully left without corrections)...

A.   10 July 2007: whoa!! hold on here,babes you are 12 and you want to have sex that is not a very wise thing to do. first of all how long have you being seeing this guy, is he the right one you want to lose your virginity with, does he love you that much. ask ... (read in full...)

Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship.

Q.   Please take the time to read this, I know it is long but it's important to my relationship Ok well where do I start... I'm sorry if bits and pieces of this don't make sense, but bear with me, I am writing this as she is leaving the house becaus...

A.   9 July 2007: my advice dump her she is not worthy of you. she is a liar and a cheat the sooner you get rid of her the sooner you will start to heal.... (read in full...)

Do women like a tough boyfriend or a sensitive boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I was just wondering... do women prefer a manly man or a sensitive guy for a boyfriend? Not to sound bigheaded but I'm reasonably muscley and quite strong but I'm also really sensitive and I cry at sad films and other sad stuff that a lot of ...

A.   9 July 2007: well i would say you are the perfect boyfriend. as a woman myself i prefer both of best world. all women want a tough guy but who is also sensible.a guy who you could fell safe around him but also who you can both enjoy a romantic movie with once in ... (read in full...)

How can I make my mum and dad approve of my boyfriend and allow us to marry?

Q.   Ok here goes I am 16 years old and my fiance is 20 years old we are now 9 weeks pregnant and we have been together for a while, I was 15 when we got together and I'm about to be 17 in September. I want to marry him but my parents hate him and don't ...

A.   9 July 2007: i don't mean to sound harsh but your parents have a point, you are young and you and your boyfriend were not responsible to make a child at the age of 16. but what is done is done.lets look at this situation from your parents point of view, their ... (read in full...)

Why won't he kiss me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he has never kissed me. When I bring the subject up, he says he is planning a perfect first kiss. Should I believe him or is he cheating?...

A.   9 July 2007: hi thank you for your advices, i did what you sugested and gave him a peck on the mouth although it didn't go any further than that. but he took me to his house and he wants to take our relationship to the next level, he wants me to meet his ... (read in full...)

I don't like his new relationship. What should I do?

Q.   Hey, I'm back. I just found out last night that the 19 yr old guy I liked dumped his girlfriend, but there's more. He is going out with another girl now. I don't really believe that they like each other because she has been in five different r...

A.   4 July 2007: well he sounds like a player to me. you know what our parents say, the same way you meet your man is the same way you lose him. if he dumps his girlfriend for you chances are he will dump you for someone else. saying he doesn't like his girlfriend ... (read in full...)

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