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I have fallen for my ex's sister!

Q.   Here is my story/question. About a year ago i broke up with my girlfriend whom I have 2 kids with. When she left I started hanging out with her sister. Just over ayear has passed since the breakup and her sister and I have become super good frien...

A.   7 October 2010: She likes you, but she probably came to her senses and realized her sister would never forgive her when she finds out, not to mention it would make for some weird family conversations. The kids belong with sister number one, and sister number two is ... (read in full...)

He said he hasn't cheated but I feel cheated!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now and I am due to have our baby day now, last year we had problems and he left me but we sorted things out and in january i found out I was pregnant, since then he has been amazing kind and caring ...

A.   7 October 2010: If he hiding stuff, I am not sure you will get him to change until he hits rock bottom. It would be hard to tell when he does, because he will probably always be convincing that he will change and stop the secret second life, but how would you ... (read in full...)

We are trying to move past the second affair. Should I stay or should I go now?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 9 years, I cheated on him about 7 years ago and he found out. I never came clean but he is pretty sure that something happened. We have been married now for 6 years and for the past 2 years we have had a rocky ...

A.   6 October 2010: Step away from both relationships for awhile, and get your emotions straightened out. It sounds like you should not have gotten married, but that is done, the damage of cheating, and now a new person again. Back off and let the dust settle, and ... (read in full...)

Help.. broke up with bf and miss him desperately

Q.   hi. i had been dating someone for 2 1/2 years - let's call him jim. jim and i met online, both in relationships we were tired of. so we broke up with our respective others to get together. a week later, we had our first date. it was perfect. in the ...

A.   6 October 2010: Walk away. You sound too good of a person to put yourself through that kind of constant sorrow. I know how you feel, but taken as a whole, you both rebounded out of bad relationships, to only find the next one. Take some time off from dating, ... (read in full...)

A snapshot of my lonesomeness

Q.   Not a relationship question but i wrote this recently, after getting out of a long relationship...Its kind of a snapshot of my lonesomeness, wondering what the next chapter in my life will be(even though i am more than happy its over i still felt ...

A.   6 October 2010: That was some good observations there, and word play. You kind of sound like you are under the rain cloud that is about to float away, that made your day dismay. A storm that had it's furry, and now getting warmer and sunny. Keep up the p... (read in full...)

I said no contact but now I want to talk to him!

Q.   My ex and I broke up 5 days ago. He says he can't see us as the type to get married, but we are young and I think this is unimportant. I told him not to talk to me and that we couldn't be friends. But now I think I want to try to talk and work ...

A.   6 October 2010: You really have to be careful with fighting and breaking up. Those kinds of activities tend to put people a drift. I think you need to first ask yourself do you miss him or the relationship? Why were you starting fights, were they important to you, ... (read in full...)

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