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Are our lives predestined?

Q.   We all know that things happen whether they are good or bad.... but do you think that whatever happens to you in your life was supposed to happen to you? I mean is it to teach you a lesson or is it just that things happen? What if it was bad, am I ...

A.   30 October 2008: My great-grandmother always told me that the day you are born it is written the day you will die. We are all given choices along the way. It is what you do with those choices that determines which way your life will go.... (read in full...)

Is watching porn like cheating on your spouse?

Q.   If your spouse believes porn is cheating and you are watching it are you committing adultery?...

A.   30 October 2008: Can any of you wrap your mind around the possibility that this woman may mean this question in a totally opposite way? Could she possibly be asking if her husband believes porn is cheating and she is watching porn, is she committing adultery? What ... (read in full...)

I thought that we had a great sex life, I found out he watches porn. He promised to stop, but hasn't. My heart is breaking.

Q.   I am 35 Years old,Married for 4 years . i my self and my husband still we do not have children in order to have fun in our life .i was very happy with him he's wonderful ,i thought that we had a great sex life together .after a while from our ...

A.   25 October 2008: There is nothing wrong with your husband watching porn. It is not a "bad" habit, but just 1 of those things that he enjoys doing. This does not mean that his feelings for you are any less than what they were before. Withholding sex from him is ... (read in full...)

Why do many marriages fall apart? How can you tell it's not going to work? How can you mend it?

Q.   They say 50% of marriages brakes down. This is very frightening. I wonder why is the other 50% stays alive... Is this partly because of religion? It s almost feels like plague. Spreading ,like a virus. We all know its coming, but you don't kn...

A.   25 October 2008: One of the biggest causes of marriage break down is lack of communication. Another cause is lack of trust. If you can not talk to your spouse then what is the point of being married in the first place? You need to tell each other how you feel, ... (read in full...)

I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. How do I know if he is serious about leaving his wife ?

Q.   I'm seeing a married man, I love a married man. He says he's going to leave his wife not because of me but because he's no longe happy in his marriage but some of the things he says about her I just don't know that I beleive him, How do i know if he ...

A.   25 October 2008: First off, let me say that I was in your situation just about 10 years ago. Second, you will not know if he is serious about leaving until that time comes, if it comes. There are no guarantees. I was one of the rare exceptions. The married man I was ... (read in full...)

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